infamous wagoners welcome 2012 with new years resolutions , new babies and never ending chat and definetly no tumbleweed :)

[2012hellokitty]

hi ladies

new thread

Sweepstake

Rugby - due date 20th May (section booked 15th May), girl:
-Ginger: 8lb 15oz
-Rugby: 8lb 6oz

Ses- due date 27th May, unknown:
-Ginger: 8lb 2oz, boy, date 25th May
-Rugby: 9lb 8oz, boy, date 23rd May

Kayz- due date 21st June, girl:
-Ginger: 9lb 14oz, 10th June
-Rugby: 10lb 3oz, 17th June

Sweepstake

Rugby - due date 20th May (section booked 15th May), girl:
-Ginger: 8lb 15oz
-Rugby: 8lb 6oz
-Kayz: 8lb 9oz

Ses - due date 27th May, unknown:
-Ginger: 8lb 2oz, boy, date 25th May
-Rugby: 9lb 8oz, boy, date 23rd May
-Kayz: 8lb 12oz, girl, date 20th May

Kayz- due date 21st June, girl:
-Ginger: 9lb 14oz, 10th June
-Rugby: 10lb 3oz, 17th June
-Kayz: 9lb 10oz, 14th June

Sweepstake

Rugby - due date 20th May (section booked 15th May), girl:
-Ginger: 8lb 15oz
-Rugby: 8lb 6oz
-Kayz: 8lb 9oz
-Ses: 8lb 12oz

Ses - due date 27th May, unknown:
-Ginger: 8lb 2oz, boy, date 25th May
-Rugby: 9lb 8oz, boy, date 23rd May
-Kayz: 8lb 12oz, girl, date 20th May
-Ses: 8lb 14oz, boy, date 21st May

Kayz- due date 21st June, girl:
-Ginger: 9lb 14oz, 10th June
-Rugby: 10lb 3oz, 17th June
-Kayz: 9lb 10oz, 14th June
-Ses: 9lb 12oz, 20th June

Smithy - if you're around, we should set up a sweepstake for you too! Remind us of your due date and previous birth details!

As for me, I think you've probably seen my FB post following my consultant appointment on Tuesday :( Yet again I look destined to not experience a natural birth and worse could have to sit it out in hospital from the middle of next week before a CS at 39 weeks. Really not sure how O or I would cope with being apart for that time and the impact it will have on his acceptance or resentment of DC2. Will have to try and make his hospital visits fun
Consultant has said if baby is still in same position at next Tuesday afternoon's appointment, there is a high chance they will admit me immediately. I did explain that it was DS's birthday on Wednesday and asked if it could be delayed until the Thursday and the registrar just kind of looked at me in a way that wasn't positive! It is also DS's birthday party the following Sunday! I'm hoping that if the worst happens, I'll be let out for a few hours on both his birthday and for his party.

Of course I'm aware that the worst might not happen but the fact that O was in a similar awkward position and didn't move, the consultant has said all the way along that once it's happened with one pg, it's likely to happen again and the fact that I don't think that the baby has moved position for a few weeks, makes me think that the option of the baby getting in the right position is pretty slim.

In the meantime, whereas I was hoping to have 3-4 weeks at least to get everything ready for the new baby, I now potentially have to be ready for next Tuesday just in case!

DH is being great and helping to talk through ways of working round this. His theory is is let's plan for worst case scenario and if anything better happens - great, it's a bonus.

Sorry for me post but it helps to try and get my head round it all!

Sweepstake

Rugby - due date 20th may(section booked 15th may), girl

• ginger: 8lbs 15ozs
• rugby: 8lbs 6ozs
• Kayz: 8lbs 9ozs
• tink: 9lbs

Ses- due date 27th may, unknown
-ginger :8lbs2ozs,boy,date 25th may

• rugby:9lbs8ozs,boy,date 23rd of may
• Kayz: 8lbs12ozs,girl,date 20th may
• tink:8lbs,girl,date 22nd may

Kayz -due date 21st June,girl:
-ginger:9lbs14ozs,10th June

• rugby:10lbs3ozs,17th June
• Kayz :9lbs10ozs 21st June
• tink : 9lbs6ozs 20th june

Hope everyone is ok
Having a quiet me day today
Raining here still
Watching this morning
Went to town this morn

Hello tink - think we x-posted so just reposting the sweepstakes!

Sweepstake

Rugby - due date 20th may(section booked 15th may), girl

• ginger: 8lbs 15ozs
• rugby: 8lbs 6ozs
• Kayz: 8lbs 9ozs
• tink: 9lbs
• Ses: 8lbs 12ozs

Ses- due date 27th may, unknown
-ginger :8lbs2ozs,boy,date 25th may

• rugby:9lbs8ozs,boy,date 23rd of may
• Kayz: 8lbs12ozs,girl,date 20th may
• tink: 8lbs,girl,date 22nd may
• Ses: 8lbs 14ozs , boy, date 21st May

Kayz -due date 21st June,girl:
-ginger:9lbs14ozs,10th June

• rugby:10lbs3ozs,17th June
• Kayz :9lbs10ozs 21st June
• tink : 9lbs6ozs 20th june
• Ses: 9lbs 12ozs 19th June

Hi Ses,

I haven't seen fb so I'm not totally sure why you have to be in hospital - is the baby transverse and are they worried about the cord prolapsing if your waters go? Have you had a bit of a read around to find out how much of a risk that really is? Ultimately it is your decision whether you stay in hospital not the consultants - I'm not suggesting you shouldn't listen to all the advice but if it's important for you to be home on DS's birthday just refuse to stay in or tell them you are going out for a few hours. They might be irritated but you and the DCs are your priority. If nothing else can you find a cafe/restaurant/pub nearby so you could all get together for a long lunch/play but you can still get back to the hospital quickly if anything happens?

I know it's difficult to argue with the hospital staff - I have been told that if I go into labour before the 15th then I'll have to have monitoring and that they will need me to sit/lie fairly still on the bed for the whole labour but I've told them NO WAY! I hated the lack of mobility last time - I couldn't even lie on my side or get onto my knees without the stupid monitor failing. The consultant and midwife were annoyed and said that I would 'have to' have the monitor but I've told them I will just refuse. They can either monitor intermittently, fix the stupid thing so I can move or take me straight through for a section - they aren't pleased but they know they can't force me so they've given up arguing .

I'm not sure what to say about the c-section. It's horrible to have your options taken away and I don't want to belittle your feelings at all but I hope you don't feel too . It would be awful if it ruined your first few precious weeks with your beautiful baby. I think I've found it easier as I didn't really expect my body to co-operate so I was prepared for another section. If you need to rant and get it off your chest the wagon sofa is always there!

Thanks Rugby
The issue is that with the baby in the position it is, if my waters break the cord is likely to fall straight through and rupture (or worse if round baby's neck and there's also a risk of prolapse.
I do find the thought of having to have a CS disappointing but I could cope with that. It's the time away from DS, especially around his birthday that I'm finding so hard. I'm trying to get my head round it now so I'm prepared for Tuesday. Not sure whether to try and prepare DS in some way.

That makes it a really tough decision then. I'm still a bit confused about why it would be vital for you go into hospital on the Tuesday - so they don't class it as a risk on the Monday but you can't wait until Wednesday afternoon for example. Due dates aren't that accurate surely? I can see why you wouldn't want to argue though. What are the visiting hours like at the hospital? I'm sure DS will be fine but I know how you feel - I'm worried about being in for a couple of days even though DD is fine with being at my parents for the weekend and will prob just love the time with daddy and grandad. I wonder if Cant is lurking - I think she was in for a few days last time so she might have more advice. I'll just keep everything crossed for you that baby moves before Tuesday!

Will post sweepstake later this eve as currently on steps waiting for DD to fall asleep
Ses, sorry everything isn't going as planned - prayers and thoughts with you. I know it all must feel horrid as what you really want is to have baby naturally and be away from DS and DH for as little time as possible. If I can reassure you - I was away from DS very suddenly from DD's birth for 2.5 weeks. Initially DH was with us at hospital, DS was looked after by a mixture of my Mum and PIL - he coped better than I did! It did not affect his bond with his sister at all - he told all and sundry about his baby sister very proudly and his relationship with us remained strong. Having said that, I agree with all that Rugby has said about whether you choose to go in when they say you have to and getting out for DS's bday and party. If you do have to go in, then relish the time you get to sit on your own, having food and drink, watching tv, reading, whatever... All as you wish/when you like - it won't happen again for a while . Sorry I bet that seems flippant... Really hope you get things the way you want them, but most importantly that you and your baby are healthy.

Thank you Star. I'm determined if it does have to happen to try and make the most of the positives! It is very reassuring to be reminded of the scenario that you and your family had to go through. DS may well just take it all in his stride.

I wonder whether hospitals have WiFi for patients so that I can at least MN?!

I have finally managed to get some baby clothes washed and dried today so I can start packing bags!

Hope all ok with you Star ?

Hello wagon!

SES I saw you fb status I'm sorry about the situation. I can imagine the not knowing bit is the worst part because you can't plan anything. But at least DH is being super supportive and I think he's got the right idea re: planning for worst case scenario.

Is there anything you can do to change the baby's position? I'm sure O will be just fine like Rugby and Star say. If he's anything like T he'll love the helping out bit - give him lots of little jobs to do to help out with the baby so he feels involved and needed. Hopefully it will help his big brother instincts to kick in!

I'll be thinking of you over the next few days.

Nothing new to report here. CD3. Ho hum. DH has had some good meetings but no immediate jobs on the horizon which kind of has me bummed and relieved all at the same time. We've got a few things coming up in England this summer - MIL taking us all to Cornwall for a week in July to celebrate DH & BIL's 40th and SIL getting married early August - that we've already committed to. Would be a shame to miss either and to would feel bad about backing out. I forgot who asked but we've been in the UK for 8 years now. I would really love to be closer to my family as DS gets older and I would love to experience having a baby in the US just because it was how I always imagined it would be, with all my family around. I had a lovely experience in England but would like to do the flip side too.

Good morning all

Ses- what a lot of unexpected worry and stress for your final few weeks and maternity leave I do think, as LBOT says, your DH is right- plan for the worse case then you are prepared.
Gorgeous little O will be fine with you in hosp even if you feel more wobbly about being away from his birthday. Especially if you have a present for him when he comes in. Has he seen the Peppa Pig episode when Pedro is in hospital? He might find it a bit of adventure - though he is probably less likely to meet Mr Bull in the lift

Did your DH sort out the party ?

LBOT- I dont think I asked but I was wondering how long you'd been inthe UK too . Will you move back to NYC when you go back? I can totally understand you wanting to be with you family now after a long stint in the UK, especially now thinking about TTC #2.
Have you now got yourself referred to doc re the TTC mission?

Tink- how are you feeling about your first day at work tomorrow? I really think you've been amazing sorting out the money issues, talking to everyone and really opening up. Not many people in that situation would be prepared to do that -

Rugby- I cant believe how close you are ! Glad you have stood your ground about the monitoring etc. Hope miniRugby#2 holds on

Kayz- how are you today?

All good except, minor moan- Am massively tired. Hoping it passes soon. This week has been much better for nausea so hoping thats on the way out. 14wks already. Eek. Told most of work now so just some family members left but they have been on holiday and Im a fan of face to face annoucements rather than texts.

xx

crikey - sorry for the essay Wagoners!

Thanks LBOT and Ginger
Good idea about that Peppa Pig episode. Don't think he's seen that one so will see if I can find it on YouTube.

Ginger - hopefully the tiredness will ease in the 2nd trimester. Can't believe you're 14 weeks already!!

LBOT - have you got any timescales for your move or is it more dependant on your DH's situation? What job have you got?

tink - I echo what Ginger has said. Good luck for tomorrow!

I'm off to meet my new boss later this morning. How do I create the right impression for someone who he's only worked with less than a week but wants to keep the momentum of my career going when I get back?

good luck with the boss!

Episode is in a double with 'Grandpa Pig's computer' and its called 'Hospital'.

Ses do you know if I can take immodiums? I don't feel too great and have spent all morning on the loo. (sorry tmi) I actually feel ok, don't feel sick or anything.

McKayz - yes, you can take imodium. I'd start off with just one so you don't go the other extreme and get clogged up! All usual other advice - plenty of water and if you get a temperature or it gets bad then phone GP.

Ginger - thanks! I'll go and hunt that episode down!

Meeting with new boss went well. He has a 7wk old DD so that helps! He was very human and keen to keep me up to date and have things progress with input from me as to what I would want :)

SES - so glad your meeting with new boss went well. He sounds like a decent guy!

Also maybe the PP episode where Mrs Rabbit has twins but that one's more to make you laugh than DS. It's got a lot of adult jokes in it, that one!

I spoke too soon about DH - he's actually got an interview n Tuesday for a great job. Strangely with the company he worked for in NY when we first met. So fingers crossed! Ses, everything depends on his job at the moment. When we get to NY, I may look for a part time job depending on DS's pre-school situation (it may be difficult to get him in someplace for September on such short notice) and whether or not I get pregnant in the meantime. I actually didn't go back to work after maternity leave but I've just gotten a job in London, as in I'm meant to start when we return from our holiday. It's a great job, just two days a week but doing marketing for a dance company so really in line with "my career" so perfect for now.

Ginger - yay for telling! It must be so exciting. Can't remember, did I ask?, what will be the gap between your two?

Happy weekend everyone!

Ginger - sorry, just reread your questions - we said we'd go as far north as Boston or as far south as DC but our search is focused on NYC (though we'll live outside of the city) as it's closest to most of our friends and family. My parents are about 60miles outside of Manhattan.

Also meant to ask - any suggestions for DS's 3rd birthday? The past two years we've just had a family BBQ at ours but I think three is old enough for a kiddie party, but our garden is not really big enough nor particularly child friendly. Was considering a church hall or the park with an entertainer, but not sure what to have?