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January 2012 - Will any of us deliver before Father Christmas? The race is on!

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MakesXmasCakesWhenStressed · 14/12/2011 08:58

Hope you don't mind the slight tweaking of the thread title :) I was feeling creative! Not that it matters, at this rate it won't last more than a week...!

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Wormshuffler · 14/12/2011 16:36

Hi Ladies
I have been to the assessment unit today as baby didn't move for 12 hours. Was very stressful but during the 1 hour and 20 minutes ! journey to the hospital it woke up :) I really did think it was the end though, was a wailing mess.
Was on the monitor for an hour and baby was still really quiet until they gave me some toast them it started going its usual nutty self.
They were very thorough and also sent me for a scan. All looks of with the baby re growth heart etc, but there was a high level of fluid. She also did a doppler reading on the placenta which was too high then another 2 which were medium to high and a third just above average.
They want me to see the consultant tomorrow which I was doing anyway to book in for my ELCS so he will be able to explain to me what the readings mean. MW said she suspected he will want a repeat scan.

Sorry this is all me me me, I'm off to google it all now but will catch up on thread later xx

GhosteditorOfChristmasPast · 14/12/2011 16:38

Miamama, ahem, I might be with you on that one.

Cakes why thank you! I thought you looked lovely too dahhhling Grin

By the way - il neige!

GhosteditorOfChristmasPast · 14/12/2011 16:40

Ooh worm what a stressful day! Keep an eye on the movements, you definitely did the right thing. Fab that you'll have some answers tomorrow. Fx for you.

GhosteditorOfChristmasPast · 14/12/2011 16:40

Yy to first aid tips pls...

Oeisha · 14/12/2011 16:42

Ah! Sorry Mia. Missed you there.
I keep getting little rushes (I can feel it woosh out). Not enough to soak a pad, just a ml or so. MW seems to think everything's fine and just 'normal' discharge for this stage. They did want me to go and get my cervix checked, but we were snowed in at the time and there was no way in hell I was risking a road journey for 50mins (or 5h from the state of the traffic) when it'd been happening for days, it just to happened I chose that day to ring them.

For me it was like normal discharge (though I couldn't exactly tell when that bit came out) with the occasional rush or clear, non-smelling liquid and a generalised damp feeling. I did see a MW who seemed very un-concerned (but WOULD NOT do a speculum as I was only 33+5), but did get me to take a swab and sent it off. I've heard nowt so assume it's fine.
The frequency of them has dropped but they're still happening. My rushes are random rather than happening under any strain. Saw another MW at 34wks and she wasn't worried either.
Still might be worth reporting it to your MW and they can make the decision based on what you tell them.

Oeisha · 14/12/2011 16:44

Crikey! worm what a stressful day. Hopefully the consultant will have some answers for you tomorrow. FX and

miamamaClaus09 · 14/12/2011 16:48

thanks for the reassurance, nice to know it's 'normal'!

Worm - take it easy, don't do too much googling, as you will get all the answers you need tomorrow and can ask more in depth questions and get proper answers from the consultant!

MakesXmasCakesWhenStressed · 14/12/2011 16:53

Well the guy had 30 years' experience of being a paramedic as well as being an ex military medic. He really knew his stuff and warned us to check, with any further courses we did, that the instructor was fully qualified. This guy had qualifications coming out of his ears.

Let's see - what were the most useful things?

Recognising Meningitis in a small baby: high pitched, piercing scream, sleepy and difficult to wake up, refusing to feed and any food that does go down comes straight back up - the food won't smell digested or sicky at all. Get baby straight to A&E

Burns on a baby - any burn (inc steam and scald) that is bigger than a thumbprint needs to go to A&E because of their smaller mass to surface area ratio.

Bruises on baby - any bruise bigger than a thumbprint do not allow baby (or small child) to be submerged in warm water if possible - no swimming or bath. Something to do with nitrogen intake and bubbles in the bloodstream - I was a bit tired and confused by this point, but can ask DH to clarify if anyone wants the technical info.

cuts and bleeds - rinse out with cold clean water, do not use antiseptic cream as it's too strong for infant epidermis and more likely than not will cause scarring.

Traumatic situations - keep voice low, calm and quiet. The majority of infant deaths occur due to neuralgic shock when parents panic during a trauma because babies' hearing is so acute and the sound of shouting, crying, panicking etc can cause their systems to shut down.

Oh yes - and does anyone know the reason we wash new clothes, esp baby clothes? I thought it was because they had some kind of coating on them, but it's actually because the majority of them come from China and the Middle East where they need to keep rats out of the bales of clothing so they chuck rat poison everywhere which can perfuse into the clothing and be released on contact with a warm body.

Right. That's the best I can do from memory via writing :) Shout out if you want me to find out the organisation who organised our course.

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Nanny01 · 14/12/2011 16:53

Hi ladies no section for me baby is head down. Really pleased.

MakesXmasCakesWhenStressed · 14/12/2011 16:55

Wait - wtf - did you say it was snowing ghost?

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miamamaClaus09 · 14/12/2011 16:58

yey nanny!!! great news for you!! Xmas Smile

SpagBollyandtheIvy · 14/12/2011 16:59

Just back from mw, we are 4/5 which I think means just a tiny bit heading in the right direction engagement-wise. She told me a cautionary story about a lady who gave birth unexpectedly at her friends house at a party over Christmas. The house was filthy and full of drunk people (including her own DH). So, don't ignore any twinges folks, no matter if you are having a good time - especially if it's not your 1st baby :o
(mother and baby were both fine btw)

SpagBollyandtheIvy · 14/12/2011 17:01

Good newnanny!

Where is the snow?

addictediam · 14/12/2011 17:03

Yea nanny, pleased for you :o does that mean you can go ahead with your home birth (appoligies if i have you mixed up with someone else!)

SlightlyStuffed · 14/12/2011 17:14

That's great news Nanny! You must be over the moon.

I had a scan last week to check the position and baby is head down too. I was so relieved to hear as my 'drama-rama' midwife had told me at 30 weeks it was breech and how I'd have to go to hospital for manual turning.

Heartburn has improved considerably the past few days so I'm wondering if that's a sign that baby has dropped down. Anybody have any ideas?

The doctor estimated that baby will be 3.6kg at my due date. I think that's 7lb 9oz.

Livened · 14/12/2011 17:27

worm I am so glad baby is active again and am sure you will have more info soon.

Just remember how resilient our little ones are and try not to worry too much. Well done for going to get checked though - ive had a relatively problem free pregnancy but would hope I have the sense to get checked out like you did if I though something was wrong.

Builders back in the house today as we had a leak in the conservatory - I had forgotten ow tiring it was making cups of tea every hour!

ParsleyandChestnutStuffingLion · 14/12/2011 17:45

Hopefully you will get some answers from the consultant tomorrow worm. Don't over google - it may throw up stuff to unnecessarily worry you and you'll get the answers you need tomorrow anyway.

Great news nanny does that now mean the hb is now back on? Smile

scrambled my heartburn is definitely improved since bubs has moved down. It's still occasionally there but not constant like it was when she was breach.

GhosteditorOfChristmasPast · 14/12/2011 17:59

Snow around Oxford - quote widespread from the texts I've had! Not settling but DH just had to land his plane while it was snowing quite heavily Grin

It was the soggy kind so I'm more concerned about ice tomorrow than snow. Am using it as an excuse to get out of a committee meeting tonight.

Smile to the head down babies, such a relief, isn't it! Smile

MakesXmasCakesWhenStressed · 14/12/2011 18:02

No snow here... :(

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Wormshuffler · 14/12/2011 18:41

Thanks girls, well I have been googling away and feel a little better. The placenta resistance appears to be the flow of blood from placenta to baby. If the resistance is too high it causes less blood flow to the baby and growth problems (which I don't have) regular monitoring seems to be the way they go, every other day for a doppler scan apparently. If the resistance gets so high it cuts off the supply then instant delivery required.

The extra fluid can mean GD, which i don't have or in 1% of cases congenital abnormalities, details more sketchy on google. I did have 3d scan to check for abnormalities at 29 weeks that was fine.

So I am actually feeling a little more positive. The thing is though had I not got stressed about the decreased movements I never would have had the scan which picked these potential issues up. Baby wiggling fine now btw Grin

Livened · 14/12/2011 18:44

No snow in Cheshire but bitterly cold. My heartburn is horrendous, I'm waking up 2 or3 times per night to down gaviscon and a Rennie.

It's throughout the day and doesn't matter what I eat, so tomorrow for my birthday I'm probably going to say sod it and have a curry!

I've heard this means my baby has lots of hair on it's head - I'll let you all know the results of this theory in a few weeks!

I've got two friends round for a drink tonight while hubby is off at a golfing dinner - is it so bad that I wish it was just going to be me and the dog smuggles on the sofa?

FrillyMilly · 14/12/2011 18:46

worm how frightening that must have been for you but at least baby is ok and you should have all your answers tomorrow.

Mias I've been having loads of discharge. Wet patches in my knickers and a bit when I wipe. I thought I was getting thrush but it's mostly clear and no itching. I remember having quite a lot last time.

Nanny that's brilliant news!!

No snow where I am in lancashire.

SantaSHO · 14/12/2011 18:52

Hope you get dome proper answers tommorrow worm .
Fantastic news nanny

Managed to get physio appointment for Friday. Apparently if I called yesterday I could have been seen today. Doh!

That's interesting about the facial symmetry. Imo I definitely look (and feel) shitty just now. I'm at my spottiest iv been all pregnancy as well.

SantaSHO · 14/12/2011 20:29

In the last few hours dd has went from having a sniffly nose to a who-left-the-tap-on nose. I can barely make out a word she's saying she is that loaded with the cold.

On the plus side it means she won't be at nursery tommorow, which I was dreading as I'm really struggling to get up from sitting down. Cocodamol hasn't kicked in get-hurry up :(

ParsleyandChestnutStuffingLion · 14/12/2011 21:13

Shame about the physio sho Sad sending lasting vibes to numb the pain a bit til Friday - and non-infectious vibes for DD.