on boys, my (usually lovely) IVF nurse said, on finding out that one of the embryos had died before 7 weeks "it's just as well isn't it?" (er, no), she followed that with "let's hope it's not a boy, they're awful". i amused and shocked really that someone talking to someone who REALLY wanted children, would be positive about one dying, and negative about boys. People are SO wierd about boys!
My history: I'm 32 with an 18 month DD, also conceived through IVF as husband has spinal injury when he was 16, playing rugby, and spinal injuries affect everything, even sperm, amazingly. Both cycles worked first time. DH is a church pastor, coming to the end of his training job, and we need to find a job and move by May, we have no idea where we'll end up, but that's fine (as long as it's not near inlaws :) )
Been feeling pretty normal today, now I remember what it feels like to bloom!
Oh, blast, it's raining on the nappies. Oh well, since i'm in bed, they'll have to get wet.