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Bursting At The Seams February Baby Bus 2012

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BillComptonstrousers · 29/06/2011 15:14

Yay, new thread, old one here god you lot can talk Grin

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pinkhollie · 30/06/2011 21:38

Really pleased to hear your news innocent I've booked myself in for a private scan next tue when I will be exactly 8w. I need to see a heartbeat and me and DH are both struggling to keep it a secret ie he told 5 clients on Tue but we haven't told quite important members of our family yetBlush.

My nausea was awful this eve but think it was because I hadn't eaten for about 7 hours. What is working for me is slices of lemon in hot water. Really calms the stomach.

pinkhollie · 30/06/2011 21:38

arrrgh forgot to sign off 7+2

shipsladyg · 30/06/2011 21:47

Pinkhollie - we're the same; finding it easier to tell less important people.

Needle · 30/06/2011 21:55

Same over here. DH is terrible at keeping secrets. I swear, all our builders know, but hardly any of my friends or family. I told a total stranger at the swimming pool yesterday, then caught myself mid sentence like "what the hell are you doing? you weirdo"

TheWicketKeeperIsDown · 30/06/2011 22:16

Bill, my birthday is Valentines Day too! And I'm with you - if I'm in labour on my birthday I will be seriously unchuffed.

Needles, I think it's very similar to my pregnancy with DD so far other than the fact my boobs aren't killing me. I can't quite remember at what stage they got so sore last time. The vomiting is a bit better this time - I was doing proper piling several times a day at this stage with her whereas this time I have most-of-the-day nausea with quite a lot of dry retching. But absolutely flaming exhausted - check. Off coffee and chocolate - check. Craving mill and artificial-cheese flavour snacks and hash browns - check. Weeping all over the place like an idiot for absolutely no reason - check.

TheWicketKeeperIsDown · 30/06/2011 22:17

Whoops! 6+3

And DH has just told MIL - our mini sonographer-to-be is staying with them tomorrow and we reckoned we'd rather tell her ourselves!

melliebobs · 30/06/2011 22:23

Oh my god this thing moves FAST. Just come back from a meal at pizza express. Most I've eaten all week. It was YUM. Also told my mum the news so glad it went down well! It's always felt like she thought me and children was a but if a joke! Phew. Was terrified to tell her!

melliebobs · 30/06/2011 22:24

Oh yerr 6+6 today

PamBeesly · 30/06/2011 22:39

Here everyone if we have Aquarius babies here is the low down on them already :)

The child of Aquarius is original, rebellious and very special. It is not easy to describe him because he has so many facets. He is jumpy, and always in motion. He will be a rebel from infancy and will not be an obedient child. He is very clever and he learns quickly how things work. He is very curious as well as sociable. He is attracted to the unusual, objects in motion, vivid colours, and anything animated. That is why you have to keep an eye on him when he starts to walk. He is attracted to electronic components, like TV sets, computers, VCRs, audio equipment, etc. and he is always placing his little fingers on the panel where the controls are, driving everybody crazy! It is a very good idea to have computer games at home, because he will enjoy it very much. Remember, if you have any electronic equipment at home, it would be better to show him how to use it, than to forbid him to touch it.

When something is interesting for him, he learns with incredible rapidity; sometimes he is a kind of genius. One of his worse problems is being easily bored, so he is always looking for something new. His moods are not very constant, and he can feel up and down on the same day. Though he is a bit unpredictable, he is usually charming and outgoing.

Parents should be cautious when choosing a school for him, because he has a special mind, and it needs constant stimulation. A conservative and traditional education could be catastrophic. He needs to be in touch with modern and futuristic things. His mental vibrations are connected with the future, rather than the past. He is very intelligent but sometimes absent-minded, especially when he is bored at school. His creativity and originality are unbelievable, and it is very important to help him develop these qualities from the beginning. Though he is artistically talented, his creativity is not limited only to this field, and he could also be an inventor. A good gift could be the combination of a set of special pencils and pens and an engineering set, so he can build bridges and towers. He also loves science-fiction, and all things connected with the Universe.

Aquarius Baby's personality includes a combination of a firm practical sense and an unbelievable perception, with a sharp and penetrating logic. His answers will be clear and precise, though at first there will be always "no" for an answer to any order or suggestion. After complaining and thinking about the subject, his final reaction will be reasonable and coherent. He becomes more rebellious and extravagant during adolescence. His parents must be prepared to accept his extravagant hairdos and clothes, his lack of punctuality, as well as his unconventional behaviour. Then he will calm down. Remember that it is not a very good idea to attack or contradict him. Instead, it is best to have fun with him. The same attitude should be taken with his friends, who will be unusual. His great energy belongs to his mind, so he needs some help in practicing physical activities. It is very important to show him, as a child, how to take responsibility and to be conscientious about his choices. This will help him to be more responsible and will keep him from choosing the easiest way. Parents should always remember that this child is very special, that he will not follow the usual path, and that the world changes thanks to this kind of person.

PamBeesly · 30/06/2011 22:40

and here for our little pisces babies :

The child of Pisces is extremely sensitive, intuitive and affectionate. He prefers to live in a world of fantasy, without timetables or routines. He eats only when he is hungry; he sleeps when he is sleepy; he plays when he feels inspired. His attitude is reasonable but his hunger, sleep and play patterns change day by day. The best way to teach him to be disciplined is with love. He is extremely emotional, and he will change his attitude if he feels he is hurting his parents with his behaviour. The adult world frightens him, and that is why he prefers to take refuge in his own world of fantasies. To avoid developing this innate escapist attitude, it is very important to assist and support him.

He has extraordinary intuition, and he will sometimes surprise you with dreams and visions which then become reality. He perceives, but does not understand, everything that is happening around him. It is important not to argue (this is especially for his parents) in front of him, because he could feel that he is the cause.

His extreme sensitivity makes him feel the financial or domestic tensions. A good way to help him is by taking him to places close to nature. His energy is renewed when he walks in the park, plays or stays at the beach, or just has fun in the backyard studying insects. It is important to let him have a dog or a cat. If he does not have one, he will create a pet within his imagination. His solitude must be respected; he travels very far with his mind. His inspiration makes him very good at music, dance, poetry and painting. Being so sensitive, any rough attitude hurts him quite easily, and it is common to see him crying. Sometimes he seems to be lying, but it is his imagination which makes him see things in an unreal context. Instead of repressing him, it is better to encourage him in writing or painting.

It will not be easy for Pisces Baby to adapt to the demands of school, but if he feels the love of his teachers, this will help him to fulfil his duties. His behaviour is very changeable, and sometimes it is contradictory. The little fish changes its course again and again, sometimes in enthusiasm for something new, but sometimes in order to avoid reality. Pisces Baby is very affectionate, and he will give love to all the people around him. He loves life itself, and he feels compassion for all human beings. His parents must understand this to avoid hurting his sensitive feelings. While an adolescent, he will be very romantic. His first loving experiences will be crucial, as they could mark his behaviour in the future. If these experiences are not very positive, this child could have deep fears and insecurities. Parents should not laugh at him; on the contrary, they must support him. He is easily influenced; almost anyone can convince him to do something. He is easily deluded. He tries to escape whenever he gets hurt or feels fear, and may sleep a lot when this happens. Parents must not worry about this because the only certainty in his destiny is change. Children of Pisces need huge amounts of love and then they can face life and make their dreams come true.

InnocentRedhead · 30/06/2011 22:42

Why evening ladies! I am wide awake for the night as i had a 3 hour nap waking up at 8, so hmph, trying to think of things to do!!! Except boredom!

I keep looking at the picture of our little apple seed - they measure 6.9mm, about 6+3 - so i may be a little out with my dates, but as i say everything all present and correct as it would be at this stage!! The most memorable thing of the scan was not seeing my baby though, does that sound bad... The thing that i came away with was DPs smile... It just confirmed that baby was there for em as i had being wondering, obviously it cleared up concerns for us both, but i think it was a real defining moment for him too! I'm gushing now :)

I haven't had any dinner tonight, but I did sleep through it... Being eating sweets though Hmm can't get enough of fruity mentos :o

On the note of telling people, we told my parents last week, but after that i just could not hold it, and now everyone knows, however it was getting difficult to have normal conversations with people. I am sure you all know what that is like!

I cannot believe how quickly this thread moves tbh... And we are STILL getting new members! Hello to everyone!!!! Remember to update the stats thread and keep drinking your de-caff Brew

InnocentRedhead · 30/06/2011 22:45

Needle RE twins, a little gutted yeah, however, there is only one PG sac, that does mean there could be identical ones as at this stage it is way too early to tell, but yeah i think now there is only one!! As long as they are healthy that is all that matters

Needle · 30/06/2011 23:07

Innocent- I was addicted to mentos and softmints in my last pregnancy- I went completely crazy for minty things. At about 7 months I got the most insane craving for mint chocolate chip ice cream, and DH and I spent almost a whole day driving round london trying to find some. We went to 11 supermarkets before we eventually got hold of a tub in Iceland. I'll never forget how sweet and patient my husband was that day- it was scorching and we got stuck in the car for hours.
The only reason I ask about the twin thing is becuase when I was pg with Gwen, my nan was convinced that she was going to be twins, and every time I spoke to her or my mum it was all "well, twins do run in our family" and I'm certain there's two in there" so that when I finally went to the scan and there was just the one, I felt almost like I'd let them down! (couple that with the fact that there hasn't been a firstborn girl in DH's family for 500 years, so finding out she was a she at 20 week scan nearly finished me off) Anyway I didn't want you to feel bad. Once that little one starts growing and squirming around you wont care a jot, and like you said, at least now you know that it's totally fine in there.

Just dug out my pregnancy fitness DVDs. Has anyone else tried Erin O'Brien's prenatal fitness fix? It's actually a pretty good workout, even this early on. Always happy for other recommendations though, as the same workout for the next 34 weeks is going to get very dull!

Needle · 30/06/2011 23:21

Btw innocent, if you're still bored. Watch tonight's episode of One Born Every Minute USA, it's really good.

Needle · 30/06/2011 23:43

Actually, I retract that. It's getting quite scary, and might not be a brilliant recommendation. I'm really sorry if anyone's been upset by it.

LolaRennt · 01/07/2011 01:24

couple that with the fact that there hasn't been a firstborn girl in DH's family for 500 years, so finding out she was a she at 20 week scan nearly finished me of

Wasn't the first born girl thing a nice surprise?

TheWicketKeeperIsDown · 01/07/2011 07:16

EnvyEnvyEnvy

Why did I agree to go through this again?!

Needle · 01/07/2011 07:25

lola it wasn't that it was bad, if was just such a huge surprise- his family just don't make girls!

wicketkeeper it will pass hun. I know that's not a great help, but it will pass and 2nd trimester is usually really nice. Just hang in there.

pixelpeeper · 01/07/2011 07:31

Hello

I think I belong here....

pixelpeeper · 01/07/2011 07:36

Shit

I haven't been taking folic acid pills, and I don't eat bread or cereal which are fortified, what does this mean??

Needle · 01/07/2011 07:57

pixelpeeper not the end of the world, don't worry. just start taking your colic acid now, until your 1st trimester is up. When are you due?

puzzletree · 01/07/2011 08:13

Pam I'm aquarius (feb 15) and that description is so not me, apart from the genius bit of course :)

needle So cool that you had the first girl like that. I felt worse in my second pregnancy, my DS1 was only 1 though and I was still working 3 days a week so I think I didn't get much time to rest. This time I can be a bit lazier as the boys are that much older and I stay at home, feeling worryingly good so far. It's never quite the same as your first pregnancy, the excitement of getting everything new etc. But on the plus side I did find labour/birth much easier, and the newborn days weren't quite so scary either. Overall I enjoyed everything more second time round :), hope you do too!

re: one born every minute, they're doing the next UK series here in Leeds, there's a bit of a recruitment drive but unfortunately :) they need people due at the end of this year so I'm not eligible. Would be cool if I do recognise some of the participants though!

Needle · 01/07/2011 08:48

I am a wreck today. Just can't stop crying. I've got to stop because I think dd is starting to get frightened. Poor little sod is only 11m old.

shipsladyg · 01/07/2011 09:14

Oh Needle. It'll be fine! Just don't watch any advert's for the RSPCA or Oxfam. They had me blubbing yesterday.

Well done those of you watching OBEM. Haven't been able to yet. If I could pay for a private midwife, I would. But then I'm a control freak.

Feeling green around the gills this morning. Blergh. They do say be careful what you wish for. I wanted to feel a bit more pregnant and feeling icky boo kinda fits the bill. Now, Where are the dry crackers?

LittleBoxes · 01/07/2011 09:26

Hello everyone. I seem to be getting one pregnancy symptom per day. Today it's ... drumroll .... excess saliva. Mmmmm.

Shipslady, I know what you mean about telling unimportant people ? I was on the phone to my mum yesterday and was thinking of telling her but just couldn't get the words out. And just that morning I'd been happily telling the woman who served me in Holland and Barrett!

DH told his mum yesterday, because he happened to be visiting her for his uncle's funeral. His dad has just been fitted with a hearing aid and DH had to repeat it loudly about 5 times before he got the gist of what he was saying, which, as DH said, rather took the excitement out of it.

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