Shagged out Viroid Grads 3...

[ConfessionsOfAnAchingFanjo]

Ha! I made it to the next thread.

My mum has suggested that So far I am maintaining my diginity...not sure how long it will last

lots to read through.
at constant weeing...

glad everything worked out Esk - that must have been a nightmare for you. :(

Realised yesterday that all the clothes that fit me were in the washing waiting to be done.
Did a wash in the afternoon, but it's still not dry (didn't risk putting it outside, cos it was nearly dark by the time we got back from evensong)
I spent yesterday in a skirt that was slightly too tight, so uncomfortable (and i managed to get my dinner down it ), but then I found a skirt to wear today.

I had a horrible day yesterday.
I hardly slept all night, Saturday night, and then at about 8 o'clock (when I wanted to get the extra half hour before having to get up) the workmen arrived and started doing stuff so loudly it sounded like they were in the room with me! (they were working on the soffits, and the sound was travelling right through the roof space)
So I got up in a bad mood.
Then I spent most of the service having to sit down because I felt weak and dizzy.
Then after the service, DH said he wanted to change the candles for evensong, and I wanted him to listen to the recording of the anthems, so after a small row discussion, i told him to listen while I started the candles (i didn't want to do the candles! I was just being nice!) anyway, I ended up doing a whole row of candles that I did not want to do , because DH was talking to a man who had just had his wife's funeral last week (and I couldn't say anything, could I!) When he'd finished that conversation, I had a go at him about it (across the room, pointedly stating that he should be changing candles instead of gossiping), then after we'd left the church I shouted at him.
Then I stormed off, and he didn't follow me!
When he got home, I ignored him until I had to shout at him again (oh, yes, in the garden in front of the neighbours and the workmen...)
I said "the only role you have to worry about in this pregnancy is to hug me and tell me it'll all be alright"
bloody men.
i did sob a lot when I got inside the house, too.

oh, i forgot my positive bit!

i'm definitely feeling movement now - yesterday in church, completely randomly when I was sitting down, i felt a "pop" (like someone flicking me from the inside) - it was definitely not wind, and it was central.
I felt something similar 3 times yesterday, and I think i've felt it this morning too.

Awh, glad you have postive movement. It doesn't get any less every time! Even the more painful ones!

Just sent my DH an email telling him I think he is petty and pathetic....with hindsight all it has served is to prove I am both of those

bloody men.
why can't they get the hormones and tiredness and the unable to sleep? - DH just puts his head on the pillow and goes off to sleep.
'sunfair.

PS - fab name change!

bb you need Sky. Then you can watch re-runs of Blockbusters all afternoon . you're in your pre-pregnancy jeans though. I tried to buy a cheap pair in Tesco's yesterday just for slobbing in, and thought I'd go for a size 10 as their sizes are always big on me. Needless to say I got half way over my arse and had to stop ...

Good one esk for noticing the difference in the baby's movements - it's great you got reassurance and good they know the baby's position has shifted too (though I'm sure it will shift back again in time :))

Aw vallinna and nickel I think we're all entitled to a row like this. We had Marmite-Gate in our house at about 36 weeks pregnant. I asked DH to put the marmite back in its proper place when he'd finished with it. He accused me of nagging, which is 100% not my thing, and said he didn't want us to nag each other just because we were having a baby. Somehow this escalated and I ended up sobbing in the car on the way to Tesco's and saying I had a right to nest and he just had to accept it. Very weird, as we never argue like that! (But the marmite has stayed in its place ).

All still going pretty well over here. Nipples have healed thanks to the magic of Lanolin, and the baby is feeding like a monkey :)

I've had a few meltdowns about generally pointless things (the things you look back afterwards and think, wtf was that all about)... most recently because DP came back smelling of chlorine (they use some weird smelling stuff at our pool) so I asked him to have another shower as it made me feel sick and he had a bit of a strop. I ended up sobbing over the washing up... DP did apologise straight after though

Bloody hormones! It would be quite useful if blokes could get the hormonal bit, but I doubt they would cope... they haven't had the years of PMT as training!

PS woohoo for the movements Nickel, they will only get stronger from here on in! [hgrin]

Why are the wizard smileys not working? hmmmph!

I 'slept' on the sofa until 3am, then needed to go for a pee and returned to bed. I was grumpy because dh didn't notice I was gone

Anyway, after he went to work today I went to rest my eyes and have not long woken Think I need my own bed, lol.

at all the grumpiness at dh's. It has made me realise it is probably me. Agreed that they couldn't cope with the hormones

Oh, please feel free to come and recommend baby boy names on my thread in the names section. It is stressing me out

[hgrin]
(testing)

ooh, that's not good.
do you think i could do a strop to MNHQ and start sobbing?

Katee - that's quite funny about the washign thing - i only have to tell DH i think he smells funny and he offers to wash!
he knows my sense of smell has gone through the roof since the pg.

I'll look for your thread, B2B

go for it nickel

Generally DP smells fine, I just tend to dread the twice weekly swim...

Thank you for the baby name help . I am feeling a bit more confident about it now. Had so many names rejected, think I was starting to feel a bit ambivalent about it. Btw, it is very hard to discuss on mn without outing yourself ie that is my name, my brothers name, husbands name etc...

Morning viroids.

All of a sudden I am feeling humongous! There is now an awful lot of baby in front of me! Very tired too, the gym was knckering this morning, but in a good (ish!) way.

Also spent alot of the night either having BH or being kicked a lot (wasn't too awake to define the difference) which was not a huge amount of fun! Plus DH and I have gone from a king size to a double bed...we've decided we much prefer being apart in bed at night this inforced snuggling (well, me kicking him about) is not so much fun!

At least we are speaking again

And there was you worrying you had a tiny bump perhaps something just went boiing and out it popped!

Glad you and DH are talking again!

Nickel have you two made up now? Hope so!

oh, yes, we made up straight away.
After I did the sobbing bit, he sat me down o nthe settee, put his arm over me, paused for a minute and went "it'll be alright".

and I went "that's more like it"

this baby must be moving around quite a bit today, because I'm sitting here feeling lijke i'm really nervous! (i've got butterflies flying around in my tummy) - it's not nerves, because I'm calmly sitting here trying to find the beginning of a very long (upside down) list of books!

I know right, never happy - something definately went boiing...hoping it's not an ab!

Anybody looking on Amazon for stuff, have you found the moneysavingexpert discount finder? Dead useful - it finds baby stuff (and other things) that are 70-100% off! www.moneysavingexpert.com/amazon-tool/60032031/75-100/false I've just picked up a couple of Lamaze toys for 56p (for the two) including postage... which can't be right, but that's what they are listed at so...

Well I would have bought them but it wouldn't let me send them to my address, gah!

Mine did that, vallinna. I actually had a mild case of diastasis rectii so be very careful about (not) sitting straight up from a lying down position and doing anything which remotely resembles a sit-up.

Katee I've had that too with Amazon. It's bizarre...