November 2011 Mums-to-be

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Am I the first? I can't see another November thread.

Ok, my stats, I am 32, have 1 dd (2.1) and edd is 03/11/2011.

I had a mc at Christmas but feel ok about this pregnancy, though I only found out 3 days ago so I may get a bit more panicked as time passes.

Anyone else want to join me in a November baby thread?

loup so sorry to hear your news :(

Fx cep....

bump - I've not had any sickness yet but had sore breasts for about 3 weeks which just suddenly stopped so I've no idea what's going on either!

bump and laabama I've had no really symptoms either, except being tired. Today I'm 5+5, so its pretty early yet.

My Dr's app is not until next week so hopefully she'll be reassuring.

did anyone bring DH/DP to their first Dr's appt or do you wait until the first scan?

oh loup so so sorry!:( fx it wont take to long to conceive again! hopefully youl be on the next dec/jan thread! good luck!!

hello to all new ladies! congratulations to you all!

ladies having sickness, please try ginger ale! tastes disgusting but really works for me! also, if i have a banana before i get out of bed that helps aswell :)

i feel kind of bad mensioning this now, but i went to docs this morning about abdominal/back pain, by this afternoon i was having my scan done! baby is 6+6 and has a heartbeat! so very pleased with that...still very early days but feel reasured a bit more! such a lovly lady doctor this time aswell, cant fault her at all! xx

3rd time really glad your scan went well. I must be amazing hearing the heartbeat. Does it feel more really now? (or did it always - I am still going mainly by my BFP rather than symptoms)

3rd so pleased for you.

Gold I took dp with me both times for my booking in appointment as they do the dating scan then. Not all places do this and it means we get no 12 week scan but thats the way it is done here.

i cant believe i am actually willing the sickness back..

3rd so pleased your scan went well.

thanks everyone for your messages. have just taken my first anti biotic fx they're going to work and that was the problem.

I've had no symptoms either and got another BFP yesterday on CB Digi (conception indicator had gone up from 1-2 last week to 2-3 this week so was pleased with that) Am hoping no sickness and non-aching boobs is something I can sustain!

Thanks for feedback re: early scans. I'm going to ask my GP on Tuesday to see what she thinks and go from there. I think DH is too excited not to share when he see his family and he is very close to his brother. We have a couple of weeks to think about it anyway!

GoldMaple were you a charter? I think that may be where we 'know' eachother from

well, i didnt hear the heartbeat, the sonographer showed it to us! its like a litle flashing white mark in the middle of the bean! got to say it was amazing once i calmed down! i just walked into the room and burst into tears! i dont think the sonographer was too impressed! oh well! it does feel more real now tho, just seeing it there in front of me...beating away! id be lying if i said i wasnt ectastic to see it! altho, im still trying to tell myself to chill a bit because i know its still a good 5 weeks till 12 week scan when we can really get excited!

goldmaple how far along are you again? i didnt really get any strong symptoms until 6 weeks (only about a week ago really, seems longer) i think thats normal! then again, my sister and friends who have all had babies didnt suffer with hardly anything the whole nine months!! (and theyv still got great figures )

cep hopefully itl just be a nice easy pg from now for you!:) xx

3rd it had better be. hopefully mine will be just as good on monday, although i don't think i breathe until they say either way.

I did another test today, after yesterdays request from epu/dr (although i need to do it friday) i couldn't help it, there's 2 in a pack anyway. straight away bit fat line so yay. have to admit would have been shocked if otherwise though. even if i lost it today i'd still show the hormones on friday so not sure what they're expecting.

deemented you ok haven't seen you today.

Thats fab news 3rdTime! I'm grinning just reading your post, your excitement is catching! lol

cepafter i mc i did a test literally two days later and it had a very clear "not pregnant" sign on there so id take it as a good sign if i wer you!:)

thankyou very much! joining this thread has been amazing! we can celebrate/be excited together or cry/worry together, its lovly to feel your not on ur own, its like our own litle community!:o xxx

Hi Folks

Cep - Thanks for thinking of me, how are you feeling? Hope you've got your feet up and are being looked after well?

I'm ok. Just knackered. I'm 6+1 today and am still getting nausea and sickness. Those of you that were worried that the sickness seems to have gone - mine comes and goes - one day i'm absolutely fine, the next i spend all my time calling Huey on the big white phone

We're not encouraged to go to our doctors with our pregnancy, but instead are give a number to book in with a midwife over the phone who takes all the details then gets one of the other midwives to do a visit ect. Only they aren't answering the sodding phone. Have tried for three days to get through and it goes straight to answerphone. Oh well, just keep trying i suppose.

Started spotting red heavily today, and having bad cramps - looks like I'm having a chemical pregnancy, as I have done before.
:( :( :(

Gutted, especially as this was our last try (we need fertility treatment to get pregnant) Thanks for the welcome, good luck everyone else.

Ah Delilah, i'msorry to hear that. Be gentle with yourself x

delilah as i said before i'm sorry. i hope you're getting lots of tlc.

Oh delillah I am so very :(
I hope it turns out to be nothing but take care of yourself.

Big hugs to Delilah. Girls I need either a kicking or some hugs. I have mc'd twice around 6 weeks. I'm now 6+3 and tomorrow is my scan. Whilst I've had no pain or blood I'm dreading it and praying it won't be bad news again. Am I just being neurotic and hormonal? Please feel free to be honest!

lk it is completely normal to feel like that so i won't kick you i will however give you (((hugs)))). i know what you feel like. when i have my scan next week it'll be around the date it died last time (although undiscovered until 11 weeks) so i'm (putting it bluntly) bricking it. What time is your scan?

7.40 tomorrow night. Tis a little bit worse as dp is in forces and posted away until may :-( but my two best girlfriends are coming with. Everything is crossed. God knows how I'll get through work tomorrow. Keep thinking of you and will do until you tell us everything is fine....

Ik I do know how you feel, I've been in the same situation.

Sounds a bit hippyish but I always visualise before a scan the doctor showing me the screen with a bit smile on her face saying you can see the heat beat or what ever else I want to happen.

It helps me to stay calm.

Delillah so sorry to read your news. Sending best wishes to you.

delillah :( so sorry xx cant say anything else really... but sending you lots of (((hugs)))

lktoday5 dont be daft! you definatly dont need a good kickin! i made a total twat erm, idiot of myself at my scan today because i was petrified! just dont be going alone! make sure youv got someones hand to squeeze!:) good luck tommorow xx

delilah :(

I had my first app with the GP today, the same one I saw after the MC and he was very pleased for me, bless him! I asked for an early scan but he said our EPU won't do it before 8 wks unless I'm bleeding so got an app with the midwife in 2 wks so hopefully I'll get one after that.

Didn't feel so sick today or tired, I think it's going to come and go..