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MadAboutTheBoys · 24/10/2010 07:42

Just got my BFP this morning and so excited! Managed this conception while DH was out of the country so very chuffed that it worked! Already have two DS, one who is 3.2 and an August birthday and one who is 16 months and a June birthday so bring on the Summer parties!

Have never been part of an antenatal club on here before but as this is planned to be my last pregnancy am hoping to find some other July mums to share the journey with (although know I am very early!) Am already worrying how the birth will go as DS2 was born unexpectedly in the kitchen after a 90 min labour with the midwife only just there to catch him, so am a bit worried if subsequent labours are supposed to go quicker whether I will have anyone with me for this one, but at least I have a while to go yet!

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WhizzBangPhlebas · 25/11/2010 16:03

Finally added myself in - feeling so so sick I thought I'd spread the misery around. Had a scan on Tuesday that put me at 8+3, EDD is 2/7 but I won't go past 38 weeks (elective c-section) so at the latest it will be a mid June baby. Very high risk pregnancy (this is number 10) - I have APLS & am taking lots of meds (steroids, anticoagulants, progesterone) so I'm not getting too carried away. Amongst the many pregnancies were two mid trimester losses, so I just try and take it a day at a time (and not tell anyone for as long as possible).

Blueberryjam EDD 1/7 PG#5 AGE 27 (DS 7,6,4 & 8 months)
Loueytbg EDD 1/7 PG#3 Age 37 (DS1&2 3.6, 1 mc)
Tebbles EDD 1/7 PG#1 Age 29 (No DC yet)
Pesha: EDD 2/7 pg#4, age 31 (32 in 1 week!), (dd 10yrs, ds1 7yrs, ds2 3yrs)
Crazyafterthought: EDD 2/7 pg#4, age 42 (ds1 12yrs, ds2 10yrs, dd 8yrs)
Phlebas: EDD 2/7 PG#10, age 35 (dd1 10yrs, ds 4yrs, dd2 18mo)
Riddzy: EDD 3/7 PG1, Age 31
MadAboutTheBoys 3/7 PG#3 Age 34 (DS1 3yrs; DS2 17 months)
Emmylou30: EDD4/7 pg#1 age 30
Miss Lolita: EDD4/7 pg#1 age 31
Squirrel007 EDD 4/7 PG#1 Age 29 (No DC yet)
Eglu: EDD 5/7 pg#3, age 33 (DS 7 & 3)
Hefner: EDD 5/7 pg#1, age 28
Icklelilly: EDD 5/7 pg#1, age 30
Orchid: EDD 6/7 pg#2, age 31 (DS 2)
Countrybunkin: EDD 6/7 pg#14 age 26
Mitchell81: EDD 7/7 pg#4 age 29(dd 10 yrs,ds1 4yrs, ds2 2yrs)
ScarIettOHara: EDD 8/7 pg#1 age 34
Oceanfox: EDD 08/07 pg1 age 37
Smiler80: EDD 08/07 pg#1 age 30
MeesaMum: EDD 9/7 pg#1 age 30
NNABAIW: EDD 10/7 pg#2 age 33 (DD 13 months)
Scarthy: EDD 10/7 pg#2 age 35 (DS 3yrs)
Sweetiexxx: EDD 11/7 pg#2 age 32 (DD 17 months)
Highheelsandequations EDD 11/7 pg#2 age 30 (no DC yet)
Twit: EDD 12/7 pg#6 age 35 (3 ds's 12,9,3 one dd 4)
Scrivette: EDD 12/7 pg1, age 30 (no DC yet)
Stottiecake: EDD 13/7 pg2, age 37 (ds 2)
BeatrixRotter: EDD 14/7 pg#2 age 34 (DD 2)
Sues1974: EDD 15/7 pg#2 age 36 (DS 21 months)
StormBird: EDD 15/7 pg2, age 28 (no DC yet)
filey1: EDD 16/7 pg#1 age 28 (no DC yet)
pennyly: EDD 16/7 pg#1 age 32 (no DC yet)
Hulla: EDD 17/7 pg#2 age 32 (DD 21 months)
Nicolamumof3: EDD 17/7 pg4 age 33 (DS's aged 11.6, 4.11 and 3.3)
Jamhs: EDD 17/7 pg#3 age 31(32 next week) (DS1 2.3 DS2 11m)
youpie: EDD 17/7 pg#2 age 34 (ds 16 months)
Nitnatnaboo: EDD 17/7 pg#2 age 38 (ds 5 yrs)
Stangirl: EDD 19/7 pg2 age 41 (DD 9 months)
Mamafoof: EDD 19/7 age 30 pg 2 (DD 1 in 2 weeks)
Gleeb: EDD 19/7 pg#2 age 34 (DS 3)
Zanzicat: EDD 20/7 pg#1 age 30
Pregnant inParis: EDD 20/7 pg#1 age 30
isitreallythattime: EDD 20/07 pg#2 age 32
FallingandLaughing: EDD 22/7 pg#1 age 33
Geordiemam4: EDD 23/7 pg#4 age 31 (DD age 13, DS age 11, DS age 8)
Brassicababe: EDD23/7 pg#1 age 37
Brightsideoflife: EDD23/7 pg#3 age 33 (DD 19 months)
PixieOnaLeaf EDD 23/7 pg#6 Age 44 (DD1 16, DD2 12, DS 9, DTD1 8 months, DTD2 8 months)
GruffaloMama EDD 23/7 pg2 age 35 (DS 2.1)
Emmywoo: EDD 26/7. pg## age 33 dd 4 and mc
Chocoflakes: EDD 27/7 pg#3 age 37 (dd15,ds13)
Ivegotmrbitey: EDD27/7 pg#1 age 31
Sugargirl1: EDD 28/7 pg#2 age 32 (DD 13months)
LadyGoneGaga: EDD 28/7 pg#3 age 32 (DS age 2.5, mc)
Buttonmoon78: EDD 29/7 pg#5 age 32 (DCs 13, 10 & 3)
ddas: EDD 31/7 pg#1 age 26
sunshiney78: EDD 31/7 pg 1 age 31
ZuluWarrior: EDD ?/7 pg#3 age 32 (DS 20 months)
emilyplus1: EED 12/7 pg#2 age 25 (ds 16 mths)

Riddzy · 25/11/2010 16:25

MissLolita - I don't know, I haven't had any experience of EPUs myself, sorry - but my friend went because she was feeling much the same as you. She told them she was having pains and they were happy to do the scan there and then. Fortunately everything was fine.

I was also told my scan would be quite late - midwife was initially very vague and said 'maybe mid January', but I pressed for an earlier one because I'm going to be overseas visiting my family in January. Now it's booked for December 16.

fallingandlaughing · 25/11/2010 18:40

Had a bit of a worrying day today. cm was a tiny bit brown when I wiped at lunchtime (also maybe the same but even less last night).

Wasn't sure what to do so spoke to a colleague (who has promised secrecy). She said probably fine but call GP. GP sent me to A&E, They said it is a bit early to scan and even if something was wrong it might not show up for a day or 2. The A and E doc wasn't too concerned as I don't have red bleeding, clots or pain. So basically I am going to wait until my first scheduled scan at 6+4 next Wednesday.

Now home with my feet up. Keep getting twinges and thinking "Is that cramp?". But it is probably just my IBS. 6 days til we see the baby seems like ages away! I am keeping calm but can't help but worry. DP also quite anxious.

LadyGoneGaga · 25/11/2010 19:04

Brown is usually ok, Falling as it means old blood. I know it's worrying for you but hopefully it will go away. Try and rest and treat yourself kindly for a bit. Let us know how you get on.

fallingandlaughing · 25/11/2010 19:12

Thanks LadyGone I am sitting up in bed eating pretzels. Feeling OK, just wishing it was next Wednesday!

Stangirl · 25/11/2010 19:29

Hi everyone. I've been reading posts but haven't posted for a wile. Have become very exited again about being pregnant. I'm going for an early scan next Tues (at 7 weeks) at the local EPU and am worried about seeing a heartbeat. I'm not having any symptoms yet - but I didn't with DD either. I am however enjoying copious amounts of cakes and cookies.

ItIsILeclerc · 25/11/2010 19:38

Hello all. Sorry I've been a bit quiet - too lazy to keep name-changing Blush Also not a lot to share, though now my MS has kicked in and I've spent two days on the nausea rollercoaster - though I have very few symptoms other than sore nips, so am quite relieved really! Needed to do a supermarket trip last night anyway but ended up spending a fortune as I kept putting things in my trolley that I thought would make me feel better Blush Ginger cordial is on special offer at Sainsbury's (as are pregnancy vitamnins!) so stocked up as ginger seemed to help last time - last time, my office was over a sushi restaurant, so I used to go down and buy bags of pickled ginger for 5p a time and scoff them at my desk Blush Last night I picked up a piece of root ginger as well and sniffed it as I went round - was looking uberglamourous in DH's long coat and my garden clogs, so if anyone was in a shop last night and saw a baglady furtively sniffing ginger then it was probably me Grin

Has anyone else had achey legs? Don't remember this from last time round but this time they seem to ache like when you have the 'flu. Don't have the exhaustion yet either, just a touch of the insomnia that dogged me last time (I was quite hoping for exhaustion this time, I could do with the sleep). Bizarrely I'm also craving healthy stuff more than crap (most of the time); last time I assumed my body would cleverly want to stock up on vitamins and other good stuff, but in fact I only wanted stodge - would eat a massive bag of sweets a day and started going to McD's several times a week after boycotting them for years (even made veggie DH take me through the drive-through Blush). Am wondering if it's a sign it's a boy this time ... or just a sign that all pregnancies are different!

Still hasn't really sunk in, not helped by the fact that DH keeps forgetting that I'm pg Hmm He laughed while watching me heave a massive, heavy piece of worktop into a skip the other day (did I mentin how glamorous I am?) and then sent me up a stepladder to scrub a ceiling. I'm kind of still planning to try to get an early scan at around 7-8 weeks, but also putting it off slightly - I think as long as I don't have one then chances are everything is fine, whereas a scan could be bad news. Do want to tell family before Christmas though, so will have to bite the bullet at some point. Also need to get round to registering with a GP!

MissLolita I visited the EPU at St George's in Tooting last time round. They are happy to scan you just for "maternal anxiety" (or were in 2008 anyway). The system was that you just turned up early in the morning and waited for your go but you might want to check whether that's still the case. It is extremely quick - literally just confirming a heartbeat - but you get a photo and I doubt that a private scan would be able to tell you very much more than that anyway.

falling Look after yourself but try not to worry - your body is incredibly well designed to protect your little bean in there. You could have a carcrash and would probably still be okay. Bit jealous of the pretzels though Wink

Can't remember who asked, but it's entirely normal for symptoms to come and go. Still unnerving though Wink

Spanner fab news on the hb, made me well up that did Grin

Wave to everyone else, welcome all the new newbies, apologies if I've missed anything!

Smiler80 · 25/11/2010 21:06

Hi ItIsILeclerc - just responding to your question re: achey legs. I have that too at times, also used to get it when I got my period. It's mostly gone now (8 weeks tomorrow) but had it lots more in the earlier weeks...

ItIsILeclerc · 25/11/2010 21:13

Interesting :) Really can't remember it last time, but then I was a lot more sedentary last time round!

buttonmoon78 · 25/11/2010 21:18

I've never had achey legs as a symptom!

I'm sooo bloated though! DH keeps saying I look about 5 months (which is v kind of him!)

I know you should expect to 'fill out' a little sooner with subsequent pgs but I've never felt this bad before. I'm only 4+4 but I'm feeling already like I can't bear waistbands etc. Bring on the leggings!

ItIsILeclerc · 25/11/2010 21:22

I lent all my maternity gear to a friend and she happened to give it back today, so I've been through remembering how comfy it all was and wishing I was fat enough to warrant it Grin

buttonmoon78 · 25/11/2010 21:24

I gave all mine away as we thought we were 'done' last time Sad

But it's a great excuse to go shopping Wink

ItIsILeclerc · 25/11/2010 21:28

Grin Last time round we had a trip to NYC at ten weeks so I did a lot of shopping Blush

Forgot to say I'm another planning a home birth - was gutted not to get one last time so really hoping it happens this time. I will be a lot firmer with the MWs this time round Hmm (say that now, might not be the case in the throes of labour). Anyone else weirdly looking forward to labour more than being pg? I quite like the idea of "doing it better" next time, whereas I pretty much hate being pg (though feeling far less restricted than last time - possibly because I'm a bit more relaxed, possibly because I get far fewer opportunities to eat steak/pate/nice cheese these days anyway Grin).

cake4breakfast · 25/11/2010 21:32

Hi everyone:) I've chatted before but not added myself as it still feels unreal. I'm 6 weeks tmrw and have to wait for booking in on 22dec and who knows when for 1st scan!:( DP and I agreed not to tell anyone til 12wks which was killing me until I found myself in a baby shop today buying a gift for a friend and ended up blurting out that I was pg to the shop owner! But when she asked me how far I was, I suddenly became really embarrassed at being so excited and only 6weeks! I would love a scan for peace of mind and to show families at xmas. I may give St George's a call. My thankfully subtle symptoms are the only thing I have to cling onto... what feels like almost constant peeing and nausea when not eating. 6 weeks and counting...

buttonmoon78 · 25/11/2010 21:32

Hell no! I hate labour with a vengeance!

cake4breakfast · 25/11/2010 21:34

Oh yes, re: achey legs, I've had restless legs so poor DP keeps getting kicked in the shins!

cake4breakfast · 25/11/2010 21:38

Er, ItIsILeclerc, am I not meant to eat steak?? I've been craving red meat, which I don't normally eat lots of and so cooked myself a juicy (but medium) steak for dinner earlierConfused

buttonmoon78 · 25/11/2010 21:45

Cake it's the rarity not the meat itself. Though I have to admit, I don't follow a lot of the guidelines myself. I love a good rare steak and make sure it's from a reputable supplier.

ItIsILeclerc · 25/11/2010 21:47

Just not a very rare one as your immune system is lowered so there's more chance of you getting food poisoning. You have to get really bad poisoning to put your baby in danger though, it would just be unpleasant for you. I think steak is relatively safe though as the inside of it hasn't been in contact with air so fewer bacteria (as opposed to eg a sausage or burger which has been minced, so all of it has been exposed to air and there's bacteria all the way through).

That seems to be what Googling my exhaustive research suggests anyway. NB I am not a doctor Grin

buttonmoon78 · 25/11/2010 21:51

Nor am I so my carelessness with guidelines should in no way suggest that I am inciting others to do the same!

cake4breakfast · 25/11/2010 21:52

It was only slightly pink in the middle. Anyway, I've got allow myself something as I've been very good so far - gave up drinking and smoking straight away (a big deal for me), switched to decaf, lots of vits, fresh fruit and veg etc. Never liked stilton or pate anyway but really missing calamari and prawn cocktail!

ItIsILeclerc · 25/11/2010 22:00

My dad is a (retired) doctor and openly laughed at me last time for sticking to the guidelines Hmm

I think calamari and prawn cocktail are both fine as they're cooked ... might want to check though.

nicolamumof3 · 25/11/2010 22:01

its awful being pg at xmas. no champagne, no g&t...dh a chef so into food big time, makes pate at xmas that i now cannot eat and lots of other yummy things Sad

nicolamumof3 · 25/11/2010 22:01

its all worth it tho!! Grin

cake4breakfast · 25/11/2010 22:03

Thanks, ItIsILeclerc, I'm sure that's the case. I just want to do everything I can to help this baby on it's way:)

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