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10/10 Babies - Come out, come out wherever you are!!!

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Hermya321 · 18/10/2010 14:08

, come on little babies, you know you want to come out and play!!!

Look we even have toys all ready and set up for you all!!

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AbFabT · 28/10/2010 12:06

Good luck, bionic. Exciting times!

Vikks · 28/10/2010 13:27

Hi All, I?m a Mummy!
Harry arrived safely on Tuesday evening and of course was well worth every overdue second. After 24 hours in labour my beautiful son thought we?d waited long enough. 8lb 4oz, very long and has a full head of hair, totally cute! DH and I are loving parenthood so far and are completely besotted by our little boy.
The labour didn?t turn out as I planned (I?m such not many people?s do), my planned ?natural birth? turned into just about every intervention they had. I didn?t react well to my induction and after only 20 minutes from having the pessary I was having contractions a minute apart, so it was a long day with lots of pain relief. In the end we narrowly avoided a C-section; they managed to get him out in theatre with forceps and an episiotomy. They said he was ?presenting? at a funny angle and the cord around his neck so after a frantic last hour we were just so relived to have him safely in our arms.
They let us out of hospital last night, DH was able to stay over on the ward which was lovely. The staff were amazing and we are just trying to get a hang of BF now.
Sorry I haven?t named checked, good luck if you?re still waiting and congrats if I?ve missed your announcement. I?ll hopefully have time to catch up soon.
Love Vicki & Harry X x GrinGrin

Ivytheterrible · 28/10/2010 13:35

yeay vikks excellent news so happy for you that despite changed plans and interventions you seem to have had a positive experience. Now you can experience the joys of all night feeding. 7 hours on off last night for me with 2 hours max sleep.

Off for a nap now!

SeaShellsOnTheSeaShore · 28/10/2010 13:58

Vikks congratulations!! Sounds epic but so glad you are all home safely!

BackAgain · 28/10/2010 14:13

Vikks congratulations - nejoy your baby snuggles

Tyson86 · 28/10/2010 15:41

Vikks congrats to you, Harry and ur Dh. Glad everything went well in the end :)

nymphadora · 28/10/2010 16:04

Congrats vikks

nymphadora · 28/10/2010 17:39

Actually on laptop & not feeding so can post properly!Dd3 is playing(!) on the floor next to me with her toy giraffe with suck sized ears!

Been out for the afternoon today & have fed dd3 in the zoo & Asda cafe! Asda cafe was a challenge. Both of us in outdoor clothes and dh & dd1 did the shopping while dd2 & I abandoned them when dd3 needed feeding. I couldn't put her down to get coats off or buy food/drink & dd2 was a star running around for me.

Still having trouble with overactive right breast . dd3 sounds like shes drowning at times. Asked a few places now and all I get is 'you're lucky it flows so easily' Hmm which isn't a lot of help :(

nymphadora · 28/10/2010 17:44

Oh and I have a HUGE bruise & lump on my stomach. Asked HV who sent me to GP who took one look & said its the clexane injection gone trough a vein Shock Am now even more reluctant to do them!

SeaShellsOnTheSeaShore · 28/10/2010 17:45

Snap nymph-what is it with right boobs?! Try feeding with LO feet under right arm for right boob so more upright? Nipple shield can slow it down but I never got on with them. Is tiktok still on the bf threads?

SamanthaB123 · 28/10/2010 18:24

Nymph - the breast feeding counsellor said to express the first 25 mls which should help with fast flow boobs. Not more though or it will stimulate further production!

nymphadora · 28/10/2010 18:27

I'm feeding her sat up on that side & expressing isn't helping. I can feed for 20 mins on that side & still be pouring out. I started a thread on feeding but didn't get much response. Just phoned a counsellor but same suggestion. Breastfeeding group not much help either

sam12 · 28/10/2010 19:37

nymph I am the same but on the left side. As I am only expressing obviously they couldn't recommend that to me. I have been advised to put a wet flannel in the fridge - or freezer if you can stand it- and leave that on your boob for a while in between feeds. I haven't tried if yet myself but might be worth a shot

floozietoozie · 28/10/2010 19:48

Backagain it's fine read away. I would have stopped him doing it if I was really concerned. I think it will end up being more about him very soon Grin.

Vikks congratulations! At least you didn't have the cs after everything. Good luckvwith feeding.

I am so happy because after a 12-day strike dd did an enormous poo this pm, all up her back and front! I was getting worried about yhe lack of poo combined with poor weight gain - last week she didn't put on anythin from mon to fri and it was just an ounce from fri to tues. But now she's pooed I'm more relaxed and less concerned about the weight gain aspect. She's been weeing fine so I wasn't worried about that side of it.

floozietoozie · 28/10/2010 19:54

And nymph you're going to hate me but I'm highly envious of your overactive boob. I'd love to have milk pouring out.

nymphadora · 28/10/2010 20:01

I phoned a helpline& they suggested cupping tightly to stem flow ( she likened it to squeezing a hose pipe) and it worked slightly.dd3 was glugging but not drowning IYSWIM.

floozie just lay your dd with her mouth open , sure the power I'm firing with means I could reach her from here!

Will be going to get a pump tomorrow if they have any in our boots or Sat if I have to travel, so any recommendations for a cheapish one? I hated mine last time& was hoping to put it off for a while

Tyson86 · 28/10/2010 20:39

I love reading all the posts coming in for the new babies, it makes me smile everytime :)
Sophie was weighed today and is now 7lb 16oz and is 4 weeks tomorrow, well at 00.30 anyway Grin

AbFabT · 28/10/2010 21:37

Hello. Harry, and well done vikks - congratulations! :)

floozie, no poos for 12 days? Yikes! Glad that spell is broken though!

All good here. DS looks chunky now, he's 19 days, and feeding loads - looks different to 19 days ago! Got m/w checkup tomorrow, so I guess he'll get weighed, but he looks much heavier to me.

Looking forward to more baby news!

Hermya321 · 28/10/2010 22:13

Hello,

Here's my birth story, I'd been grumbling along in slow labour for the majority of last week and on Saturday I woke up and realised I'd started having contractions. I ignored them for the most part all morning and then started timing them at 1pm when they were six minutes apart. I rang my doula who came round about 3pm and we sat watching TV for a while timing the contractions and me bouncing on a birthing ball and using a tens machine.

Around about 8pmish, my contrations were 2 minutes apart so we decided to make our way to the hospital. We got to the MLU at about 8.30pm when I was examined and I was 3-4cm. I carried on for a bit longer and after an hour decided to use the gas and air. Oh my gosh, that stuff is beyond fabulous!! I giggled and my tongue became very loose. I told the midwife a lot of stuff that normally I would never have told a soul.

I then got in the pool as well and continued my way to six cms, I had been in the pool a few hours at that point and my labour was slowing so we broke my waters (in retrospect, this maybe wasn't the best plan). I started to get back on back contractions and I started to get quite panicky. They got me out of the pool and gave me some more pain relief. But I'd had enough and was begging for an epidural. By this point my labour had stalled and it had been sixteen hours and I hadn't progressed any further. So they transfered me to the big hospital where I got an epidural. It didn't take compleatly but managed to take the edge off of things. I laboured for a few more hours and had to be given some oxytocen to bring my contractions on.

I got to the pushing stage and pushed for an hour. It was at this point that it became apparent why things were slow and hard for me. DS had his head at an arkward angle. The Docs came in and said that they were going to give me some help. They were going to use ventouse, but on closer inspection it turned out forceps were the better option. It was a basic lift out and I had an episiotimy (I still can't spell that word) and with a couple of pushes Asher was born and lifted right onto my tummy.

Although it wasn't really what I wanted, all things considered things turned out well. I did loose some blood during the whole thing and I had to spend a lot longer in hospital than I wanted due to stitches and needing a transfusion.

The care I recieved during the birth and afterwards was brilliant though. I think I really really lucked out, the midwives I had around me couldn't do enough for the Mums I was with. They helped me get breastfeeding established and took DS off of me a few times and allowed me to get some much needed sleep.

We're back at home now and I think I'm in a post hospital come down. It was funny, the closer I got to home the more tired I became. Seriously when I saw my bed, I literally could have kissed the floor in thanks. I also told DH to take the birthing ball away as I never ever want to see that thing again.

Anyway thats my story.

Nymph My boobs are the same, I look like I've had a visit from the Jordon fairy.

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Hermya321 · 28/10/2010 22:26

Oh and a piccy is up on my profile, I had to share. He's just so lovely.

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sam12 · 28/10/2010 23:04

Well done vikks and big congratulations.
hermya Asher is beautiful. Love his baby gro too!
nymph are you wanting manuel or electric? I did a lot of research as am attached to a pump half the day!

Xavielli · 29/10/2010 00:40

congrats vikks! so pleased that you finally have your baby.

well, i had a sweep today. i was 2cm and extreamly favourable so it wasnt even uncomfortable. im now contracting every 7 mins ish. they are still bareable. baby feels high still and moves everytime i contract which is excrutiating. hopefully this is it, will keep you posted.

floozietoozie · 29/10/2010 01:28

Xavielli good luck! Hope you are on your way. Today is dd's due date but feel free to borrow it Wink.

Hermya good to hear your story. Asher looks Fantastic, like a real boy iykwim and a big healthy baby. Lovely babygro too. Dd looks so tiny in comparison to the full termers. I forgot to say a while back that I've our a picture of her up. It's from hospital so she does have a tube in her nose still in it.

Nymph my pump is from last time and is an Ameda Lactaline. I too was hoping never to see it again. Oh well. I hate expressing as that's all I could do for ages last time and cos I never get much out.

nymphadora · 29/10/2010 08:26

xavelli good luck

hermya where did you end up? L or B ?

Sam either haven't decided either way. Im not planning it for every day use though!!!

Hermya321 · 29/10/2010 09:25

Floozie Your DD looks lovely!!

Nymph I ended up at L. I have to say that despite some negativity that I'd heard about people from there the care I recieved was brilliant. Maybe I lucked out and ended up with the nice midwife.

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