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My Baby Girl died

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verunka · 21/06/2009 21:28

It is 8 days since our angel left us. She has died one week after birth, cause was a brain damage, caused by cut on air supply at some point of pregnancy.. doctors dont know..

I'm beeing strong. I'm feeling empty and kind of death. I can't find things to do. My husband has to go back to work and I dont know what to do with myself. It is so hard to see all the pregnant woman and all the babies and mums...

I wanna get pregnant straight away
I am so scared of getting pregnant
I am scared of pain which ripped my heart appart

Is there anyone who felt the same?

thank you

Verunka

OP posts:
Ewe · 21/06/2009 21:30

I am so so sorry for your loss .

There are so many strong supportive women here who have been in similar situations and I am sure will be able to help you through this tough time.

Be kind to yourself.

Heathcliffscathy · 21/06/2009 21:30

I'm so sorry.

SANDS might be able to offer you some support...you definitely need lots and lots of support both here but more importantly in real life.

Hulababy · 21/06/2009 21:30

I am so sorry for the loss of your little girl.

fidelma · 21/06/2009 21:33

Sending you love and support.Take your time.You are in my thoughts.

AbricotsSecs · 21/06/2009 21:33

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letsgostrawberrypicking · 21/06/2009 21:33

So sorry to hear this verunka .

Do you have people you can talk to about your feelings?

Grammaticus · 21/06/2009 21:34

I'm so sorry.

I think it would be hard on your body to get PG straight away.

I hope you have support in RL.

So sorry.

Ronaldinhio · 21/06/2009 21:35

I'm so very sorry for your loss x

Sexonlegs · 21/06/2009 21:36

I am so incredibly sorry Thinking of you, your dh and your baby girl.

There have sadly been others who have been through such tragedy, and I am sure they will be able to help in some way.

hereidrawtheline · 21/06/2009 21:36

I so very deeply sorry for your loss. I can not imagine how you must be suffering. Please talk to us and anyone you can in RL to get support.

ThePhantomPlopper · 21/06/2009 21:36

So sorry to hear this.

Keep posting if it helps, there are lots of women on here who have been through similar who can help.

Take care of yourself.

bronze · 21/06/2009 21:37

Im so sorry for your loss xx

bronze · 21/06/2009 21:37

Im so sorry for your loss xx

aristocat · 21/06/2009 21:41

so sorry about your baby girl.
there will be other MN who can help you through this sad time

BroodyChook · 21/06/2009 21:41

So very sorry for your awful loss. Please take care of yourself x

sundaymorning · 21/06/2009 21:42

I am so very sorry for your loss.

Please get in touch with SANDS...

www.uk-sands.org/

They helped my sister so very much when her baby died. They are wonderful, you need support from people who have been there too and truly understand.

QOD · 21/06/2009 21:42

so sorry
x

Daffodilly · 21/06/2009 21:43

I hope this isn't wholly inappropriate - congratulations on having a little girl and I am so very sorry to hear she was taken from you so quickly.

I hope you find the strength to make your way through this and on to a happier time.

fuzzypeach · 21/06/2009 21:44

I am so sorry for your loss Verunka

PacificDogwood · 21/06/2009 21:44

So sorry for your sad loss, my condolences.

smugmumofboys · 21/06/2009 21:44

I'm so sorry for the loss of your baby girl Verunka. xx

MrsWeasley · 21/06/2009 21:44

So sorry to hear about your little daughter. I can't begin to imagine how you must be suffering
Take care xx

BettySwollux · 21/06/2009 21:46

So sorry for your loss xx

JackBauer · 21/06/2009 21:46

I'm so soryr for your loss, I hope you can find the support you need on here, take care of yourself, x

FairMidden · 21/06/2009 21:46

Oh Verunka, I am sorry for your terrible loss. Thinking of you - please take care of yourself.