My Baby Boy died suddenly 4 weeks ago aged 10 weeks.

[Thelighthousekeeper]

Hi, I'm new here and am finding it very hard to cope since my son died. I put him to bed in the early hours of the 4th June and woke up just before 6am to find he had died.
I just miss him so much and spend every minute of every day thinking of him yet all around me life goes on as normal and I find this really hard.

Has anyone here gone through this? how did you cope?

I am so sorry to hear this, I havent had personal experience of this but good friends of mine have. Please contact sands and feel free to post on here whenever you want to, we are here to support you.

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How very sad for you - sending you lots of hugs - I can't read too much of this post as tears just start to fall. It will get better for you, just have faith that you will always have him in your heart.

i am so sorry to hear of the loss of your son.
I wish i could say something else to help.
I wish you and your family strength, and add to the offer of support here on MN to help through your hardest times.

So sad for you and your family

I have no personal experience of this and there is little I can say except how sorry I am.

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Your Noah sounds so lovely. Words fail me, but couldn't just not say nothing.

Am so sorry....

I am so sorry to hear about your little man Noah.

I have friends whose little boy was stillborn .

So sad to hear about your lovely little Noah. I an sure you will find support here on mumsnet when you need it.

am so sorry lighthouse,

though I haven't been through this anyone who has been a mum can feel your sadness.

much love and keep posting.

we are here for you.

I am so sorry for your loss.

So so sorry...

keep posting .. think it may help

x

im so sorry to hear about your horrible loss i have not been through it before myself but i have a 2 year old DD and couldnt imagine such a thing as her not being around please post anything you need to as the support on here is invaluable xxx
xx ei xx

Im so so sorry. Am thinking of you and your little angel x

thank you for telling us about him
I am so, so sorry

So sorry lighthousekeeper.

is all i can think to say. i'm crying reading this so i can't imagine the pain you must be feeling.

So sorry for the loss of your baby boy - keep strong.

so sorry you are going through this.

Just one thing - you say you are trying hard not to let your dd see you cry. I think you shouldn't worry about that - it is good for kids to see it is ok for adults to be upset by sad things - seeing you cry and deal with your sadness will help her too.

lighthousekeeper. I am so sorry. I can't imagine how that feels. Can offer no advice. My mother lost twins just after birth but I'm ashamed to say that we've hardly ever really talked about it.

lighthousekeeper ,im so sorry on your loss of noah ,my grandson died on 1st december 2006,he was my dd son, our little red haired boy,he was 10 week old and died of cot death,i dont know if it would help but my dd goes on ourforeverbabies website, a place where all the lovely ladies have lost children,it really helped her. im sending big hugs to you and your family,its hard on everyone my oldest grandaughter whos five remembers so much of her brother dying and its so hard explainig things to her

i am so sorry for your loss

I'm just adding to the many who are sad for you. What a terrible thing to go through.

I am so sorry to hear your loss. How sad, how terribly sad. Thinking of you xxx

How utterly tragic. You must be feeling obliterated.

I hope you can take a tiny sliver of comfort from the fact that you saw Noah smile, and that he was loved so desperately in his short life.

I am so, so sorry.