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Mummy2TandF

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marmon · 17/02/2008 18:21

I was just wondering if anyone has heard from or spoken to m2t&f. Her last post which was a while ago she seemed very depressed and lost and i just wondered if she is o.k.

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NAB3wishesfor2008 · 17/02/2008 19:21

I was thinking about her last night too.

GColdtimer · 18/02/2008 16:01

bumping - I was too.

chrissnow · 18/02/2008 16:05

I've been searching since her last thread too. Bit concerned myself.

GColdtimer · 18/02/2008 16:13

Did she ever cash your cheque, chrissnow (if that isn't a nosey question)?

chrissnow · 18/02/2008 16:24

No which is why I was concerned. Didn't want to start a thread about it 'cus that would look 'wrong'.

CarGirl · 18/02/2008 16:25
Sad
GColdtimer · 18/02/2008 16:26

mm, that is a bit of a worry. Not quite sure what we can do though, hopefully she (or someone who knows her) will see this thread. Not sure how CAT works - could someone do that do you think?

NatalieJane · 18/02/2008 16:28

She was on our post-natel group, one of the girls she was closer to has her email. She had been trying to email her, but getting no reponse.

chrissnow · 18/02/2008 16:29

I know Beller has her mobile number as they met up a few times.
I did a search for threads under mummy2t&f and there was not a single one - almost like they've all been deleted (although that could be me being technocrappy as usual)

chrissnow · 18/02/2008 16:30

Yeah I've got her email and address. No response from e-mail as NJ says.

Miaou · 18/02/2008 16:30

I've got CAT facilities - I can try her if you like? She may not accept them though.

Miaou · 18/02/2008 16:33

oh, cross-posts - hope she is ok though

GColdtimer · 18/02/2008 16:37

chrissnow, I think you have to put in mummy2tandf, not &. They are there, nothing since that last thread though.

chrissnow · 18/02/2008 16:43

Like I said technocrappy!! Hope she is ok. Just hoping that it's a simple as she's cancelled her internet service or something or is just working through stuff on her own.

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marmon · 18/02/2008 16:50

Yes i looked under threads and could not find anything. Would be nice to know shes o.k and we are all thinking of her.

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BumperliciousIsOneHotMother · 18/02/2008 16:58

Bump - thinking of her too

Mummy2TandF · 19/02/2008 11:36

Hello, I am here .... am sooo sorry for making you all worry , I have been really down since Christmas and the New Year and have had quite a hard time trying to pull myself out of it. am just managing to do so now .... thank you chrissnow, I have joined WAY but I couldn't bring myself to cash your cheque, it was so kind of you though, thank you so much.
I was up until 2:30am again last night and have set up a memorial page for Craig, which I found quite theraputic the link is here if anybody wants to have a look.

Love to you all and thank you so much for thinking of me xxx

CarGirl · 19/02/2008 12:06

Hello! Great to see you posting on here, I don't think I've ever posted on your threads but I often think of you and yours. I hope you have a "good" day today.

chrissnow · 19/02/2008 12:15

Mummy2t&f - Thank the lord. Glad you're ok. Wasn't really relishing the thought of driving over to your house and then try to explain who I was and why I was there!!! (I can just imagine the thread in AIBU - MNenner stalking me!!) As for the cheque....cash it, cash it now. It was a gift, buy the kids a little gift and have some cake for yourself (I know its not much, but I'm sure you can find something nice to do with it? Soft play centre?) You all deserve a little treat. I insist.
Glad you've joined WAY, hope they are helpful.

marina · 19/02/2008 12:18

Good to see you Mummy2TandF
That is a beautiful page you've created for Craig XXX

GColdtimer · 19/02/2008 13:02

So glad to see you, sorry that you have had such a hard time and I am glad you have joined WAY. I hope it helps a little bit.

Lovely page for Craig by the way.

soph28 · 19/02/2008 13:24

I just wanted to say I was thinking about you too- I couldn't remember your name but knew you had 2 lo's like mine- my Toby is almost 3, and Chloe is 19mths so very similar.

Your memorial page is lovely- made me cry.

It must be so hard for you and there must be so much stuff you want to share with Craig about the children, can hardly type this for crying. I hope you have lots of support and can get through this one day at a time. If there's anything I can do let me know- even just as someone to share the delights of having two lo's to deal with- let me know!

Soph

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marmon · 19/02/2008 16:08

Oh i am so glad you are o.k and sounding a bit stronger. Hope your children are well and love too you.xx

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callmeovercautious · 19/02/2008 20:26

What a lovely site. So glad you are doing OK. I was a bit worried for a while too [daft soppy moo emoticon]

Remember we are here to chat to whenever you need us.
x

podglet · 19/02/2008 20:44

Hi Mummyto T&F,

The site is beautiful, a lovely tribute to Craig. Hope the kids are ok and you are holding up. Glad to hear you are doing better since Christmas.

Just wanted to say that we are still thinking of you.

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