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My son is dying

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blindspots · 21/01/2021 17:53

This is fucking cancer. He is 2. We are only 3 months from diagnosis and we are out of active treatment options.

I hate cancer, I hate the pandemic disrupting our world and keeping us from people we love.

He has been so tough she and strong and there is nothing more they can do, the cancer just keeps coming back.

I would give everything to keep him

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WhatWouldPhyllisCraneDo · 21/01/2021 17:54

I'm so sorry OP. Cancer is fucking cruel.

bearlyactive · 21/01/2021 17:56

I'm so sorry OP Flowers

TheSpottedZebra · 21/01/2021 17:56

I'm so very sorry, blindspots. That is truly awful.

Phyllis321 · 21/01/2021 17:56

Oh my love, I’m so very sorry. Flowers

HUCKMUCK · 21/01/2021 17:56

I’m so sorry. What a shitty disease.

Sprig1 · 21/01/2021 17:57

That's so sad for you. I can't imagine how you must feel. Take care and hope that the time you have left with him leaves you with some happy memories.

HollowTalk · 21/01/2021 17:57

Oh that is the worst thing. I'm so sorry. Flowers

minipie · 21/01/2021 17:57

Oh god, I’m so sorry OP. I cannot imagine.

Hairydilemma · 21/01/2021 17:58

I’m so sorry - I don’t know what else to say.

dizzycatdance2 · 21/01/2021 17:58

Oh I am so, so sorry, I can't even imagine how hard this is,

bookworm14 · 21/01/2021 17:59

I’m so sorry - my heart is breaking for you. Flowers

AtLeastPretendToCare · 21/01/2021 17:59

I’m so very sorry. What a horrific situation for you all.

firstimemamma · 21/01/2021 18:00

I'm so sorry op, I can't even begin to imagine what you're going through Thanks

StrugglingICUnurse · 21/01/2021 18:00

How terrible. I'm so sorry.

babycakes1010 · 21/01/2021 18:01

I'm so sorry..sending you love xx

blindspots · 21/01/2021 18:01

He is my world, my youngest child.

Only just no longer a baby, even though he spent his birthday and Christmas in hospital

I don't know what we will do

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StuffYouAllInTheCrust · 21/01/2021 18:01

So sorry. How absolutely devastating Flowers

MagpieSong · 21/01/2021 18:02

I'm so sorry, blindspots, there are just no words that are enough for that. Absolutely heartbreaking for you xxx

UsernameFail · 21/01/2021 18:03

I am so so sorry

blindspots · 21/01/2021 18:03

It is literally only 12 months since I stopped breastfeeding him, and since he took his first steps unaided.

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loumoo · 21/01/2021 18:03

I’m so so sorry. Cancer I’m

MrJollyLivesNextDoor · 21/01/2021 18:04

Oh no, I'm so sorry Thanks

Blackdog19 · 21/01/2021 18:04

I’m so so sorry OP. Cancer is an evil disease.

sittingonacornflake · 21/01/2021 18:04

Oh OP I am so incredibly sorry to hear this.

Cancer. Fucking. Sucks.

NetballHoop · 21/01/2021 18:05

So, so sorry for you and your DS. I truely hope your family can be with you and him.

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