My toddler died today

[acquiescence]

My baby died today. I found him in his cot this morning. He was completely well yesterday and has no health problems. They are completing a post mortem today.
I don’t know what to do. Why would a healthy child just die? I have a 4 year old and don’t know how to handle it with him. Any advice welcome, I’m obviously a mixture of completely numb and a mess.

So very sorry for your heartbreaking loss acquiescence.

So sorry

@acquiescence so so sorry for you. [heart]

I am so so sorry OP, thinking of you and sending lots of love xx

I’m so sorry to read this. Sending lots of love to you and your family.

Will light a candle for you and your family tonight.

I'm so sorry for your loss. There is lots of brilliant advice suggested already so I will just add my love and my prayers for you and all your family

So sorry Op. look after yourself.

I'm so so sorry your baby died. Sending you love and strength at this time of shock and grief. This is the worst thing that can happen to anyone so just get through, there's no wrong way to feel right now.

With your 4 year old I would say what's happened and answer any questions with short simple answers and without using euphemisms. Let them know that everyone is very upset so might be acting differently but you are there for cuddles or to talk whenever they want. If they are at school or nursery you could speak to them to see if they have support for your 4 year old as well.

I am so so sorry for your loss.

I am so so sorry for your loss.

I'm so sorry

im so sorry.
do you have support.family?friends?have you got the father with you?
accept any help they offer if they do.bereavment counciling etc as think this could be vital for you right now.
let people hold you and guide you.
try to let anyone and everyone help even if your feeling like screaming to be alone in a dark whole forever.
im so sorry for you loss.
there are so many people here who im sure would be more than willing to stick around to help in any way we can.for however long.
big big big warm comforting supporting and solid hugs for you right now op.

I'm so sorry for you and your family

So so sorry Op.

Op I'm so sorry.

Do you want to talk about him, what was his name?
Did he have a favourite teddy?

What a terrible thing to happen to you all. There are no adequate words but I'm sorry for your loss.

So very sorry for you all, my darling xxx

I'm so sorry. I hope you have some support.

I am so so sorry.
My heart breaks for you and your family. Xxxx

So so sorry. How awful for you all.
A close family member lost their 18 month old in June.
They have the support of a bereavement charity for them and for their other child who is 5. They are seeking play therapy to help their 5 year old process what happened. Speak to your local hospital who can put you in touch with support in your area. Don't be afraid to be honest with your other child let them see your emotions.
One hour at a time. Lean on those around you when you need to. Sending so much love to you and your family.

So sorry.

No words are adequate op but I’m so very sorry for your huge loss.

Post here as and when you need to. Someone will always be here for you.

Love and hugs to you and your family xxx

I couldn't click on this and not comment. So sorry for your loss
I can't begin to imagine how you feel right now. Please share this in real life with someone

I'm so, so sorry this has happened. I hope you find a way to move forward. Be kind to yourselves and each other