Super - what do u think she would tell you to do? What comes in your mind to do about it? U know your mum and she knows you. Deep down you know what she would advise. As we are so like our mums in so many ways thinking- reactions etc. I say things out loud to my mum ( I believe they can hear x) I get the answer. Maybe not straight away but it's like it just comes into my head.
But I know the bitter feeling of the actual not being able to talk to them. I remember when eldest was massively playing up good ol pre teen and I wailed for my mum! I really feel you! Run it by us if it helps. We've got different aged children Hun. Xx
Euph - the funeral is so hard. It was horrendous. But I was also pleased with what we done for her she would have been pleased. And prob having a good ol chat up there with everyone with who turned up. We played her favourite songs and god knows how I read a poem.
Will be thinking of you! Here for you if you need us. (())
Lin - hello Hun! Ahh how much longer got your sister? Such a shame u can't get down here would love to meet you as I'm sure biscuits would too!
Hi badvoc, biscuits, waterlego, and anyone else on the thread. Please know I'm thinking of you all and your not alone xx
Wethenmavis - never intruding Hun, we are all in this together. So hard isn't it. I go through them feelings on and off even now and in April it will be 2 years! Which is unbelievable. I hate it. I wish she was here but I just trudge right on , some days easier than others.
Have you got a special place where you put special things of your mum? , maybe light a candle or do something special for you that you know she liked you to do? It's rubbish though isn't it. Right with you. And come back and chat when ever you are comfortable. (( hugs)) to you
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