Helloo Ladies! I really need to say SORRY for not posting these past 2 or probly more weeks! I've been in a dark place these days. So warning this is a long post 
I do miss you all and thinking of you all lovely ladies!
first Congratulations! I know you are worried but still , like chip put it , there's 75% in favor of you. We can hold on to that chance. When I was pregnant with Isabel I got 1:19 chance of having a baby with Downs based on my duo test as compared to a normal 1:250 for my age, but we decided to keep her and although she died at week 39 in my womb, we saw it and later confirmed that she has no downs. I also know another woman who has 1:5 downs and 20% chance of some genetic defects (80% favorable) but her baby has no downs or genetic defects. I hope this will help you look think more on the positive side.
My dear Mia how are you and the lo doing? I've been thinking of you a lot.
alyak so sorry for your loss. I also just loss my beautiful Isabel 2mos. ago, she was born sleeping at 39 weeks. Like what the other lovely ladies here said, it will get better as time goes on. I still cry nowadays but only when I'm at her grave or in the shower with a loud music in the bathroom.
We just got back from a week vacation. It was really nice to have some time off grieving and to focus on all the blessings that we still have. DD1 had a blast. One thing I noticed though is that everywhere we go I'm always imagining how it would be if we have Isabel with us. I would probly not be able to ride all the rides with DD1 in the amusement park we went to. Or won't be able to go in some places where pram are not allowed inside and so on. I was dreaming and imagining while we were on vacation and when I do snap back to reality I get misty eyed and just shake my head. It was both fun and sad. Will it always be like this?
AND I think I bought more stuff for Isabel to put in her memory corner, "shrine" as my Mum calls it, than DD1. I really don't care however people calls it. It's my Isabel corner in the house.
I think I agree with chip that when our children died we should have some kind of marks or signs in our body or forehead so that people won't make assumptions.
It's really hard waiting for results mecha. We just came back from the hospital meeting this morning. There's no help in there. They can't really tell what killed Isabel. They found GBS in my urine but not enough to infect her & cause her death. My placenta has some traces of GBS but they thought it was infected only when I delivered it. I have Gestational Diabetes and that made Isabel's heart slightly bigger but still not suspected as the cause of her death. All tests of my blood and amniocentesis came back okay. They said Isabel is a healthy baby except that her heart stopped 5 days before planned CS. The only test result we are waiting for now is the placenta test. That will be in another 4weeks or so. So it's back to waiting again.