"Too Beautiful for Earth" For Sylvie-Rose and all our Angel Children

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For my darling Sylvie-Rose, taken from us just seven weeks after you were born. Too beautiful for this earth but I so wish you could have stayed nonetheless.
And for all the Mums walking this tough path. Let us link arms along the way and not be defeated by the cruel blow life has dealt us.

Sorry Lavandes and TW, I was so annoyed that I forgot to give you both a big {{hug}}

Susan , a lot of people on here are very vulnerable by definition of what we have all been through . You know that I believed you about Catherine but when you use a site and you are told by the people who run the site that the person you are talking to has been banned becuase of trolling then it is only human nature you would believe it .

It does make everything about that person questionable rightly or wrongly . When I first joined tcf they had similar happen there which is why it is now more of a closed site , a lot of us have been bitten before and are now wary and much more careful about what we post which as Ilike said maybe that is not such a bad thing .

I understand you feeling hurt by what happened but I do think that dragging up something fm said especially now is just not nice . I have four children running about the house so I know this post isn't the most eloquent but it I couldn't not reply .

I have no idea what has happened, but I hope FM is OK.

TW Dreams can be a blessing, or a curse. There are times I would happily stay, locked in a dream, but others when it's such a relief to wake. I'm sorry to hear that it's effects stayed with you so long, horrible when that happens xx

Miasmummy SM - where all three of mine were born. I wasn't sure whether it was your nearest hospital or not. DS was one of the very first children born there, when it was sparkling new (though they've moved the labour ward from where it was) xx

I'm off to the dentist in a minute. Not too happy this morning - DD1 woke up when I went to bed, and refused to go back to sleep till 4am! Then she wanted to sleep in, on a day when we had to get up - grr... She's been so good recently, but had an afternoon nap yesterday. Will have to try to keep her awake all day

I keep forgetting to ask - where has Shabba gone? I hope she's OK, and I hope that lumps is too xx

Blimey, there's nowt as queer as folk, eh?

No remorse.
It's all everyone else's fault.
It has nothing to do with reaping what you sew .....

Hope you're ok FM x

I saw it too Everlong having no prior knowledge of what went before I did wonder if that was only half the story

I am just confused... saw one post, but not the second. No idea what has gone on, but I am sure that the strong emotional responses were for a good reason!

tami hope the dental appointment is uneventful, and little Miss Night Owl ois good for you today. SM isn't the nearest, but no way I am going locally, it is where Mia died, and I don't trust the quality of care there one inch.

Suspect shabba is either still in Lew-Land being Little Miss Mermaid, or has collapsed on the sofa in exhaustion...

Next Wednesday Everlong

Quick synopsis. This is all from memory so it probably isn't entirely accurate.

A bereaved mother joined this thread.
It was found (by MNHQ I think) that the poster had been a troll under a previous name and before her dd died.
Her story about her dd's death was questioned by posters on MN.
She was banned by MN from posting.

Lots of facts became mixed up and blurred, lots of people were rude and said horrible things (but not on this thread).

It shook up a lot of people (me included) as it was a HUGE todo on MN. It was also hot on the heels of another troll who used this thread.

Got to go, have visitors x

Wow, loads going on here.

Fm I hope you are ok, I was thinking of Fraser of the weekend and lit a candle for him.

Lavandes- hope you are ok too.

Not a lot been happening with me, just plodding along with work and ttc. We got a little kitten last week, named him Alfie. He has been keeping me busy!

Woah!

Susan, I only joined this thread last October when my own dd died. But I remember the whole SassySusan furore all too well.

You are/were WashWithCare. Started a lot of horrible threads. ( formula feeding causing cancer for one!) Under that nickname you certainly invented one child here

I do believe that you had a dd and lost her. But don't you see that if you are named as a troll who upset a lot of people and if you are known to have invented a child, people are going to question everything you say? One of the oldest and best used fables "The Boy Who Cried Wolf"

I didn't see what you said to fm but I do remember a post she made earlier in the thread and can hazard a guess. fm is only an innocent party here and you can't blame her for losing trust in you.

Miasmummy I don't blame you for not wanting to go to the nearest place, especially as the care was so shocking. Please believe me, I do think that SM is a great hospital, and if I were blessed with baby dust, then I'd go back there. What happened with Tamsin, was more a gut feeling, and joining up the dots, after the event. I think I always knew it was going to go wrong, and I think if fate decides something, then you are but a pawn... as awful as it is. I'm so very happy for you, really, really happy. BTW the nettle risotto sounds yummy! xx

Iliketomoveit chip Thanks for the synposis, I was just confused by deleted posts.

Blizy Archie is so, so adorable xx

I am feeling much better now I have got past Fraser's b/day...it was jut soo much harder without my mum to lean on this year.. thank you all for your support

I guess Sassy has been on here moaning about something I said ....I didnt see her post but thanks for the backup ladies....I

fm, glad you're feeling a bit better. This year it was going to be especially tough as you have lost your Mum as well. Have a

FM I really wouldn't worry - to a complete outsider whilst trying to refute one of your posts she actually managed to prove your post to be factual and correct. Well done you for getting through - it must have been a tough one without your mum this year xx

I have taken some time to think and have decided not to post on here for a little while...

I was very upset when someone I thought was a friend on here turned out not to be all that they seemed ... I never actually decried this person and in fact was found defending her on threads where people were saying nasty things

and now it seems that person is not only still here but has waited for my boy 's birthday to post a rant about me

So for my sanitys sake I am going to stop posting on here for a little while.

I am thinking of you all

:( oh fm It has all gone even more crazy than normal in here today. Not sure what was said but I'm sad you need a break from here. seems that a few of us are feeling quiet at the moment.

thinking of you too xx

fm. This just isn't right. and this isn't how I wanted this thread to finish up.