Precious memories of all our beloved children, gone too soon but they will live on forever in our hearts

[lavandes]

For our beloved Richard, missed so much xx

Morning all x

Shabs how you doing ? I always think Vera Lynn sound so emotional herself when she sings that song , I hope you had a good nights sleep x

Good luck at work today fm

spilt has she e mailed you back yet ?

Not doing too bad thanks. However, I reckon that one day soon I will actually wake up before I go to sleep - my sleep pattern is like a new born baby!!!!

That is horrid , I hate not sleeping properly (especially when everyone else in the house can)

Morning all x

Nothing back yet, but she's, ahem, not an early riser so I'm not expecting anything for a while! Will keep you posted.

Hope the day treats you all gently x

Anyone hear the section on stillbirths today on Radio 4? Good to hear the issue getting more publicity but still sad to listen to for me.

hi axis SANDS has launched a media campain following the reports in the Lancet journal. I think its great that it will raise awarness but it is still hard to read. Hope you are ok x

Afternoon all, glad the poem was appreciated, didn't want to upset anyone but it's so appropriate I thought. Hope it was ok to post it.

I've not seen the new media campaign from SANDS, will have to have a look.

shabba I've only just sorted my sleep pattern out, sort of, and am finally sleeping more than 3 hours at a time. Everything is harder when you don't sleep properly :(

spilt I think that was a good thing to say and I hope she takes it the way she should. Had problems with dh's family (mil and bil mainly) following this and I've been treated disgustingly by them at times and really had to put myself last but I only did for dh's sake. It really hurt me to have to be sorry to other people for them treating me like crap, can you tell I'm still bitter? I only did it for dh though. Anyway, rambling! Hope you're ok today.

hope all are getting by today xx

We are coming to the end of another thread , any suggestions/offers to who would like to do the next one ?

How is everyone doing ?

I dont mind doing it - but also dont mind, at all, if one of you other ladies would like to. xxx

I was wondering if it would be nice to start a new thread tomorrow in fraser's name seeing as its his b/day

what do you think ladies?

I think that would be perfect fm .

How did work go today ? I have been thinking about you xx

Oh yes Fmammy - I think that would be wonderful. I have bought a new, beautiful vanilla scented candle in honour of his birthday. Lew saw it and said 'Is it your fwends babies birthday tomorrow andma?' 'Yes my love it is.' 'Wait for me to come after night time so me can sing.'

He gets here about 7am - so, yes, I suppose it is after night time!!!

I went to work and and they said what are you doing here you nutter.. you are supposed to be working from home... when I said I thoght it was just wed and Friday they said yeah whats the point in that

They then found me a quiet corner and said.. jsut work on the email acct .. you cant take calls today
so I was busy but not bugged.. was quite calming really

aww shabs thats lovely .. will start a new thread at some point tomorrow and post a link.. will have a think about a title tonight

That seems a lovely idea FM

The whole of December seems bad to me now, and I used to love Christmas so much :( I was due on Dec 23rd with Scarlett but I last felt her move late on Dec 1st, then we found out on Dec 2nd that she had died :( also mil's birthday. I carried her until Dec 6th, went in to be induced on the 5th but she came on the 6th. We had her funeral on Dec 29th :( Dreading the whole month, I know it's months away yet though.

How nice are they ? Well done your work ! It is nice to hear that sometimes just sometimes the muggles "get it"

xxxxxx

Evening all x I've had a roughish day today. Resulted in planting sunflower seeds with ds1 then arguing with dh! Got plenty seeds left (they were dried from sunflowers planted after our 'walk for Gregor' last year) so if any of you who are not on my FB want some to plant then please do inbox me your address xx
FM - think starting a new thread on your darling Fraser's bday is a lovely idea. sounds like your work folks do 'get it' x
Cheese - I can understand your december is my march, hang around we will hold your hand when december comes xx

Hi ladies xx

Lovely idea for Fraser's birthday fm xx

I am struggling through April. It is so horrible. I can't believe it is nearly a year. But I have survived I think. All these dates, I will be glad when May arrives. How on earth we get through is beyond belief. xx

Oh my word Lavendes - almost a year. I bet every day lasts a lifetime but seems like a few seconds? So glad you found us - I value your friendship xxx

Morning girls xx

Morning all x

Morning all

Thinking of you today fm. Happy birthday little Fraser xx

I have started a new thread with tears in my eyes

for fraser.. missed so very very much spring thread

morning ladies xx

Thinking of you and your family today fm xx

Thanks for your kind words shabs I am so glad I found this place, all the lovely mums here have been such a great help to me.xx

Lovely new thread title.

Lavendes thank you for this thread. We have had lots of new mums join us, very sadly. I hope we can all continue to help each other and offer a hand to anyone struggling to get through the day.

xxxx