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Bullying - my dd being accused of bullying by some women I fell out with !

266 replies

Lambiepie · 12/06/2008 14:23

Not sure where to start with this really !

Up till last year I was very friendly with a couple of other mums at school - anyway I was getting increasingly fed up with one of them as she was never around in the day (she works full time) and rarely did playdates - and fundamentally I disagree with mums working - but anyway - I decided to end the friendship by starting an email argument - which she fell for hook line and sinker - and a few months later she stopped speaking to me which was great.

Later in the year I confronted the other woman who had continued to be friends with the first one and told her she had to choose between us as it was disloyal of her to still see the other one knowing that I hated her ! Unfortunately she wasn't the person I thought she was and refused to make the break - so I ended up not being friends with her either !

Obviously those two have talked about me to loads of people as a lot of people at school are wary of me now and I don't really have many friends - but i think that's their problem really !

Anyhow - now my dd is being accused of bullying their two dds at school ! I have been summoned into the school and told of her alleged misdemeanours and the school have given her an official warning and put her on a report card ! I am furious of course as the two biches have clearly dreamed this up together to get back at me !

I need a plan for revenge !!! What would you do ?

OP posts:
misdee · 12/06/2008 14:24

trolldar is going off!

Iklboo · 12/06/2008 14:24

I'm putting on me kevlar vest and hard-hat. Also opening troll-detector device

fryalot · 12/06/2008 14:25

firstly, I would come out from under my bridge

Twiglett · 12/06/2008 14:25

apple doesn't fall far from the tea does it

Lambiepie · 12/06/2008 14:25

No no I am not a troll honestly - I have namechanged fro this as I know the other women come on here from time to time and they knew my regular name when we were friends !

OP posts:
BeauLocks · 12/06/2008 14:25

My troll detector device just blew up.

sandcastles · 12/06/2008 14:25

Grow up a little?

fryalot · 12/06/2008 14:26

and NOBODY is going to tell me off for screaming TROLL!!!!! on this one!

Seona1973 · 12/06/2008 14:26

I'd leave well alone - you seem to have done enough stirring as it is.

Ecmo · 12/06/2008 14:26

do you have apples in your tea twiglett?

cornsilk · 12/06/2008 14:26

Chronic overuse of exclamation marks by op. Yes misdee - Always a troll signal.

Lambiepie · 12/06/2008 14:26

What do you mean Twiglett ?

OP posts:
Twiglett · 12/06/2008 14:26

from the tea??? tea??

ok

the h'apple dost not fall fareth from the tree

misdee · 12/06/2008 14:26

mine went craaaaaaaazy. there is a troll in the vincity.

Iklboo · 12/06/2008 14:26

Awwooo-ga awooo-ga awooo-ga (troll siren0

LyraSilvertongue · 12/06/2008 14:26

How can you be so sure your DD is innocent?
Your approach to these women sounds very immature. I hope your DD doesn't learn that this is an appropriate way for an adult to behave.

Seona1973 · 12/06/2008 14:27

what age are you - 5? if this is real you sound very very childish

BouncingTurtle · 12/06/2008 14:28

Here's my suggestion, dearie.

Twiglett · 12/06/2008 14:28

I mean the person described in the OP is a bully .. and so it would not be surprising if the fictional daughter of the person described in the OP is also a bully

Ecmo · 12/06/2008 14:28

'a lot of people at school are wary of me now and I don't really have many friends'

BouncingTurtle · 12/06/2008 14:30

Aww feck it, love a bit of troll baiting.

'a lot of people at school are wary of me now and I don't really have many friends'

Is it any wonder? Surprised you have any.
Your dd gets her bullying ways from you.

Lambiepie · 12/06/2008 14:31

Well - let me tell you a bit more !

Allegedyl my dd has been telling girls in her class that x hates them, and then no-one has been speaking to x - so x has got upset ! (she is also a child of a working mother so I am not really surprised though). Then she has also alegedly been saying to child y that she is fat and ugly (she looks like her mum by the way - the one I fell out with first).

The teachers also say she is rude and disruptive and is constantly in trouble for being lippy.

I have told my dd that I don't believe it all at all and that I know she is well behaved and polite like I have broiught her up to be.

Don't know why you all think I am a troll - I am very real and need some help in dealing with these awful women who have brought their daughters up to be so wet.

OP posts:
Twiglett · 12/06/2008 14:31

clasps Turtle to bosom in mutual appreciation

Twiglett · 12/06/2008 14:32

oh .. you see now you're taking it too far .. it could've almost got the juices flowing but you went too far

dat's sad

Bumdiddley · 12/06/2008 14:32

"But the grass on the other side of the bridge is so sweet"