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Bullying - my dd being accused of bullying by some women I fell out with !

266 replies

Lambiepie · 12/06/2008 14:23

Not sure where to start with this really !

Up till last year I was very friendly with a couple of other mums at school - anyway I was getting increasingly fed up with one of them as she was never around in the day (she works full time) and rarely did playdates - and fundamentally I disagree with mums working - but anyway - I decided to end the friendship by starting an email argument - which she fell for hook line and sinker - and a few months later she stopped speaking to me which was great.

Later in the year I confronted the other woman who had continued to be friends with the first one and told her she had to choose between us as it was disloyal of her to still see the other one knowing that I hated her ! Unfortunately she wasn't the person I thought she was and refused to make the break - so I ended up not being friends with her either !

Obviously those two have talked about me to loads of people as a lot of people at school are wary of me now and I don't really have many friends - but i think that's their problem really !

Anyhow - now my dd is being accused of bullying their two dds at school ! I have been summoned into the school and told of her alleged misdemeanours and the school have given her an official warning and put her on a report card ! I am furious of course as the two biches have clearly dreamed this up together to get back at me !

I need a plan for revenge !!! What would you do ?

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barnstaple · 12/06/2008 15:25

You've not put the 'agree with Lambiepie and Lambiepie's daughter' spell on us yet. That's why we don't agree.

Carmenere · 12/06/2008 15:25

No you see Lambiepiewhateva is a VERY contentious character and there is no way that she would let what I said earlier go without wanting to have a go at me, so your lack of consistency of character is also weak.

oopsadaisyangel · 12/06/2008 15:25

Maybe DH just wants an easy life and is resigned to the fact that he will never really have any friends because of his delightful wife and her "honesty"

Youcannotbeserious · 12/06/2008 15:26

OK, it's boring now.

Lambie - on the VERY slim chance you aren't a troll, why on earth do you think it's acceptable to treat people like crap but then expect others to treat you with respect?

Get a life.

If your DH thinks you are right, I suppose you better get used to talking only to him.

Can I have a few of those needles, Squonk? I have a spare eye...

Lambiepie · 12/06/2008 15:26

Oh WHATEVER - I'm fed up now - off to get my dd from school. Bet I get some looks in the car park as usual. Bitches.

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Pinkjenny · 12/06/2008 15:27

Well that was fun, ahem.

oopsadaisyangel · 12/06/2008 15:27

and I'm sure they are saying the exact same thing about you but of course they will be wrong!

pagwatch · 12/06/2008 15:30

lambipie

you are either really crap at trolling or really crap at just ..well being around people really.
one or t'other.
But I am betting incompetent trollage

pinkjenny
don't react to it. if someone is genuinely as unpleasant as lamb is describing herself then surely her opinions on the WOHM/SAHM issue is neither here nor there.
don't you take a view on a person before you decide to be offended by their views. It's like having jade goody say you are stupid or posh spice calling you attention seeking....

glaskham · 12/06/2008 15:30

DH doesn't wanna upset you!!! He's the one who has to share a bed with you after all!!!

DD probs gets it all from you, YOU are very childish making your friend 'choose sides' grow up!!!!!

Carmenere · 12/06/2008 15:31

Is PinkJenny not the troll?

pagwatch · 12/06/2008 15:33

too many trolls...
cannot cope...

Pinkjenny · 12/06/2008 15:37

Of course I'm not the troll!

Carmenere · 12/06/2008 15:41

Oh sorry I thought the 'ahem' was by way of embarrassed admission.

Pinkjenny · 12/06/2008 15:42

We NEED a sarcasm emotion.

beaniesteve · 12/06/2008 15:45

"they just work because they want to"

How very dare they!

kiskideesameanoldmother · 12/06/2008 15:46

Lambie, when I don't think a friendship i have is working out, I don't make up an incident to fall out so that we go our separate ways. Most people in real life just.... go their separate ways. end of.

I also don't expect anyone to choose their friendships. It has nothing to do with loyalty. But it has a lot to do with maturity.

I don't assume that anyone has the time, inclination or creativity to assume that a teacher has the time or inclination to take sides in a petty incident among mums at the school gate. A petty incident which unfortunately seems to be all a figment of your imagination, ie, everyone finding the time to gossip about you. Have you ever considered that, just maybe, no one enough of a stuff to talk about you for more than say, 15 secs a week?

I also find it insulting that you think that a teacher has the time and energy for the petty vindictiveness you have created in your own mind.

Most people, like your dd's teacher and most mumsnetters are way too busy and could hardly give a stuff anyway to create a similar scenario as your, erm, dilemma in your OP.

this is why everyone else thinks you are trolling.

and why i pray you don't live anywhere near me.

Lauriefairycake · 12/06/2008 15:56

"dh agrees with me entirely"

he's probably shagging someone more sensible

Izzywhizzy · 12/06/2008 15:59

Lambpie- You sound like a complete cow. I pity the poor mums at your school who have to have anything to do with you.

Lambiepie · 12/06/2008 16:19

You're all clearly two stops short of Dagenham if you think I am wrong.

  1. first woman dserved being dumped - she was a cow 2)second woamn should have been loayl to me as she knew me first and we were closer friends than her and first woman 3)I am an honest frank person and speak as I find - if other people can't handle that it's their problem.
  2. the teacher has been hoodwinked
  3. my dd is lovely
  4. their dd's are wet
  5. my dh is not shagging someone else
  6. you are all horrible
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Lambiepie · 12/06/2008 16:20

And I firgot to say - Good Bye !

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StarlightMcKenzie · 12/06/2008 16:30

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beaniesteve · 12/06/2008 16:44

bye, are you really going?

scatterbrain · 12/06/2008 16:45

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StarlightMcKenzie · 12/06/2008 16:47

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Abitembarassed · 12/06/2008 17:08

mumsnet.com/Talk?topicid=8&threadid=336350#6822755

Can't find "last years" thread though.