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Bullying - my dd being accused of bullying by some women I fell out with !

266 replies

Lambiepie · 12/06/2008 14:23

Not sure where to start with this really !

Up till last year I was very friendly with a couple of other mums at school - anyway I was getting increasingly fed up with one of them as she was never around in the day (she works full time) and rarely did playdates - and fundamentally I disagree with mums working - but anyway - I decided to end the friendship by starting an email argument - which she fell for hook line and sinker - and a few months later she stopped speaking to me which was great.

Later in the year I confronted the other woman who had continued to be friends with the first one and told her she had to choose between us as it was disloyal of her to still see the other one knowing that I hated her ! Unfortunately she wasn't the person I thought she was and refused to make the break - so I ended up not being friends with her either !

Obviously those two have talked about me to loads of people as a lot of people at school are wary of me now and I don't really have many friends - but i think that's their problem really !

Anyhow - now my dd is being accused of bullying their two dds at school ! I have been summoned into the school and told of her alleged misdemeanours and the school have given her an official warning and put her on a report card ! I am furious of course as the two biches have clearly dreamed this up together to get back at me !

I need a plan for revenge !!! What would you do ?

OP posts:
LyraSilvertongue · 12/06/2008 14:42

I don't think she is a troll, gals, just ignorant, tactless and a bit dim.

Lauriefairycake · 12/06/2008 14:43

slagging off other womens choices does not give you character

it makes you a bitch

and seeking revenge

means you're a bitch

and starting an email war to get rid of a friend

means you're a bitch

get the picture now

BouncingTurtle · 12/06/2008 14:43

Is this your DH?

Herodias · 12/06/2008 14:43

No dear, the righteous indignation and swearing shouldn't be posted until at least 1 hour in.

You just can't get the proper quality of trolls these days.

fryalot · 12/06/2008 14:45

By Lambiepie on Thu 12-Jun-08 14:42:31
So what are you saying - apart from you don't believe I am for real ?

Are you saying that you think my dd is a bully and that she gets its from me ??

um... yes

Cammelia · 12/06/2008 14:45

Unfortunately people like Lambiepie do exist in RL

BouncingTurtle · 12/06/2008 14:46

I'm still not quite convinced that she isn't a troll... but I guess she really could be that full of herself.
Glad she is not my friend.

Lambiepie · 12/06/2008 14:46

But surely I should be honest about my views ? i do tend to speak my mind - I have always seen my frankness as something to be proud of as people know I don't do schmoozing!

I thought I could rely on you lot for some support!

Am off now to go back to my real persona - you all seem to like me better as my alter ego.

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Pinkjenny · 12/06/2008 14:46

She is SO a troll. I tell you, she is the woman from the other thread, I am convinced. Same language, same tone. It is, it IS!

Twiglett · 12/06/2008 14:46

oh no they don't

fryalot · 12/06/2008 14:47
Lambiepie · 12/06/2008 14:47

I am NOT a troll !!!

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fryalot · 12/06/2008 14:48

who are you then?

Twiglett · 12/06/2008 14:48
Herodias · 12/06/2008 14:48

right on cue!
you're getting better.

BouncingTurtle · 12/06/2008 14:48

You need to learn a new skill it is called TACT.
You seriously need to grow up, and your DH needs to grow a backbone - because your behaviour is totally unacceptable. You do come across as an utter bitch.
Your dd also needs to know that you do NOT set a very good example. If she continues as she is she will have a very unhappy childhood and I wouldn't wish that on anyone.

Seona1973 · 12/06/2008 14:48
  1. the email argument was gutless and bitchy

  2. the 'you better fall out with her if you want to be friends with me' is very childish and not something you'd expect a mature adult to do

  3. if the teacher says your lo is disruptive then she probably is and that is her and your fault and nothing to do with the other mothers.

Why not take it on the chin, accept your lo has not been behaving and try to build some bridges with the other mothers so you have some friends left in the world or you will end up a very lonely person.

LyraSilvertongue · 12/06/2008 14:48

Pinkjenny, what other thread?

fryalot · 12/06/2008 14:49
Pinkjenny · 12/06/2008 14:50

here

BouncingTurtle · 12/06/2008 14:50

Lyra - the AIBU about the couple going on holiday when OP is having an affair with the dp in the other couple.

Love2bake · 12/06/2008 14:50

Sorry but you are either a troll or a twat.....which is it?

LyraSilvertongue · 12/06/2008 14:51

Oh yes, that one.
Not sure the style's the same. she didn't sound so ignorant.

Youcannotbeserious · 12/06/2008 14:51

what a laugh... if lambie isn't a troll, i feel sorry for her dd

Pinkjenny · 12/06/2008 14:51

Well that's what I think. I am dying to know who she is.

Love2bake - LOL