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Bullying - my dd being accused of bullying by some women I fell out with !

266 replies

Lambiepie · 12/06/2008 14:23

Not sure where to start with this really !

Up till last year I was very friendly with a couple of other mums at school - anyway I was getting increasingly fed up with one of them as she was never around in the day (she works full time) and rarely did playdates - and fundamentally I disagree with mums working - but anyway - I decided to end the friendship by starting an email argument - which she fell for hook line and sinker - and a few months later she stopped speaking to me which was great.

Later in the year I confronted the other woman who had continued to be friends with the first one and told her she had to choose between us as it was disloyal of her to still see the other one knowing that I hated her ! Unfortunately she wasn't the person I thought she was and refused to make the break - so I ended up not being friends with her either !

Obviously those two have talked about me to loads of people as a lot of people at school are wary of me now and I don't really have many friends - but i think that's their problem really !

Anyhow - now my dd is being accused of bullying their two dds at school ! I have been summoned into the school and told of her alleged misdemeanours and the school have given her an official warning and put her on a report card ! I am furious of course as the two biches have clearly dreamed this up together to get back at me !

I need a plan for revenge !!! What would you do ?

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Herodias · 12/06/2008 14:32

Blimey, if you're not a troll, I feel sorry for you - your OP makes you sound like a 12 year old schoolboy, whose X-box is in for repair!

If you are genuine, perhaps your DD has inherited her unpleasant streak from you?

BeauLocks · 12/06/2008 14:33

Gwan, who are you really?

Which poster leaves a space before an exclamation mark?

misdee · 12/06/2008 14:33
fryalot · 12/06/2008 14:33

it is a troll, I tell ye

BouncingTurtle · 12/06/2008 14:34

Lambiepie - i agree you do need help.

Perhaps from this gentleman?

Pinkjenny · 12/06/2008 14:34

This is utter rubbish. Its not even entertaining. I think its the same troll that wants to go on holiday with her husband and boyfriend.

Herodias · 12/06/2008 14:34

Yes, too much too soon, OP.
Nice try though.
Namechange and give it a day or two.

We'll be ready for ya!

Seona1973 · 12/06/2008 14:34

how can you blame the women if even the teachers say your lo is badly behaved in class - did they poison the teachers mind too??

Lambiepie · 12/06/2008 14:35

seriously - do I sound childish? Those two women said I was childish and a bitch last year - but dh agreed with me that I was in the right.

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LyraSilvertongue · 12/06/2008 14:35

Are you really not a troll? You seem intent on causing a reaction, especially as you keep going on about disapproving of working mothers. if you're an Mner for real, you'll know that's bound to cause a huge ruckus.

BouncingTurtle · 12/06/2008 14:36

Yes but you don't understand - the teacher is probably female, and has kids... and is therefore a working mum! Euggh how awful that Lambiepie's mum has to be esposed to such poor role models.

LyraSilvertongue · 12/06/2008 14:36

Lambiepie, yes, you are childish.

Lambiepie · 12/06/2008 14:38

Seona - yes I think so ! One of the women is a class rep and the teachers love her for some reason - so I do think they take her word over mine !

I think they think I am a bit nutty tbh as I am a little hotheaded and have had a few little outbursts with them in the past when they have raised my dd's behaviour with me.

I'm not saying my dd is perfect, far from it, but neither are the other girls.

So - what should I do? Do you think I should believe the teachers even though I know they are wrng and picking on my dd ?

Surely I have to stick up for my dd ?

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littlelapin · 12/06/2008 14:38

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Twiglett · 12/06/2008 14:38

it's not that you're childish, it's that you're too stupid to create a really good troll thread

god it's not difficult

post contentious yet partly believable OP .. then come on every so often and take some opinions on .. let small amounts of info through

this one is like premature ejaculation

fryalot · 12/06/2008 14:39

hey, LL... I did a search first!

(then I screamed "TROLL!")

Lambiepie · 12/06/2008 14:39

Sorry is it not OK to say that I disapporove of working mums ? I didn't realise !

I just think mums should be at home with their kids when they are so young - i do feel this very strongly and often state this to people in RL - perhaps that's where I am going wrong ! I know I am a little outspoken but my dh thinks it's endearing and gives me character !

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LyraSilvertongue · 12/06/2008 14:40

How do you know the teachers are wrong?
They must love you

Pinkjenny · 12/06/2008 14:40

Oh seriously, go and do something productive with your time.

littlelapin · 12/06/2008 14:40

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

fryalot · 12/06/2008 14:41

twig = it's not even that good

Lambiepie · 12/06/2008 14:41

For Gods Sake - I am not a bloody troll !!

If you don't want to believe me then piss off - I am looking for helpful advice here !

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LyraSilvertongue · 12/06/2008 14:41

Lambiepie, the word you're looking for is tactless.
Do you say this to working women? That you disapprove of their choice? And you wonder why you've got no friends?

fryalot · 12/06/2008 14:42

helpful advice?

Lambiepie · 12/06/2008 14:42

So what are you saying - apart from you don't believe I am for real ?

Are you saying that you think my dd is a bully and that she gets its from me ??

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