Following on from the thread on AIBU, this is the place for those with incredibly fussy/food phobic kids! If you are fed up with the "eat what they're given or let them starve" brigade, this is the place for you.
(If you ARE one of the 'eat or starve' brigade, please look away now - this thread is not for you, unless of course you've just had the Damascene conversion having discovered that your child is not the great eater you always thought he/she would be, down to your incredible parenting skills and totally relaxed attitude to food.)
My fussy eater is DD1, now 15. All was fine til she hit 12 months - easy to wean, I Annabel-Karmel-ed frantically etc etc.
But overnight she just. stopped. eating. And when she started again she knew exactly what she would and wouldn't eat. We had the tears and tantrums (from me) til I realised it was going nowhere. So 14 years later, here we are.
Her current repertoire is, in no particular order: macaroni cheese (no crispy top). garlic bread. breaded chicken products. chips. pizza with tomato sauce, no cheese. cold chicken (from a packet, not off the roast). spaghetti hoops in tomato sauce. Heinz tomato soup. Milano salami. pistachio nuts. crisps. any sort of bread as long as it doesnt have bits in. wraps. bananas. Innocent fruit smoothies (hurrah!). occasional off-piste forays into things like turkey schnitzel - successful; burgers/lasagne/bolognese - not successful.
She's bored with not being able to eat what everyone else does, but cant bring herself to try. I just try to keep going with the idea that she can try whatever she likes whenever she likes, and that she will grow out of it.
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The incredibly fussy eaters thread
boschy · 29/11/2011 11:20
I noticed that too,camdancer - the Freaky Eaters all turned out to be a little more healthy than the programme makers would have liked 
. It was quite heartening.
Yep. Have heard em all
Now I am on my ds2 I dont take it to heart, but with ds1 (who had some significant developmental delay) I would cry very often 
I honestly just dont worry anymore.
If people are so rude/obnoxious/silly to make comments/give silly advice etc then they are not people I want to be around.
Eg; we have been invited to my dh's aunts house on xmas eve for lunch. She will do dressed crab, salmon, salad, potato salad, crostini etc. Which is lovely but which my children wont/cant eat. (and I am allergid to shellfish!)
I will feed them before we go, I will eat salad and bread and then we will all eat cake.
If she doesnt like it then that really is her problem..perhaps asking me what my young dc would like to eat would be a good idea? 
We used to have shouty mealtimes. New foods would mean that DS would be screaming under the table, DH would be seething and the oldest children would bolt to the livingroom to eat in front of the tv. An Indigestion Special, we called those meals
Nowadays, if I try something new, I will sort of perch it on the edge of his plate, away from his proper dinner and see what happens. He knows the theory that you have to try things many times before they stop being unusual and start being usual and will have a nibble or lick of new foods sometimes. And sometimes is surprised that it is edible.
My goal is that, even if he grows up with a small list of food, if they cover a wide range (eg a fruit, a veg, some types of bread, a kind of meat) he will be able to eat away from home without too much fear of unknown things being chucked on his plate. There should (fingers crossed) always be something on the menu he can eat. And maybe future partners won't want to brain him for being such a whiny fusspot over food. That's the plan any way
awimbaway It took me a while...ds1 is 8.5!!! 
I think peer pressure can help with this issue tbh..if their friends are all eating, say, sausage rolls, then they are more likely to try them than if at home.
I have realised something over the years......My children eat well, 3 meals a day and snacks. They drink juice, water and milk. They are both healthy weights and heights and have good teeth.
So, all in all I consider I am not doing too badly And you are all doing fine too x
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