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Calling children by their initials

114 replies

SunnyFun · 07/08/2026 19:25

I don't know how common it is, but I know a few children (all boys) that are almost exclusively called by their first and middle initial (JC, JP, JJ, AJ, KD, etc.). I've always thought it was cute and said I'd do that if I ever had a boy. Our daughter's initials are going to be DJ, and I'm now thinking that I'd like to call her that mostly. Just wondering what others think of this idea. Does it work for a girl?

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Strawberrycheesecake7 · 08/08/2026 02:03

Although I wouldn’t do this personally I do think it’s quite cute too. I think it’s fine as long as you choose a first name that you actually like and are okay with your daughter choosing to use it if she doesn’t like the initials thing when she gets older.

User0311 · 08/08/2026 02:08

I always call my daughter by her first initial only which is V , it’s just kind of stuck and now everyone calls her V

mathanxiety · 08/08/2026 03:43

Matildatoldsuchdreadfullies · 07/08/2026 19:27

DJ was Arthur the Aardvark’s little sister.

It’s fine. Not my taste, but most people would consider my children have the most boring names in the universe, so…

I thought it was DW - Dora Winifred.

Maybe just in the US...

inkgirl · 08/08/2026 04:08

I wanted to do that when my kids were babies but their dad didn't so we never did it. Would have been, JC, KG and TE

LetThemEatCakeThen · 08/08/2026 04:16

purser25 · 07/08/2026 21:05

You might find the school will call them by their registered name not a pet name.

Schools will honestly call the child Buddy, Junior, or something equally as silly as these examples if the parents request it. You just inform the school of the fact that your child goes by a different name. They typically have a separate section on the form for the preferred name. It’s never been an issue for my one child who is called something else.

EmiliaRuusuvuori · 08/08/2026 04:34

My son went to school with a boy named Teejay, I always thought it was a strange choice.

RoseField1 · 08/08/2026 04:35

Horrible

QuantumLampshader · 08/08/2026 04:44

My daughter is LG (Lydia-Grace)

roshi42 · 08/08/2026 05:09

It would be a good ‘cool’ nickname to hold for when she’s a teenager

likeitshard · 08/08/2026 07:53

TheBirdintheCave · 07/08/2026 21:05

I toyed with using MJ for my daughter as that’s what her first two initials turned out to be but it was a bit too ‘Spiderman’ for me.

Instead she gets called all sorts… Celery, Chella, Moo-Moo Meadows etc 😆

Moo moo meadows from Mario? 😂

WearyAuldWumman · 08/08/2026 07:57

YorkshireIndie · 07/08/2026 19:30

Up to you. Always felt like an American thing. Never heard it a thing in the UK

Latterly, when I was teaching, we had boys whose actual names were initials or or what would have been initials written as they sounded - "T.J" or "Teejay", for example.

It doesn't appeal to me, but we all have different ideas about names.

Missey85 · 08/08/2026 07:58

I'm a girl and I get called MJ rather than my full name 😊 ❤️

Missey85 · 08/08/2026 08:00

mathanxiety · 08/08/2026 03:43

I thought it was DW - Dora Winifred.

Maybe just in the US...

I'm in Australia and it was DW Here too 😊

Mylobsterteapot · 08/08/2026 08:00

Matildatoldsuchdreadfullies · 07/08/2026 19:27

DJ was Arthur the Aardvark’s little sister.

It’s fine. Not my taste, but most people would consider my children have the most boring names in the universe, so…

That was DW, for Dora Winnifred.

OttersOnAPlane · 08/08/2026 08:02

CJ (Claudia Jean) Cregg is an icon.

I know 4 women who go by initials in the UK and are middle to upper middle class. Nicknames just happen.

didgeridid · 08/08/2026 08:05

I've met a couple of people that go by initials. I don't think it's any different to a pet name or nick name. All depends on the person and initials. I mean KR sounds a bit naff but KC, PJ, DW all sound good

custardbonbon · 08/08/2026 08:07

I know a baby girl, SJ. Suits the mother more than the baby. Baby, hopefully, will grow into it.

littlebigchicken · 08/08/2026 08:08

I love it, I think it sounds really cool
but she still has a normal full name! Win win

TheDonsDingleberries · 08/08/2026 08:18

When my sister and I are with close friends and family, I sometimes call her by her first initial. It's no different to any other nickname really.

Chesticles · 08/08/2026 08:20

I know a couple of people who sort of go by their initials. A bloke called Des, whose actual name is David Edward Smith (something like that) and a lady called Jay, whose name is Janet Alice Young (again I can’t remember the actual name). I only found this out after knew them a while. You just accept what people’s names are when they are introduced 🤷🏻‍♀️

BranClaps · 08/08/2026 08:20

ToKittyornottoKitty · 07/08/2026 19:31

I don’t think you need to pre decide the pet name you give the kid before you’ve even named them. Just wait and see how things go. It’d be a bit odd to refer to a newborn as DJ but whatever

This. My children have weird nicknames that grew over the years.

2chocolateoranges · 08/08/2026 08:24

Not a fan. I know an RJ and JjJ. I cringe a little when people shout on them.

just call them by their actual name.

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 08/08/2026 08:40

Worked alright for Polly Jean Harvey.

DaftOpalPoet · 08/08/2026 08:49

Matildatoldsuchdreadfullies · 07/08/2026 19:27

DJ was Arthur the Aardvark’s little sister.

It’s fine. Not my taste, but most people would consider my children have the most boring names in the universe, so…

Arthur's sister was DW (my girls loved the show)
My colleague's cousin is Lisa Marie but known as LM.

Myswweetchild · 08/08/2026 09:24

iwishtoo · 07/08/2026 21:33

I don't generally like it but I do have quite a posh friend who pulls it off. As a child you accept most things. My cousin was named after my dad so they were known as big K and little K within the family. I was about 18 before I realised this was a bit unusual 😁

This made me laugh.
And along came Special K 🤣