DRUM ROLLS!!!! My changed user name says it all.
So, I 100% qualify to comment and sorry only read the 1st page as I got excited ;-)
Yup, I agree. Do NOT call your girl Anna. Anna means 'kindness, generosity, nurturing, gracious/ grace etc' which I (and my mum the owner of the name) are to a fault- my mum especially. You just could never meet a kind person like my mum. And that tells you a lot as she is now nearly 90 years old and never once lost her cool- she is so calm.
Right, I don't like the name. She didn't like that DAD gave me the name although hse appreciated the gesture after having produced 4 kids by that time ( I am the 5th and was an 'accident' but a much celebrated and loved accident to this day.)
Right mum says it is an old name. Yes, it does feel old. However, as I am an unassuming person ( I am a barrister), the name works for me in my profession as people 'naturally undermine it, including my first appearance ( I am soft-spoken, feminine and really kind' until they get a shock of their lives when my unperturbed steely determined quest for real justice, fairness, accountability, compensation etc for my client starts slowly but surely showing and close in a way that no gap has been left for a come back other than an admission/ compromise. Sometimes it shocks the judges who sometime, would interrupt me relentlessly ( I am calm so don't react) for a couple of hours until, they finally (through my efforts to just be heard) click that Anna is onto something and then they take it over to finish it offf and site me throughout their judgement.
Anyway, enough about me. I do have a gorgeous, exotic, unique ( why I can't post it here) which I love giving out socially. However, it is also the name (second name) I use as my email address to pay tribute to it as it is just different.
So, go for Annie, Anna-Mary; Anne-Mary; Angelina (sounds powerful).
For her part, mum asked me to write all my names in all official certificates like national (final) exams, etc and I think was a lovely way of getting around it and I am grateful. Of course, I love my name Anna because it is my mother's so I never had to really feel that I would have preferred something else. It is more her, who felt her baby was saddled with 'an old name'.
My brother named his daughter after me and we call her Grace. She is Anna Grace and all my middle names. Lovely tribute and Grace is a gorgeous name.