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He wants to name the baby after his dead girlfriend

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Whambamthankyoumam111 · 19/07/2023 22:44

Hi. New to this. Just wanted thoughts on this. My partner and I are expecting our first baby soon and coming up with baby names. Tonight out of the blue he suggested a name which I know is the name of his girlfriend who died years ago. A woman he has put on a pedestal since. I was not happy and he tried to diffuse the situation saying that it was just a nice name.
I am super mad about the fact that he would even suggest it. Am I overreacting?

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Thosepeskyseagulls · 19/07/2023 23:18

No f-ing way.

This! What a bizarre thing to suggest in the first place.

supersonicginandtonic · 20/07/2023 22:53

@Whambamthankyoumam111 why should be let go of her. When people die we don't just erase them from memory. How incredibly cold. Yes you don't have to accept or use the name but you can't expect hom to forget about her.

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