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Husband's awful name suggestions!

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annaj83 · 18/01/2022 13:50

My husband's absolutely set on several absolutely awful names! I'm trying to convince him otherwise, but MIL and even some of my family are on his side. Don't know gender.
Please tell me I'm not going crazy, these names are awful
Indy
Jolene
Cosmo
Estella
Trisha
Kiana
Aliesha
Chastity

I honestly fear a child named any of those would be absolutely bullied. Any advice?

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cheapskatemum · 18/01/2022 14:37

I like Cosmo for a boy and Estella for a girl. There's a space theme going on with them too.

celestebellman · 18/01/2022 14:38

I like Estella. Cosima is also nice, a girl's name similar to Cosmo.

I have encountered a few Indy's both male and female, usually short for something. Not to my taste but not terrible.

It seems odd that your dh's names are very inconsistent in terms of type.

user1493494961 · 18/01/2022 14:39

They are all awful.

MakkaPakkas · 18/01/2022 14:42

I really like May.
Surely as the person carrying the baby you should get power of veto! Chastity is hooooorrible

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Echobelly · 18/01/2022 14:44

Estella is nice. Jolene is actually nice but as soon as peers hear the song they would sing it at her constantly.

RavenclawsRoar · 18/01/2022 14:45

I could quite easily get onboard with Stella. Not a huge fan of the others. Anyway, it's beside the point if you don't like them. I know others disagree but I'm strongly of the opinion that the person who carries the baby for 9 months and then births it, gets the deciding vote when it comes to names!

MilduraS · 18/01/2022 14:46

I really like Estella but Chastity is so awful I'm left wondering if he's winding you up Grin

Slayduggee · 18/01/2022 14:46

Can you direct your DP toward the ONS baby names data the he can see what other people think are good names. There’s no need to choose something in top 20 but I will give him an idea!

scandikate · 18/01/2022 14:48

Indie/Indy is gorgeous. Cosmo is quite sweet but I'm with you with the others. I hope children aren't bullied about their names any more.

hoomae · 18/01/2022 14:48

Crikey.

Yes, they are bad 😂😂.

HoliHormonalTigerlilly · 18/01/2022 14:49

I quite like Cosmo & Estella

NOT Chastity ffs!!

BlokeHereInPeace · 18/01/2022 14:50

Here's a famous Cosmo:

HoliHormonalTigerlilly · 18/01/2022 14:51

I only like Jack & Charlie from your names though OP 🤷‍♀️

BlokeHereInPeace · 18/01/2022 14:51

Indy in America means the Indy500, a famous motor race.

Zilla1 · 18/01/2022 14:52

MIL living with you doesn't mean you are outnumbered. She presumably chose or influenced the choice of her DC's name(s). If she has an opinion then I would visibly rule that out (unless I thought she was clever enough to use this against you).

IntermittentParps · 18/01/2022 14:52

I really like Cosmo. Don't mind Estella.
Not helpful, I know, if you hate them all Grin

Branleuse · 18/01/2022 14:53

What about

Stella
Cosima
Alicia

HoliHormonalTigerlilly · 18/01/2022 14:53

Trisha! Is he having a laugh there???

TheVanguardSix · 18/01/2022 14:54

Yikes! That's a lot of Alco-pop Croydon Facelift vibes in one hit, OP.
Your DH needs to slow his roll!

Cosmo is a boy's name, at any rate. Just show him Cosmo Kramer. That might grind that name to a halt.

Indie is ok at a push (not with a y though).

I like Nell on your list. That's a name I've always had a soft spot for.

thickthighs73 · 18/01/2022 14:54

Chastity god good! That’s a porn name lol

Livpool · 18/01/2022 14:55

Chasity?!

LTB (joking!) but you must have unlimited vetoes

SleepingStandingUp · 18/01/2022 14:55

Indy I quite like it actually. Sorry 😂
Jolene what about Jocelyn?
Cosmo I love Cosima
Estella meh
Trisha bleurgh
Kiana it sounds pretty but not keen
Aliesha unsure in pronunciation. Aly esha? Or Alee sha? Stil probably no
Chastity

suckingonchillidogs · 18/01/2022 14:55

Cher had a daughter named Chastity - nowadays he's her son and is called Chaz. I realise this has nothing to do with your question!

Snowiscold · 18/01/2022 14:57

Estella is fine, though not the others.
I like your girls’ names a lot, but not so much your boys’ names.