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My friend hates my baby name

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Reagan37 · 23/10/2021 15:44

Me and OH have agreed on a name for our daughter that we both love. I told one of my friends our choice and she said it’s ridiculous for me to pick a “plain boys name” for a girl. We aren’t changing our minds, and we are very set on this name for our baby. I just hope if people don’t like the name and are rude about it when she’s here, it will grow on them the more they think about it. Should I be worried?

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DariaMorgendorffer · 23/10/2021 15:59

Cute name, don't worry about your friend, and don't tell anyone else!

CocaColaTruck1 · 23/10/2021 15:59

I love it!
Always associated this name with a girl tbh

User85858686 · 23/10/2021 16:00

@Queenoftheashes

Is it Ian?
😂😂😂
Squeezyandbleach · 23/10/2021 16:00

I’d have said Brynn was a girls name. I think it’s lovely , if you like it , use it .

PuttingTheLaughterInSlaughter · 23/10/2021 16:01

I'm with the other posters saying James, it was the first thing that popped into my head reading the OP. (Love James for a girl btw)

Does it really matter if your friend doesn't like the name? Do you think of her as some kind of baby name guru? Does her opinion on other aspects of your life outweigh your own?

I understand that it can be upsetting to get negative feedback on your parenting choices but sadly people seem to think they have aright to comment.

Just remember that it is up to you and don't let your friends opinion affect your choices.

Pachonga · 23/10/2021 16:01

I’ve only ever known men called Bryn(n) and one dog but it’s lovely for a girl actually. Fuck your friend.

crumblebug · 23/10/2021 16:01

Brynn is lovely and I see it as a girl's name

Your friend is mean

iklboo · 23/10/2021 16:03

What's it got to do with her?

Aquamarine1029 · 23/10/2021 16:03

Brynn is gorgeous and your friend is daft.

LivingNextDoorToNorma · 23/10/2021 16:04

Your friend was rude. It doesn’t matter how much you dislike someone’s choice of baby name, you keep it to yourself. As far as if people (I’m assuming your concerns are family) will dislike it, I wouldn’t worry about it. They may think it’s not a name they’d have chosen, but your daughter will grow into it and it will just be her.

As an aside I used to work with someone who admitted she really disliked her granddaughter’s name. She always said that even though she still couldn’t understand why her parents chose it, it very quickly became ‘normal’. She loves her granddaughter, and her name is just a part of her. She almost forgot about it. She was absolutely never rude enough to say anything to them though!

SunsetOverEasterIsland · 23/10/2021 16:04

Lovely name and if you and your OH love it, that's all that matters. I only know males with the name Bryn though I have just found this:
Brynn is an Americanized version of the Welsh (Celtic) masculine name Bryn, which means 'hill'. The name has been mainly adopted in the United States as a female name and in use since the 1980s.

mamaoffourdc · 23/10/2021 16:04

It's a lovely name

JudgementalCactus · 23/10/2021 16:04

@Reagan37

The name is Brynn (pronounced as brin)
Yeah, you're fine. Nevermind her. Perfectly unisex name.
iklboo · 23/10/2021 16:04

Brynn is usually a male name in Wales (Gavin & Stacey) but it's lovely.

spotcheck · 23/10/2021 16:04

It's a lovely name.
Personally, I'd put an 'e' on the end so it is clear that it's a girls' name, but I think it's lovely either way
☺️☺️

ExPatHereForAChat · 23/10/2021 16:12

Brynn is gorgeous and sounds feminine to me with the 'ynn' at the end.
Is your friend getting confused with the name Bryan?!

Ruthietuthie · 23/10/2021 16:14

The name is fine. A perfectly sensible name for a baby girl. Your friend was unkind to share her opinion. Ignore her.

dementedma · 23/10/2021 16:14

People call girls James???

alpinerain · 23/10/2021 16:14

I've only ever known of girls named Brynn (or Brinley.) I think it's a lovely name! Ignore your rude friend.

ChorizoJacketPotato · 23/10/2021 16:15

I mean I don’t like it, but it’s not my child. You call her whatever you like.

3peassuit · 23/10/2021 16:16

I think it’s really nice, your friend is rude and in this case, wrong.

MrsFin · 23/10/2021 16:17

@Reagan37

The name is Brynn (pronounced as brin)

It's a boy's name, sorry. And it's Bryn, not Brynn. It means "hill".

elenacampana · 23/10/2021 16:17

I don’t like all the names my friends have chosen OP, but I’ve kept it to myself as it’s got nothing to do with me at all! Even the worst one has grown on me a bit over the last couple of years 🤣.

As for Brynn… I can’t help but visualise Rob Bryden when I hear it, but if I knew of a baby girl Brynn, I’d get used to it.

ThirdElephant · 23/10/2021 16:17

Is it Steve?

If it's Steve, your friend may have a point.

VinoBianca · 23/10/2021 16:19

Bethenny Frankel has a daughter called Bryn. I think it's lovely OP

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