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To feel annoyed trees were cut down to print this anti-breastfeeding article

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cherrymama · 21/06/2010 14:16

In the latest edition of Mother and Baby magazine (I bought it for the free gift) the deputy editor has an article about breastfeeding. In it she says that she "couldn't be fagged" to breastfeed and that breastfeeding her newborn using breasts that had previously been used for sex would feel "creepy". And that even the health benefits of breastfeeding "wouldn't induce her to stick her nipple in her bawling baby's mouth."

I think her attitude is horrible! I understand many people try to breastfeed and don't manage, but to say that it is creepy is another thing.

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Iggisonthesofa · 29/06/2010 22:15

TheShriekingHarpy - maybe when you phone they'll send you some money-off formula vouchers.
It reminds me of that bit in Supersize Me when the journalist compares the advertising budgets of the fast food companies, to those of the healthy/eat more fruit type campaigns. The formula companies have so much to fear from the "bf brigade" don't they

This article has to be viewed in the light of the revenue the magazine makes from formula companies.
I can picture the board meeting - "enough of this pro-bf tosh! Let's have some articles sneering at bf and persuading women to use formula! And lets remind women their boobs are for sex while we're at it!"

Nicky1001 · 01/07/2010 08:04

I don't disagree with the author's sentiments - what you do with your body is your personal choice. What I find offensive though is her use of language... Fun bags - seriously?? I can't believe this was written by a grown woman. Are we sure it wasn't a teenage boy?!

Hope76 · 02/07/2010 18:25

Wow!! What an iflammatory subject! I have read through the entire thread and felt compelled to post - for the first time ever, anywhere. I completely endorse and support freedom of speech, but also feel that this requires the speaker (or writer) to recognise the resposibility that comes with such freedom. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and judgement, no matter how biased, prejudiced, abhorrent etc. others may find it. They are not, however, entitled to spout forth their beliefs to anyone and everyone, not least because views can incite, influence, hurt and affect in ways that cannot always be foreseen.

I have bf successfully, quite long-term, and loved every minute. If asked for an opinion on bfeeding by an expectant mum, I would wholeheartedly endorse it and offer what support I could, but I would aim to offer them a balanced view, and this is what the offending article lacks. I have bf (very discreetly) in public, but won't in front of certain people or in certain situatons because it makes ME uncomfortable. I couldn't really give a monkey's what others think of what I'm doing. I have never encountered 'militant bfeeding mother's' and would not class myself as one. When people have found out I'm bfeeding I have had very mixed responses - a few positive, some people have literally expressed disgust, my HV was so surprised at how long I fed for it was as though I'd said I was embarking a a project to crochet a life-size replica of the Eiffel Tower, but I have been judged and deemed a bit 'weird', and only, obviously, by those that haven't bf. One friend actually said bfeeding wasn't 'natural'. I do feel that there is a stigma attached to bfeeding and this article perpetuates that. It also reinforces the sexualisation of women which takes us back several decades. What also saddens me is how divisive we, as women, are. How we feed our children is important as it is reflective of the decisions we have made and the growth and development of our children is often how we measure our own success as a parent. Whatever your choice, if it is an informed one, credit to you as it shows you have at least taken the time to think about it - and this applies to both ff's and bf's alike. What works for one will not work for another but as long as we think about and care about what goes into our children's bodies, surely we're on the right track? I agree with the seldom discussed, but vitally important point made earlier about what under-5's are fed generally. Whatever goes into our children for the first 6months or so can potentially be negated if we then load them with crap once they're weaned steps off soap box goes to check that children aren't eating play-doh/crayons/dog food

shinysparkles · 02/07/2010 20:34

Seems like she's not the only one with a bad attitude towards BFing -

www.nydailynews.com/gossip/2010/06/21/2010-06-21_kim_kardashian_slams_public_breast_feedi ngassisterkourtneydoesiton_tv.html

galorej · 05/07/2010 19:22

For goodness sake - have you never heard of freedom of speech? This woman was expressing her personal feelings about breastfeeding and surely her feelings are valid even if someone else does not agree with them. It is the perfect magazine to air these views in as it directly relates to mother and baby. Do you really want a world where someone is unable to express their views - she did not want to breastfeed but I am sure she is an excellent mother in many other ways - good for her for being honest.

girlwithsparklyhair · 12/08/2010 17:08

Just to update on this, I bought it today to see if they'd printed my letter - their star letter was surprise surprise from someone praising the article.

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