To take my very new bloke

[iamfabregasted]

where I know some, if not all, of my ex-in-laws will be??

Background, XH is a KNOB of the first order, he's said a load of crap, behaved pretty shitty to me.

So, one of his more charming comments was that I'd never find anyone else.

And I've got a new bloke who is lovely.

All his family go to this wee local town every Sunday night - think getting dressed up and cruising round in cars, cars which must be spotless. Its snob central, judgy pants heaven.

And the new bloke drives an Aston Martin Vantage V12.

So, AIBU? We wouldn't need to get out of the car or speak to them, just be seen...

yep Boys - that's the car

And chaos - tis not the magical 4th date yet lol

And I always obeys the rules ahemmmm

so you knew bloke wants to take his hot new bird and his hot new car somewhere............and you are thinking of saying no because of your ex IL's..........who are twats.

don't let them spoil your fun!!

Lurvely car

I also see you have no children so I can only assume a family member in the pic's?

Me?? I have 4 kids

knockraven

You and your new bloke seem ideally suited.

4 gorgeous kids.

he basics
knockraven joined Mumsnet in 2010. She lives in Northern Ireland. She is 40. She does not have children.

Yours aren't bad either Tocc !!

I am just a car geek - my ideal car is an old Mini I cried when I had to sell mine, 1275 cooper s engine, race tuned, minilites, flares.....

lots of people don't fill in all the details when they register.........it's nothing new.

I need to update that then, thought it said I had 4 kids, Tocc can back me up !!

mind - mine says I joined in 2010.............actually I joined in December 2004

My flaming lap-top is playing up a b***d tonight

I can't see where to get it to say that I have 4 kids I am useless at this - dumb blonde moment

ermm - think it's under my mumsnet, registration details somewhere irrrc

I can't see but I am also the MNetter who went on Radio Ulster my proudest moment

right click on

My Mumsnet

Just under the big black "MY MUMSNET" - you'll see some headers, "my mumsnet", "your details" "your children".............it's the 3rd one you want.

Then once you've done that you can go to "public details" and choose which details about your children you want shown.

Ah, was going to ask if yuo were frmo NI.
i used to go out with a bloke from there and they did all this weird cruising stuff.

You are 40 you say?

Really, it's very silly.

I guess it's whatever floats your boat though isn't it Moondog.

I bet you do some things that many people would go "oh that's so silly" at.

I guess it means bugger all but us pedants pick up on the miniscule details.

Update your details.

Back to the original AIBU; as far as I am concerned as much as I would love to say anything, everything I have achieved post-ex I would love to be mature enough to enjoy without rubbing in his face but the fact is I am so proud of so fuck them I want to dance about it.

Pathetic? Yes . Do I care? Nope

Right, done, but since two of my children are technically adults - they are 19 and 18 - I can't add them so although it says I have 2 children, I really do actually have 4

Without a doubt Tocc.
And if I told you about them here, you would all tell me so eh?

OK Boys - what do you suggest I do, given that MN won't let me acknowledge the existence of 2 of my children?

oh yes I'm sure we would

So, the overwhelming opinion seems to be that me and my new bloke should not go anywhere

a in his nice car
b that my ex is likely to be?