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to stick my head in the sand and pretend this isnt happening?

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queenoftheslatterns · 08/04/2010 09:13

i got a bfp on tuesday. a clear one. a bright blue line straight down. I am now (going by ov dates) coming up for 5 weeks. this is the time I normally mc, and I just want to stay in bed and sleep for the next 2 weeks. I havent called the cons yet, no point because there is nothing he is prepared to try. I havent been to my gp because he will refer me to the cons and i dont want yet another mc going on my notes.

i certainly feel more pg than i have for years, napping 2pm-4pm, going to bed at 8, eating like a horse etc... but on the downside i have a touch of loose bowels and i know that i need an early scan because of the ep.

but i cant seem to face up to this. dh is cacking himself and i dont want to scare him anymore. he asks if ive called the cons and ive been v evasive and said that he is away, but i dont want to involve anyone else in this in rl yet.

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queenoftheslatterns · 11/04/2010 13:36

hmm, not feeling too good now, feel hot and sick, temp is rising. although no backache/cramping yet, which is a good sign. am camped out on the sofa and not moving.

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BudaisintheZONE · 11/04/2010 14:26

Oh Lissie. Fingers crossed.

DaftApeth · 11/04/2010 14:36

Still keeping everything crossed for you. Hope it's just a bug.

x

queenoftheslatterns · 11/04/2010 14:40

little bit of brown spotting (just a wipes worth) which has now stopped (was about an hour ago) so not a great sign but still no cramping or cervical pain/backache. am keeping temp down with paracetamol and reclining on sofa.

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PacificDogwood · 11/04/2010 14:42

Oh gosh, Lissie.

Don't know what to say .

Fingers and toes and everything crossed.

queenoftheslatterns · 11/04/2010 14:47

i think at this stage it could go any way. i bled from 5w-21w when pg with ds, with some very heavy bleeds. so i know that its not the end of the world. however, i also know that this isnt the best sign.

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MayorNaze · 11/04/2010 15:02

quick hug for you darling. sticky thoughts...

queenoftheslatterns · 11/04/2010 15:14

thanks, im trying not to think about it. ds is playing with his pirate ship outside and I am planning his (pirate) birthday party - cakes etc.

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MrsAFlowerpot · 11/04/2010 15:24

just on to say I had this 4 times before my DD was born last April and even with her from weeks 5 - 9 I had heavy bleeding...thinking of you and sending positive thoughts!

pigletmania · 11/04/2010 15:30

Aww QOS good luck with it all keeping everything crossed for you. After last m/c i am very cautious about getting Midwife involved early on just in case.

queenoftheslatterns · 11/04/2010 18:50

going back to cons, bleeding has started now. still not heavy but i know it will get worse. had awful sharp dragging pains temp is still high and tummy is swollen and v hot.

shit, shit, shit.

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JaneS · 11/04/2010 19:02

Oh no - I've been looking in on this thread since it began. Will be thinking of you.

WorzselMummage · 11/04/2010 19:04

oh lissie xx

I don't know what to say but I'm thinking of you and still have my fingers crossed.

hollypocks · 11/04/2010 19:16

So sorry for you, I hope you will be okay

PacificDogwood · 11/04/2010 19:24

look after yourself

xx

MayorNaze · 11/04/2010 19:27
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MayorNaze · 11/04/2010 19:27

{{{{}}}} xxx

4andnotout · 11/04/2010 19:30

Oh no I'm keeping everything crossed for you xxx

Conundrumish · 11/04/2010 19:36

How heartbreaking for you. Have read this thread with bated breath .

Tillyscoutsmum · 11/04/2010 20:06

. You really do not deserve this shit again. So sorry

blinder · 11/04/2010 20:16

So so sorry .

Babieseverywhere · 11/04/2010 21:29
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morejuiceplease · 11/04/2010 21:36

So sorry

thisisnotwhoyouthink · 11/04/2010 23:55

Just saw this update

Headbanger · 12/04/2010 08:12

Oh no. I've been following this for days. I'm so terribly sorry .

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