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or more am I being stupid?

176 replies

stressedatnetball · 24/03/2010 06:06

I am in a nasty situation at the moment whereby I have found myself arrested and I am currently on bail for an accusation of fraud by position because I paid for my old netball teams affiliation on my credit card and then when peoples cheques for their contribution were paid into netball teams bank account I took back money to pay off my credit card which was agreed as a team this is how it would work but one malicious woman has told the police she did not agree etc etc so as treasurer i have now been framed. I have not slept for last 10 days or so whilst all this is being investigated as even though I have done nothing wrong I feel unsettled.

I am a childminder. On monday I lost my full timer as her mum left college, Yesterday I had a lot of stress as the parents often bring sick children to me e.g. sickness & diarrhoea anyway yesterday I felt enough was enough as two children came in like that and the mother lied to me so I gave notice to all my under 5's as I can't afford to pay my assistant anymore and I just felt it was more stress but have I been stupid whilst so much else is going on in my life?

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LesbianMummy1 · 12/04/2010 14:20

bumping my good news

jenduff · 12/04/2010 14:27

LM1 so pleased for you - I remember your other thread but hadn't put it on watch so had wondered what had happened - so pleased that you got this outcome but so cross that you got put through this.

MrsVidic · 12/04/2010 14:33

I am so glad for you What this lady did was nasty and minipulative and a big waste of time.

I would take legal advice about drawing any charges about her.

mice · 12/04/2010 14:48

Great news!! I bet you can't stop siling now

mice · 12/04/2010 14:49

smiling even!!

LesbianMummy1 · 12/04/2010 14:56

Have such a mix of emotions here are just a few

chipmonkey · 12/04/2010 15:16

LM1, do the others on the netball team know what she has done to you?

LesbianMummy1 · 12/04/2010 15:18

No idea don't want any of them in my life as they all would have known something

MrsPixie · 12/04/2010 15:33

How awful! Why on earth would anyone be so spiteful , must be very unhappy people

LesbianMummy1 · 12/04/2010 15:40

Not sure what her problems are but they not mine think she may need psychiatric help

MrsPixie · 12/04/2010 17:32

Sounds like she got the whole team against you somehow.
Gosh, you may even be able to get her for deformation of character or something after all this blows over....

LesbianMummy1 · 12/04/2010 18:30

bumping my good news again

scottishmummy · 12/04/2010 18:44

what a weight off your mind after such an ordeal

LesbianMummy1 · 12/04/2010 18:44

Bumping cause need to spread my good news

elmofan · 12/04/2010 19:19

OMG - have just read your whole thread = unbelievable - i hope the police throw the book at her for wasting their time & i hope your solicitor gets to work pronto on suing the crap out of her on your behalf , bet you will get the best nights sleep tonight than you've had in ages .

LesbianMummy1 · 12/04/2010 19:23

elmofan can't wait for sleep have not slept in ages

elmofan · 12/04/2010 19:26

& on your behalf , have a few glass of wine & a nice hot bath & early night & tomorrow plot your revenge

LoveMyGirls · 12/04/2010 19:39

Congratulations LM1, the stress must have been heartbreaking but you got through it, well done!!!

hogshead · 12/04/2010 19:47

congratulations that is fantastic news!

TidyBush · 12/04/2010 20:50

Congratulation LM1 - so pleased that this is over for you.

LesbianMummy1 · 12/04/2010 20:54

Thanks everybody am still grinning like a Cheshire cat

QueenCoco · 12/04/2010 20:57

I'm so glad for you

Pigsinblankets · 12/04/2010 21:41

Just read your post, blimey, there are some evil people out there. I am a treasurer and I'm always panicking about paperwork, rechecking petty cash etc. My DH thinks I take it too seriously but obviously not!

Really pleased it's all been sorted for you, what a waste of time and money (paid for by taxpayer) all because some vindictive cow had an axe to grind. SHe should be arrested for wasting police time.

LesbianMummy1 · 12/04/2010 21:55

Pigsinblanket I was always double checking everything too but posted paperwork onto the stupid cow because she made such a fuss wanting to run everything and I could not be bothered with it all and all the stress. I dread to think what this has cost taxpayers and when it was bearing in mind all for £166 taken back through accounts. I paid £474.66 it is ridiculous. I hope they throw the book at her

LesbianMummy1 · 13/04/2010 08:37

bump

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