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To feel so sad for this mum and baby but still think she could have been more careful?

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Vivia · 09/03/2010 10:25

Was in Costa just now. I was in the queue getting a takeaway while two mums were sitting with their newborns on the comfy sofa nearby. Very gorgeous scrunchy babies. I noticed that one mum had the baby lying vertically on her lap, so baby's feet at mother's chest and baby's head near the table. I thought it looked precarious.

And it was. As I walked out, I glanced back I noticed the mum reach over her baby's head and pick up the piping hot mug of coffee. She dropped the large mug of black coffee on the child's face and body. In that split second, I almost didn't register what happened. I ran back in. The security guard from nearby was jumped over chairs and tables to get to the baby, the mother was screaming 'help me!' The security had whipped the newborn to a sink of water and staff were calling the ambulance. The baby screamed at first then went horribly silent. Poor child had been hit in the face by a large, falling china mug and thoroughly scalded by coffee.

I feel so sad but wish the mum had realized that reaching over a newborn to pick up coffee is a terrible idea? I don't mean to judge her but

OP posts:
LyraSilvertongue · 11/03/2010 15:10

Bee, I didn't mean being a regular poster means she can't have made it up. Just that trolls tend to come on here specifically to peddle their made up story for whatever reason and then disappear. For someone to post normally for ages and then suddenly decide to make up a hideous trolly story makes less sense.

BeeConcernedHiveMind · 11/03/2010 15:15

I'll be the first one to offer a humble and deep felt apology if I'm wrong.

SilveryMoon · 11/03/2010 15:24

I've read the beginning of the thread and the end.
Did the OP stick around to find out if the baby was ok?

FWIW, I post in AIBU if I want a really quick response to something I'm upset/distressed about. This is the times when we post/type quickly and what we are saying can sometimes be typed wrong when done quickly iyswim, doesn't mean she was lying because she was unclear in OP whether she was in the queue with them or not (I read it like the queue was near the sofa, so that's how she was queuing next to them)

Bridgedwellingstrumpet · 11/03/2010 15:42

morloth you might like this one

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