To expect 11 year olds to use the loo properly?

[Alouiseg]

Ds2 has 2 friends for a dreaded sleepover. They are both in year 7 at ds2 new school. They both live fairly close to us, one over the fence and one 2 miles away.

I just went up to check on the state of play and found a lump of poo in the toilet bowl and a lump of poo on the bathroom floor!!!!! I am horrified. I cleaned up then spoke to all 3 boys very strongly. I pointed out that I had cleared up the disgusting mess in the bathroom and if it happens again I will be driving everyone home. I didn't ask for an admission but I am shocked beyond belief. I feel sorry for ds2 who will be mortified that one of his friends did that.

I don't really want anyone here now and wondering what to say to the parents, one of which hasn't even contacted me to confirm that her ds is staying here for the night. So bloody cross.

LOL they would probably have thought it was Alouiseq

"I think they would probably have thought it was no big deal if the adult didn't make a huuuggge fuss about it"

lmao I can imagine the conversation in school the next day. I went to x's house and had to clean up shit off the bathroom floor because y or Z can't aim properly.

Or even worse, Mum x's mum made me clean up some poo off the floor and it wasn't mine but she said we had to do it.

The only way you would get no humiliation is to never mention it and pray none of the boys had gone in there before. Think the op is still in shock by having to clean up but so would I be. I also think I would have been cleaning up the whole bathroom. Oh I don't think my dc's will be having any sleep overs

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@wormwood having weighed up the evidence I would have to concur with you. Case closed and the toilet can re-open for business.