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To feel depressed that exW took DSSs to Miami

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Bonsoir · 06/01/2010 10:41

for a fortnight at Christmas and for them to have come back having gained a huge new Abercrombie & Fitch wardrobe and 4kgs apiece?

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annaismadyouknow · 07/01/2010 16:22

The prototypical psychopath has deficits or deviances in several areas: interpersonal relationships, emotion, and self-control. Psychopaths gain satisfaction through antisocial behavior, and do not experience shame, guilt, or remorse for their actions.

Psychopaths lack a sense of guilt or remorse for any harm they may have caused others, instead rationalizing the behavior, blaming someone else, or denying it outright.

Psychopaths also lack empathy towards others in general, resulting in tactlessness, insensitivity, and contemptuousness. All of this belies their tendency to make a good, likable first impression.

Psychopaths have a superficial charm about them, enabled by a willingness to say anything without concern for accuracy or truth. Shallow affect also describes the psychopath's tendency for genuine emotion to be short lived and egocentric with an overall cold demeanor.

Psychopaths also have a markedly distorted sense of the potential consequences of their actions, not only for others, but also for themselves. They do not, for example, deeply recognize the risk of being caught, disbelieved or injured as a result of their behaviour.

Sound familiar?

scottishmummy · 07/01/2010 16:25

as i said yonks ago you are prone to grandiosity and attention seeking. anna demonstrably proven here.insecure ego i believe

seems as if mischief protects your fragile ego and projects your own malaise. thing is now it is all unravelled.will you name change or carry on blithely trolling

bibbitybobbitysantahat · 07/01/2010 16:30

Rofl at the outrage on this thread, you have become quite the pantomime villain Anna. Personally I find the purposefully inflammatory comments by another poster on this forum about 100x more annoying than yours. But whenever she posts I just leave the thread because I don't want to be part of her sport.

But, Anna, could you please have a word with your dp and not allow him to put the boys on a formal diet and force them to weigh themselves in front of him? That is a very seriously damaging thing to do. As you say, if you can see quiet easily that they have gained 9lb apiece, then you will be able to see quite easily when it has gone again. No need for huge amounts of angst.

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