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AIBU?

..to really take a dislike people who I only know as paragraphs on a webpage??

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thinkaboutthepepilepticdogs · 24/08/2009 23:06

I've namechanged for this, and won't name any of the MNetters that I'm referring to (so please don't either!). BUT, do you ever find the same MNetters on threads you are commenting on - and they always disagree with what you think??

This seems to happen to me alot and I find myself really disliking them, which is ridiculous. Sat here on my computer, they aren't even real people, just paragraphs of text on the screen so how can I dislike them so much??!

Am I the only one that gets this? Or are there more of you out there that are just as irrational as me?

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Thunderduck · 25/08/2009 12:25

If you are then I am too. I'm extremely fond of several posters here,though there's also a few people,not many, that I really dislike.

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Platesmasher · 25/08/2009 12:27

oh, well liking peoplw you've never met is fine.
especially if it's me.


am beginning to wonder if anyfucker actually IS me?

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SolidGoldBrass · 25/08/2009 12:28

Half the fun, though, is working out just who you can provoke into a knicker-filling frenzy that will, with any luck, bring in half a dozen other squawking acolytes. Nothing like a good game of poke-the-piggy-with-a-stick online.

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GirlsAreLoud · 25/08/2009 12:30

I get tired when the same old faces turn up again and again to criticise anyone who may actually buy something aimed at parents, or, gasp, actually do something they read about in a book, i.e.:

"individual fromage frais, you are mad, you should be churning your own organic yoghurt, children don't need individual fromage frais you idiot."

Or:

"why the hell do you want to read about something that might help your baby to sleep through? You should just put it in a sling and breastfeed while you do the dishes because that is what I did."

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ShowOfHands · 25/08/2009 12:32

I actually find that some of the people I disagree with I like the most. I could quite happily name 2 or 3 MNers with whom I disagree on nearly everything. But I respect them enormously for being erudite, well-reasoned, confident and interesting posters. I just disagree with their ideas.

I'm not awfully fond of posters who call themselves JakeyWakeysMummyWummy3477362662 and write thing like 'ne bodee out there want 2 talk about prams 4 hours?' I can find solace in neither the content nor their posting style.

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Platesmasher · 25/08/2009 12:33

arf at showofhands.

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LibrasBiscuitsOfFortune · 25/08/2009 12:34

Ah I love those ones. "throw away the books AND THEN DO IT MY WAY"

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ShowOfHands · 25/08/2009 12:34

I love anybody who says arf too.

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AnyFucker · 25/08/2009 12:34

no platesmasher, I am just stalkin' ya

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GirlsAreLoud · 25/08/2009 12:36

Exactly Libra

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violethill · 25/08/2009 12:37

Oh how true ShowOfHands!

And while on the subject of prams, can we include in that anyone who posts along the lines of
'AIBU to resent someone who looked vaguely working class walking within two yards of my Buggaboo. Germs might have flown off said person and landed on the £100 pram cover'

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LetThemEatCake · 25/08/2009 12:41

"I get tired when the same old faces turn up again and again to criticise anyone who may actually buy something aimed at parents, or, gasp, actually do something they read about in a book"

GirlsAreLoud that is exactly how I feel about people on the style & beauty thread who gasp and condemn because you are willing and/ or able to spend more than £2 on a top. Or who accuse you of 'showing off' when you ask for an honest opinion on a piece of clothing, simply bc it is pricier than Primark. I'm like, if I could afford to just throw away money on this kind of stuff, would I bother soliciting opinions?? I'd just buy it, decide it was shite and give it to my (immigrant, non-tea-drinking, or at least not in my house) cleaner to do the dusting with.

I've been told several times how awful my dc's names are, but that's cool, I don't mind that. As long as they're well dressed, innit.

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ShowOfHands · 25/08/2009 12:42

I think if you own a pram called a BuggerBoo you deserve everything you get frankly.

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Mumcentreplus · 25/08/2009 12:42
Grin
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Thunderduck · 25/08/2009 12:51

People who say thankyou to only the people who agree with them on AIBU threads annoy me. If you only want people who validate your decision/opinion then post elsewhere.

Likewise those who flounce because people dared to tell them they were being unreasonable.

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LetThemEatCake · 25/08/2009 12:53

re: style & beauty, to be fair, that happens far less since TroutPout left. Or left and came back renamed or whatever she did.

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Rollergirl1 · 25/08/2009 12:58

I get irritated by the people that respond to threads where someone is complaining about a family member doing something strange by saying that they should be forever thankful that the family member in question is even interested and part of their life.

Example:

"My MIL wears my clothes when I'm not about and insists on my DD calling her Mummy"

Answer:

"Oh for gods sake at least she has a grandmother that loves her!"

Yes, cos that's helpful how exactly?

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thinkaboutthepepilepticdogs · 25/08/2009 13:04

roller Equally, the ones that say 'well, at least you have a sister/mother/etc'

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EleanoraBuntingCupcake · 25/08/2009 13:06

i don't really remember people long enough to hate them. i do have folk i like to see.

maybe you need to get out more.

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thinkaboutthepepilepticdogs · 25/08/2009 13:09

eleanora oh, I don't hate them, just take a bit of a dislike thats all.

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EleanoraBuntingCupcake · 25/08/2009 13:10

do you dislike me now!

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thinkaboutthepepilepticdogs · 25/08/2009 13:10

No, of course not!

I do sometimes go out, I promise!

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GreensleevesFlouncedLikeAKnob · 25/08/2009 13:11

"those who flounce because people dared to tell them they were being unreasonable"

was that aimed at me thunderduck?

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EleanoraBuntingCupcake · 25/08/2009 13:12

actually i lie there are about 2 or 3 mners whom i regards as nobs

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thinkaboutthepepilepticdogs · 25/08/2009 13:13

eleanora yes, you see I think we all do!

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