...to think that people who post a picture of their child as their Facebook profile are weird?

[Mouette]

I'm not taling about people posting a picture of themselves WITH their children as their Facebook profile picture, nor about people who put pictures of their DC on Facebook. But people who put a picture of their DC (alone) AS their profile picture. Is that not weird? It's as if they had no identity of their own left... And generally: AIBU to think that there's a lot of boasting on Facebook? (as in: look at me, I've got such beautiful children and such an interesting life). Opinions?

yes, you are being unreasonable

I have a (now very old ) photo of my 3 DS's as m profile picture

YABU.

i have a pic of ds as profile pic as i always look shit in photos.

why do you care about peoples profile pics so much anyway?

An old school friend has a picture of her DS as her profile picture, but he unexpectedly died last week aged 3. Perhaps she is allowed?

YANBU, it's a strange thing to do. Absolutely no use when you're looking for people either. It's supposed to be a picture of you.

YABU

My boys are way more photogenic than me.

well I look different now from when I was younger anyhow, so if people from the past are looking for me then a recent photo of me is no good to them, anyhow.

And besides - I don't have any photos of myself

YANBU - it should be a pic of person who's profile it is
I often get friend requests where i maight not recognise the name so look to the photo for help!

smugmum: how are your old friends going to know it's you if there's a picture of your kids instead of you?

yabu

I rarely even let photos be taken of me, never mind have a pic of myself as my profile pic. I am currently waiting for an operation which affects the way I look and affects my self confidence alot. I did have a very old pic of myself but I got bored with it, so now I just have a pic of the kids.

Im sorry I dont meet your facebook expectations

but like FAQ said, people from years ago probably wont recognize you so what does it matter

yabu - people can put what they like as their profile picture.

and yes I have my own identity - it just doesn't come in the form of a photo of my mug

I don't really want random people to find me!

You're not the only one who thinks that

MrsM

tbh I don't use fb to catch up with friends I've lost contact with years ago. All of my fb friends, with only two exceptions, are people who I see in rl as well or friends I moved away from when we moved areas 3 years ago.

Besides, I don't have my maiden name on there so people from way back won't find me. I don't want them to. That isn't my reason for using fb.

YABU

YABU

I have DD as my FB pic specifically that old friends won't see how fat I've got since I had her.

The whole point of facebook is 'look at my interesting life and all my friends', no?

YABU
no, it isn't weird.
my children are more attractive than me, by quite a big margin

YABU

People can do whatever they like o their own profiles on FB.

YABU.

I don't like having my photo taken.

The people I have on my FB are people that I want, not people from 20 years ago that I don't give a fuck about. If they can't find me on Facebook then GOOD.

I'd rather a photo of a cute child than a photo of someone who has clearly gone to huge lengths to hide their double chin/wrinkles/spots - those kinds make me laugh - all pouts and weird head tilts.

Hmmm I get where you are coming from but I say live and let live. I have changed my facebook pic several times over the 2 years I have had an account. Yes a couple of times it has been my kids (particularly nice pics maybe) but usually it is me. I have found most people I am interesting in contacting anyway and my married name would confuse so I don't care if people can't find me.

Who cares really? I think it is a bit harsh to say having a pic of your kids there means you have no identity of your own left

YABU

I have a pic of my 3DC as my profile pic
They are much better to look at than me and Dp has a pic of him and DD1