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Omfgg i so wanted to say something!!

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TheLadyEvenstar · 01/07/2009 17:29

I was just walking along with ds1 and ds2 and I saw this little girl a bit younger than ds2 in a stroller, my first thought was "Oh unusual for a girl she is not very pretty" I looked up from the pram to see her parents a woman who looked about 15 and MY EX HUSBAND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I should probably explain, I got married in september 2003 and in October 2005 he left me. his reasons? well he had got his leave to remain in the UK and his passport. It was not until we split I found out his father had a wife already lined up for him and had done for 6 years. SO basically he married me so he could bring her over.

I am not sure how I feel I know I have moved on and had a baby with my new partner but.....
before we split he made me go through hell and always told me he couldn't have children.

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Heated · 04/07/2009 15:44

On reading LES's post, I had a more unworhty thought.

TheLadyEvenstar · 04/07/2009 23:29

Needa I know and I bow down to your kindness!!

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TheLadyEvenstar · 04/07/2009 23:31

heated pray do tell?

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NeedaNewName · 05/07/2009 02:04

thanks Lady !!! I feel better now

Heated · 05/07/2009 09:02

After reading your op, I thought genetics can work that way especially if you marry your cousin.

FairLadyRantALot · 05/07/2009 15:29

heated...your post just made me shoke on my Liquorice...lol

TheLadyEvenstar · 05/07/2009 15:30

Heated ohhhh ok, sounds like you know the situation LOL.

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FairLadyRantALot · 05/07/2009 15:31

oh, and I often look at Kids that are in movies or ads, and think....erm....they could have chosen a prettier/more handsome child...I always thought it is quite natural to make such judgements...
obvioulsy I would never tell their parents, or something like that...

TheLadyEvenstar · 05/07/2009 15:44

FairLady, i didn't tell them i just thought it lol.

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FairLadyRantALot · 05/07/2009 15:48

I know you didn't...
just thought I tell ya, that it is really a natural thing to do...not kind, maybe...but gosh, we are all human...and as I said earlier....you can be pretty or less than pretty no matter if you are a Baby/Child or adult...just the way it is...and as such other people will have their opinion (which hopefully would always go unvoiced ) about a person...

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