To want to be able to take my children to my friends wedding

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She politely told me that only children from her family are allowed at her wedding. The reason I'm given is she doesn't want the risk of anything spoiling her day..

This wouldn't be such a big deal if my ds was older, but he will be not much over a year by the time of the wedding. I am breastfeeding and I am now feel pressured into getting him drinking milk from a cup well enough that I can leave him with my parents by the time of the wedding. He has also never spent any time away from me and I don't like this pressure of having to leave him somewhere and getting him off the breast quicker than I maybe would have.

AIBU I want to take him with me, he's a very good baby, she wouldn't even know he was there.

well its just made me realise we weren't obviously as close as i had thought we were tbh, i do miss her, but my family are more important to me i guess? i wouldn't do this personally but each to their own, she was v.angry i wouldn't come, and i was angry she wouldn't invite my chidren, she wanted to spend money on other things than having children there her perogative i know.

I take it "family" children are all super well behaved and will not run about yelling, get tired and cry or do anything else all kids do! although I regret having DH1s familys kids at our wedding the ran riot!