to get really pissed off when asking for advice on here and being totally patronised every time

[onlywantsone]

... seems to be occouring more

everytime I ask for some proper advice or peoples opinions - I just get "blah blah shouldnt do things that way nah nah nah I know best"

I don't think anyone has ever been nasty or patronizing to me on here...I am feeling quite left out today in thinking it's actually pretty fantastic. What am I doing wrong?

You have great equanimity OP.

Well done for taking it on the chin.

'I thought women on here were supposed to offer help and support and not behave like a complete bitch.'

Code for: if you don't read my mind and write what I want to read, you're a bitch.

Oh, I like a happy ending...

Expat - she's apologised.

OK, cheer up then, you misog! @OP

You can always start again. Most seasoned MN-ers have had a good flaming or two. I certainly have. Let's all just draw a line under this and go and eat pancakes.

Sorry if that was patronising, by the way

Nevermind BOF

BOF, don't worry darling, I am sure someone will be along to be unreasonably angry with you soon {{{{hugs}}}} Feel better now Hun?

here here LL

Oh dear, I posted on there, just gave advice, I hope I wasn't patronising

Don't hug that BoF she's a real hussie

No tDWP nobody thinks you were

OP was just probably premenstrual

if you look back at the adios thread you'll see that two of us have pointed out that adios is 'legal' speed which isn't really the best way to go, imho.

But, hey, take it if you really want to, as it will probably work... and may well give you palpitations and make you very hyper. and as it's not designed for long-term use you'll probably put all the weight back on again. Just looking on the bright side...

Even better

is it really legal speed???

Calm down flick

Pretty much, as I said my friend is addicted to it, she has constant shakes, has wrecked her back teeth through grinding and can't sleep. It's crazy it can be bought over the counter.

I belong!

Well done OP (non-patronising tone btw)- fwiw, I spent a couple of years totally hooked on diet pills, which probably wrecked my metabolism and cost me a bloody fortune. I was only able to stop once I discovered cocaine couldn't be arsed about my weight anymore

Adios is leagl amphetemine?

Really?

Never knew that.

Every day is a school day!

or even legal

or eagal

TheDevilWearsPrimark - I had heard those things about it. I'm sorry, I wasn't trying to ber personally nasty or any thing about you.

Just projected all my disapointment about my day onto that one thread wanting some hope and some good news. I'm just a 60 year old trapped in a 21 year olds body... I'm a grumpy cow tonight

Stackers, mine were called...they only stopped my appetite for about a week, but I kept taking them because it felt great to be so awake....they definitely gave me palpitations though, so they must be quite nasty.

why do you want to lose weight, op? really?

can't see it myself.

soz - am being patronising