to be frightened to tell dp

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are you ok? you shouldnt be frightened

What is it that you need to tell him?

Tell him what?

that i think im pregnant..... problem is hes had a vascectomy!

What?

What?

you need to test first, you may be worryign for nothing.

Have you slept with someone else?

Have you slept with someone else? My sil had a baby by someone who had had a vasectomy - it happens.

did you wait the length of time needed util he was tested as sterile?

why would you be frightened anyway? he's your partner!!!

"think" or "know"? Get a pregnancy test before you do anything else.

Oh dear, are you definately pg ?

We can't say if you don't tell us what is is you need to tell him.

Pregnant?
Leaving?
Crashed the car?
Maxed the credit cards?

You should not be frightened of someone who loves you.

oops must learn to type faster

Is it his?

i know it looks bad,but i swear i have never cheated. i dont understand, this is not supposed to happen!

Ok you need to do test.
Have you slept with someone else?
Is he likely to think you have if you have not?

I know people who have had an accident despite the snip having been done.

They'll check him, and there'll still be sperm - unless you didn't wait long enough. My sil's dp never doubted her when it happened to her.

did he get tested after the vasectomy.? did you use contraception until the recomneded time lapse?

he will have been told that there is not a 100% guarantee

What are you worried about if you have never cheated?

If he so wishes, he can do a DNA test after the birth.

So if you haven't cheated then it is his and an accident has happened.

What would he say ?

You can get pg after your partner has had a vasectomy. Could it be someone else's? Get a test before you start worrying, I can't tell you the amount of times I've been late and thought I was pg.

It's rare, but does happen (circa 1 in 2000 change according to this article)

www.vasectomy-information.com/articles/october2006.htm

How long ago was his vasetomy? it 100% fullproof that he will never father a dc again? (i know nothing of these things)