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to believe that teacher's children should be treated in the same way as other pupils

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MillyR · 03/01/2009 21:28

At my children's primary school, there are a number of teachers working in the school who have children who are pupils in the school and sometimes even in their class. I believe that unless it is essential (because you live on a remote Scottish island), you should not teach your own child as it is unprofessional and almost impossible not to show a preference for your own child and the children that they get on with.

I work 10-7, so I do the morning drop off by public transport. I then stand outside school with my children, sometimes in very unpleasant weather. The children who come on school transport are also stood outside unsupervised. The teacher's children can be clearly seen playing in the classrooms.

Recently, I arranged to go in and speak to a teacher about my child after school, which I then had to take time off work to do. During this meeting, her children were in the classroom. There have also been times when one of teachers has walked past me with her daughters, the older daughter's best friend, and they have all gone in to play in the classroom while the rest of the children had to stay outside. They are also often in the staff room or using other school facilities that are out of bounds to other pupils.

There is out of school club available in a building nearby. My children go to it after school. I think the teacher's children should also have to go to it or wait outside like everyone else.

If a teacher wants to part of her work at home and supervise her kids there, then I am not going to moan about that. But I think it creates a bad atmosphere and sense of unfairness for pupils to be treated differently because their Mum is a teacher.

There is also a huge amount of repeating of confidential information because the teachers tell their friends things, but their friends are the mums from school!

AIBU or is this common?

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blackrock · 05/01/2009 17:57

In three years time, as a P.T.teacher I will be paid only for my teaching time. Not paid for assemblies, playtime monitoring, or preparation time. Does this make anyone happier. I was given the directive in September. Some of my colleagues will begin this earlier as they have temporary contracts. All our work hours have been carefully recalculated.

blackrock · 05/01/2009 17:58

I will then get less pay than my job share partner because of preparation tiem, despite the fact i will be in school for the same number of hours.

pointydog · 05/01/2009 18:00

hell's bells, rock. What';s going on there?

jellyhead · 05/01/2009 18:04

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piscesmoon · 05/01/2009 18:06

That sounds worrying blackrock-is it the state sector? Will it be widespread?

Hulababy · 05/01/2009 18:09

jellyhead - have known that to happen too. I remember it when I was at school even. It still wouldn;t bother me TBH.

blackrock - how come? That sounds dreadful. Sounds more like the way FE works.

Celia2 · 05/01/2009 18:45

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nooka · 05/01/2009 18:51

I can see why this might be done for contact time, because different people spend different amounts of time on preparation, and I imagine it is completely impossible to monitor. I would expect the notional hourly rate to be adjusted though. For assemblies etc it seems completely wrong - I would imagine it will lead to a number of teachers refusing to do such activities. Do teachers really work at an hourly rate though, with overtime etc? I don't see it as a profession with a clocking in clocking out mentality. I can see this would be very problematic for part time working.

jellyhead I wouldn't be happy about that. Not fair for the poor kid, and disruptive for the class. Hopefully an emergency not a routine arrangement.

Oh and I have no jealousy of teachers, it is a tough job. I do envy those with grandmothers who look after children (so long as it works of course!). I imagine this is a happier and more flexible arrangement than a childminder for most families.

kerala · 05/01/2009 18:52

Teachers children deserve any perks they can get. Can you imagine having to attend a school where your parent is a teacher?

My father was deputy head at my secondary school - still recovering from the mortification. As my father was a teacher I was allowed to use the school pool in the holidays. I remember one girl saying how unfair this was but when I pointed out this was the one advantage as set against having to live with the daily embarrassment of having my dad at school/him knowing everythign I got up to she quickly conceded that this was fair enough.

TWINSETinapeartree · 05/01/2009 19:28

Kerala my grandad was the head cleaner at a well known girls independent school in london and he lived in the flat above the school. I lived with him on and off and every now and again I was allowed to use the swimming poole. I felt like a princess.

blackrock · 06/01/2009 18:51

Not sure if its nationwide. Our Head is very money saving smart!

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