to find a man who coudlnt drive UTTERLy unattractive

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and rather pathetic

yadaydayd meddical expcetiosn etc

i think now for me though the situation is becoming more annoying. his mother is getting older and if she needs help it will be me that drives to help her, think it's just a confidence thing.

we lived in london for years and never needed a car, here we do though.

lol at annas inability to post ANYhting wihtout mentioning france! do you live there?

UQd lol at knitting

I know! I have failed it recently! @Marla

But I keep trying. I have accepted the fact that it's pretty pathetic to just say 'Sorry, I don't drive'.

I want to be able to hire a car on holiday or share the burden of heavy duty shopping trips with DH or take an elderly relative to hospital etc etc. I want to be a grown up. And I find men who want to be grown up sexy, too

its liek not havigna phone was in the 70s

agree hatrick.It was my dps ability to play loads of instruments and drum like a god that made me fancy him Driving?does nowt for me

IS IS TRUE that men who cANt dirve have very small feet?
UQd?

Now if I were post on here about finding unattractive a man who had decided not learn to use a washing machine, would all those who are currently getting upset about non-drivers get annoyed with me too?

What about if the man said he had made the decision on ecological grounds? Suppose he's figured out all the work arounds, using a laundry service (meaning you would always have to live in an urban area) or hand-washing things. Suppose most of the time it works out reasonably well, but every couple of months or so something of his absolutely has to go in the washing machine, but he thinks that will be fine too because I have a washing machine and I know how to use it so I can do it for him, for goodness sake, I would be being awkward and annoying if I refused. So there's really no reason for him to learn, and anyway he's too busy and hasn't got the time.

Really, how attractive would this man be to most of you?

I think it goes both ways, after I hved carried out a bit of very masterful parallel parking into a minute space I always get admiring looks

I'd be worried if a man couldn't drive and liked riding bitch on a motorbike.

If a man truly doesn't drive on "green' grounds, I would say 'good on you'. he had better be bloody green, though, and not just lazy or unwilling to get stuck into learnign something difficult or, urm, a tight arse.

Men who can't use washing machines aren't sexy to me, either. I don't like those men who sit scratching their arses all evening boasting about how they wouldn't even know how to turn the tumble drier on.

YANBU - have not read the whole nine pages but totally agree. WOuld go further an include men who can't fix things as well - the surest way for Dh to earn my admiration is to fix something - anything- that's just what men do . Could never dnacy a weedy type - happy to be friends with but never actually fancy.

He sounds annoying Bran.

they have very small feet so they can't operate the pedals. OR, very teeny-weeny legs and can't reach them.

Let's face it - a lot of women still find some characteristics of the Alpha Male attractive. So shoot us.

UQD can you please confirm this is the case?

re OBM's feet and legs etc

and awe at Swedes 'riding bitch'

dh has size 46 feet

no complaints abtou his driving
( not wiht his feet though)

Liking the name Mrs Guy.

I don't know why but I've always found the sight of my current man driving very attractive.

My dad 'stopped' driving about 30 years ago after a near miss and it caused many a huge barney between him and my mum.

Anna LOL at driving fast whle talking to his shareholders. Have you read the book: "How to spot Le Prick by Cherchez-ing Un Pilot's License"?

fakrin nora!

these are mens 46s

surely they are not the same
a 12 in english money

gliding, its so french

46 = 11. I got that from Veganline, the non-leather shoe specialist website.