is this rude or not?

[MrsSylar]

Went out for dinner with 3 work colleages the other night. One of them is quite a good friend, the other two I am not as close with, yet we get on very well.

Just before food was served, one of them said " fancy a fag" and all 3 of them got up, went outside and left me sitting there on my own.

Now, I didn't mind too much - I am a grown up and don't need someone to sit with me all the time just, in case I get lonely, but it did strike me as a bit rude.

What do you think? Was it rude, or am I being a bit touchy

Its really really rude I used to to it to my DP when we went out just the two of us. I knew it was rude but couldn't seem to stop I was also known to go before he had even finished eating!! Now that I am a non smoker I can see the error of my ways and realise that it was really bad of me!

But PiusIX, it's not about the going for a fag that's the problem, it's that 3 of them got up and left her by herself which wasn't very friendly. One could have stayed behind, or they could have asked if she minded. Nothing to do with the activity they were going to be doing, but very rude in the way they handled it.