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Beepboobeep · Yesterday 21:12

My DD’s state primary school has a “top maths club” and “great writers club” for the top performing students in yr 5 and 6 held outside of school hours. There is no charge for this - so it’s free childcare and free tutoring. You have to be invited. This has been running since the second week of the school year and is restarting on the first day of this half term.

By contrast, my dyslexic DD is in a group for those needing more support in writing, also outside of school hours. But they only managed 2 sessions last year and it hasn’t started back up this year. She gets ad hoc in school support; where it happens she misses other lessons that aren’t then caught up on, putting her further behind in the those.

I appreciate these children deserve challenging, but surely that could be done in class with different work and the teacher’s out of hours time, if available, used to help those struggling?

Is this even allowed in a state primary?

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Goldenbear · Today 07:35

Simonjt · Today 05:29

Children getting full marks are being let down as they aren’t experiencing academic challenge within the classroom. If the school stopped the sessions they would be failing to meet the needs of those children. So what you actually want is for support to be removed from children who need it.

When I was at school it was called gifted and talented, it was very annoying when a parent would moan that we shouldn’t be provided for because their child was on track for a B.

How can it be statistically possible that these children at 9/10 are 'all' G&T, how are you defining that?

A class of 'high achievers' is not the same thing as G&T, particularly if the establishment of the class is motivated by the desire to inflate the numbers obtaining a place at the local Grammar! Your 'B' child at 9 or 10 could well exceed the ability or attainment of your 'high achiever' by the time they are 18, as 9 or 10 is way too young to determine potential. It is so arbitrary at this age and is frankly a nonsense. It is circumstances that is driving the establishment of the group and is statistically unlikely you have a class of geniuses! It is wholly wrong to label these kids at such a young age. The idea that a grade 'B' child as you state at 9/10 is somehow limiting the educational experience of an 'A' grade pupil is laughable! When context is considered or even a child just hasn't reached their potential yet, these 'B' grade students are suddenly outshining their 'high achieving' peers at the real test of ability is A levels and beyond which is when students have to have original thoughts to attain high grades. Up until that point it is a formulaic approach and certainly one a B grade child can learn at 9 or 10, pushing them into 'A' grade achievements.

How is this approach compliant with The Teaching Standards that require teachers to teach fairly, inclusively and without discrimination?

Goldenbear · Today 07:40

Fasttrack2026 · Today 02:30

Can you be sure of this? My son was highly gifted and it took ages for our school to provide for him. He was so bored at school he would be crying in the car at drop off begging me not to send him. It took a change of principal to move him up a grade (after doing an IQ test). At first the teacher told me 1. I was putting to much pressure on him (I was not), 2. I must have been using flash cards as home to get him ahead (again, I was not, he taught himself to read before prep), and 3. She has her hands full with ESL and additional needs students, so best she could do was get him to help the kids who were struggling, which he enjoyed for about 2 days. She also complained to me that he was a bit chatty in class when he'd finished his work early! This was when he was 5. I never sent him to tutoring or school holiday academic programs, because I'm a big believer in kids having proper play time. School suggested extra lessons at lunch, I said when would be able to play with his friends? It is not easy having a gifted child, and it gets harder as they get older as well. There is very little understanding and some of the school mums made snide comments to me - i never thought he was "better" than anyone, just that he needed something the education system wouldn't provide. Let them have it for goodness sake. Those kids don't really know they have an advantage, they do know they are different in a way that some people resent. If a kids could run really fast, or had a talent for music, would you feel the same way about the school providing for them?

But again, it's not going to be the case that you have a whole class of children that fit this description. It's a cynical move to get more kids into Grammar school.

Goldenbear · Today 07:51

SmashThePatriarchy · Today 02:09

Broadly speaking, gifted and talent students are not the ones who have behavioural issues. I am not saying all other students have behavioural issues. I am saying the behaviour in classes is now much worse than it used to be and G&T students get lost in the mess. I’m a teacher.

When I first started teaching there were clubs for G&T, G&T from disadvantaged backgrounds was a big focus. It isn’t a new concept. They have just became rarer when staff haven’t been replaced. When teachers have been so stretched they can’t do anything else after school. When schools couldn’t afford to get outside agencies in.

It’s a good thing this school is offering it.

Edited

Being a 'high achiever' at 9 or 10 does not equate to being G&T. Feeling lost in the 'mess' of unruly classes is going to be a problem for nearly all the children in the class, they are not immune from it because they are average or below average. Again, this sentiment is hardly complying with Teaching Standards is it? What about the majority of children who are average, above average, below average but not G&T, do they not deserve a solution to this disruption?
I know it's not a new concept, I'm questioning the definition of G&T here when the reality is it's a class of high achievers that they believe can get a place at the selective schools which will inturn boost their own reputation. It is morally wrong to lock children into these tracks of ability at such a young age.

Orders76 · Today 07:51

If it's on the teachers own time and not official hours, it's like volunteering and of course it's allowed for people to spend their time how they wish.
Challenging it because you have a child who struggles makes you look jealous and as others said, race to the bottom.
Follow up for your daughter and perhaps ask the school if you can volunteer for a dyslexia group bookclub or something enjoyable for them.

Goldenbear · Today 08:01

Orders76 · Today 07:51

If it's on the teachers own time and not official hours, it's like volunteering and of course it's allowed for people to spend their time how they wish.
Challenging it because you have a child who struggles makes you look jealous and as others said, race to the bottom.
Follow up for your daughter and perhaps ask the school if you can volunteer for a dyslexia group bookclub or something enjoyable for them.

If you work for a school you are representing the school and you have to uphold Teaching Standards where the stipulations equate to practicing equitable teaching. In a state school, a teacher can't just disregard this because they are not being paid for the teaching!

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · Today 08:02

Usually in primary top achievers are not stretched to reach their full potential. They are taught what the of the class is being taught which is far to easy for them. The rest of the class gets priority during actual lesson time. Top achievers also need the opportunity the reach their full potential. About time to.

Goldenbear · Today 08:06

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · Today 08:02

Usually in primary top achievers are not stretched to reach their full potential. They are taught what the of the class is being taught which is far to easy for them. The rest of the class gets priority during actual lesson time. Top achievers also need the opportunity the reach their full potential. About time to.

So you think those that are average or above average are getting prioritised in state schools?

Justbecauseyoucandoesntmeanyoushould · Today 08:07

Try reframing it. Consider being gifted or talented as a special need. Because it is. It requires different approaches, different resources and opportunities to learn in ways that meet the needs of those individuals. Just as your child needs learning opportunities to meet her needs which, from what you have said, the school is providing. You seem dissatisfied with how they're doing that so make that your mission, rather than criticising the school for taking steps to meet the needs of a group of children who are so often given little input on how to fulfil their potential. They are entitled to the right support just as much as your child is. Every child matters, including the most able.

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · Today 08:07

Beepboobeep · Yesterday 21:36

Happy for them to have clubs if those that need it have support first.

So you are putting your child above the needs of others. High achievers also need support to reach their full potential.

Orders76 · Today 08:10

Goldenbear · Today 08:01

If you work for a school you are representing the school and you have to uphold Teaching Standards where the stipulations equate to practicing equitable teaching. In a state school, a teacher can't just disregard this because they are not being paid for the teaching!

But they can have a variety of clubs, which I assume they do. We can't go around banning lego club, drawing club. Likely the more positive thing to do is volunteer or ask for book/movie club, which everyone can access.

Goldenbear · Today 08:12

Justbecauseyoucandoesntmeanyoushould · Today 08:07

Try reframing it. Consider being gifted or talented as a special need. Because it is. It requires different approaches, different resources and opportunities to learn in ways that meet the needs of those individuals. Just as your child needs learning opportunities to meet her needs which, from what you have said, the school is providing. You seem dissatisfied with how they're doing that so make that your mission, rather than criticising the school for taking steps to meet the needs of a group of children who are so often given little input on how to fulfil their potential. They are entitled to the right support just as much as your child is. Every child matters, including the most able.

Have you read the OP- how likely is it in a Grammar school catchment that this school has a whole class of G&T- how are you defining this? Surely a whole class of G&T somewhat dilutes the definition of G&T.

Being high achieving is not a special need.

Meadowfinch · Today 08:17

It isn't about "getting full marks" OP, it's about children being challenged and working to their potential.

If more able children are not stretched, they can get bored, angry, frustrated, turned off learning, and store up trouble for the future.

The most able children need & deserve every bit as much attention as the less able.

I'm sorry the school isn't providing proper sen support. That needs adjusting but not necessarily at the cost of the others.

Octavia64 · Today 08:26

Ex maths teacher.

i’ve worked in schools where the deal was everyone had to run an after school club but it was your choice what you ran.

i’ve run chess, philosophy for children, brass band and intro to classics depending on my mood at the time and what I was interested in. From a school point of view they want a good range of clubs for kids to be able to choose from so don’t usually control too much what people offer, except to stop clashes (and even then they’ll usually do stuff like split by age rather than make a teacher change).

they’re voluntary and unpaid.

separate to that, there is a fairly big push at the moment for providing access to maths beyond the school curriculum for kids whose parents do not have access to tutoring and ability to access other sources.

there’s a lot of funding for specialists to run maths circles for gifted and talented students at maths who are also pupil premium (in care, low income etc). Some of the teachers involved in this also run maths circles at local schools.

it’s not extra lesson input, it’s a totally different environment.

the expectation for students with dyslexia is that their needs are addressed within the classroom or by the Senco so optional clubs isn’t really the place.

in the same way that Lego therapy was briefly a thing for autism - but that is very different from running an afterschool club where the kids get to play with Lego.

Octavia64 · Today 08:28

Goldenbear · Today 08:06

So you think those that are average or above average are getting prioritised in state schools?

State schools in primary teach to the average.

the teacher is then expected to differentiate the material to provide support for the children with additional needs and extra challenge for those who need it.

most schemes are written like this. So yes.

ex teacher.

HelpMyBlackLabradorVotesReform · Today 08:31

Beepboobeep · Yesterday 21:25

This is my point - surely more teacher time should be given for the children struggling. I’ve been pleading for this support and it’s not been forthcoming.

It will be. The kids that are struggling will be talking up teacher time all day every day, whilst those at the top will have to spend time doing worksheets on their own or "helping" those behind them

HelpMyBlackLabradorVotesReform · Today 08:34

Tinkalinkalink · Today 07:09

Omg

The big reveal... well we are sending her to private school...

Rage bait nonsense

Super ironic as well as private school are renowned for focusing on those who get results and managing out weak students.

Scarcityvarcity · Today 08:35

Are they doing this to level the playing field for those that can't afford extra tutoring. This happened where I lived although the grammar schools themselves did it and I think (knowing the students that went) they were only provided to those who had been on pupil premium at some point in the last few years.

Soontobe60 · Today 08:35

Maisy84 · Yesterday 21:17

I think it would be fine if they were giving the same provisions to those needing additional support and those in the middle, but only giving additional resource to children already exceeding is about supporting the school results and not the children and is poor form, I’d challenge it.

I bet you wouldn’t if your DC were one of those in the top group who were bored of not being stretched in class. I bet you’d welcome it.

SuddenDaredJelly · Today 08:36

You are getting very mixed up op.

The after school sessions these DC attend are a club. A fun activity. It is not lessons, it is not tutoring. You would find the content is extremely different from what is on the curriculum. Often things like this can be funded because:

  • maths charities or universities offer grants for them in a desperate bid to reverse the impacts of 20 years of more able DC being left to fester
  • pupil premium funds where these activities are provided for the direct benefit of children eligible for that money
  • a teacher who loves maths & is choosing to do this for fun outside their working hours (this should be celebrated).

Tutoring/offering a struggling child intervention is not fun, for either the child or the adult. It can pressure the child to be made to stay longer after school for intensive work in subjects they struggle in.

You need to separate out the school offering this fun club, from their failure to provide more support for your DC. The two are not linked.

summertree1 · Today 08:37

Yeh you’re being selfish. As a society we should be boosting the top talent so that they can go on to achieve great things, not just focussing on helping those at the bottom.

ExpectMore · Today 08:37

Somewherenorthofhere · Today 06:45

Yes OP is all over the place.

From the ton of her posts she was also clearly outraged that other parents have their kids tutored outside of school....but then a few posts later (after pps said "well you could do that too") says oh well actually I do I spend two thousand pounds a month on tutoring etc 🤨

If this thread is real (big IF) ... I only hope the OP is not passing this victim mentality onto her child; it will do far more damage than any inconsistent after school club.

Agreed

Spiffingdarling88 · Today 08:39

What are you doing to help? My children struggled in years 1&2 and I realised the only person that could make a difference was me. Everyday we done English and Maths for 30 minutes after school and longer on a weekend. Both now at grammar school and flourishing. Stop focusing on others and concentrate on yours

Timeforachange26 · Today 08:39

Beepboobeep · Yesterday 21:22

My point is they are giving MORE time to those already getting full marks than those struggling.

We live in an area with two of the top grammar schools in the country (no catchment) and border two grammar areas where kids out of area have to get extremely high marks to get in to them. 70% of the kids will go to grammar from this school. They are already heavily tutored outside of school. When asked how they spent the summer it was in 11+ camp 5 days a week.

Why should they get more free teacher hours on top than children that need more support?

Why not? I bet you would feel differently if it was your child that was bright. Kids that are bright and not challenged can often get up to mischief or lose motivation as they are bored while the teacher deals with getting lower achievers up to average. About time the balance was redressed

SuddenDaredJelly · Today 08:43

The reality is as well, sometimes the resource on the less able doesnt even help.

My siblings DC has discalculia. Years and years of intervention & expensive tutoring basically have not really made much difference, and they still have not reached the expected level. It hasnt increased their confidence and they still hate maths.

In the nicest way, it has probably been a waste of time & money and its probably frustrating for other parents that so much resource goes on that child over their own.

Scarcityvarcity · Today 08:44

Beepboobeep · Yesterday 21:30

😂😂😂😂😂😂 We must live in very different areas. These children are HEAVILY tutored outside of school already. They went to 11+ camp 5 days a week between yr 4 and yr 5, they will between yr 5 and yr 6. Few have a natural ability, they are tutored towards an inch of their lives as it is. They don’t need more when those that could do with support are forgotten

Not all parents can pay for tuition. They are probably trying to level the playing field for those that can't. Why would you object?

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