To make a complaint that at an awards ceremony at school, the head teacher commented on every single girl, that got an award looks, yet didn't say one word regarding a single boys looks?

[Beefybaby]

I mean I feel ungrateful but it made me feel so uncomfortable,so it was a special assembly that parents attended where one boy and one girl from each class wo an award for the previous year

the head that's usually pretty good in general, yet in every mini speech he gave about the children, every single girl had some sort of comment about being gorgeous...just made me rage
Alongside all the other comments about how hard working they are, their good values like kindness etc yet there wasn't one single comment regarding any of the boys looks

It's just so insidious and depressing

So why use different words?

Yeah, how strange?! Unless he somehow got himself into a trap by blurting out one of them was 'lovely/looks pretty' as they'd clearly made a big effort with their outfit/costume.

Then thought he'd better say it for all the girls so not to look favouring of this one?! Not realising he was not thinking of the boys at all. Or he could've just said a positive attribute about each of the kids that wasn't reliant on looks or sex.

He sounds inexperienced at best!

Yeah apologies, misread. Logic still stands though

Not really, because of what the HT is accused of.

Can you contact the Headteacher, rather than making an external complaint about him? If he's generally well-intentioned he might take feedback well (although it is depressing that this is still seen as a good way to praise girls, even unconsciously). Sounds like he just needs to be a little more aware.

Being aware is part of his job, he's got no excuse.

"Yeah, how strange?! Unless he somehow got himself into a trap by blurting out one of them was 'lovely/looks pretty' as they'd clearly made a big effort with their outfit/costume.
Then thought he'd better say it for all the girls so not to look favouring of this one?"

"They all have lovely bottoms!"

Rumours and speculation?
Your comments are giving mens rights vibes.

It's fine to raise it. Something like
"I don't know if you realised you were doing it, but you commented on the appearance of every girl and none of the boys. You will be aware girls already face a lot of societal scrutiny and pressure over their appearances, far more than males do. I fear comments such as yours inadvertently contribute to this climate. Perhaps for balance either compliment both the boys and the girls, or neither."

A few years ago my work had a joke awards ceremony OP, and one of the awards- in our 99.9% female workforce - was for "most smiley." And no, we weren't auditioning for Miss World. Apparently no one had thought it might be a shit idea. Call it out OP, people just don't think. I'm guesding he will realise he wouldn't feel right saying the boys are handsome and he might stop and have a think about why.

*"I don't know if you realised you were doing it"?
What? Unless he was having a strange episode, of course he knew!

This sounds really bad OP. I wouldn’t like this at all. I would complain as it was witnessed by loads of people. I remember I had a boss when I taught who winked at me and students and I did not like this at all.

More fool you then

I know. Imagine putting up with that.

So why only applied to the girls?