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Would you kill 10000 people to save the person you love most?

438 replies

CurdinHenry · 05/10/2026 19:12

Context -

You would just have to press a button and you wouldn't have to see it happen

You would be guaranteed not to know any of them beforehand

No one would know it was you unless you confessed

Yanbu yes
Yabu no

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Shloopie · 05/10/2026 20:31

Christ, it's all gone very Peter 'I luv my kids' Andre in here.

nomas · 05/10/2026 20:31

Yesitsweird · 05/10/2026 20:29

Objectiveley not. But if I could save them by killing 10000 people I wouldn't think twice.

We’d rather the 10,000 people
please.

Yesitsweird · 05/10/2026 20:34

nomas · 05/10/2026 20:31

We’d rather the 10,000 people
please.

I'm sure you would, that's how any outsider would feel, obviously.

Do you have kids?

Snowie99 · 05/10/2026 20:34

Yes probably. I don’t really like people

Eyesopenwideawake · 05/10/2026 20:35

Multiply your pain by 10,000 and then answer.

Blankitout · 05/10/2026 20:35

Shrigley · 05/10/2026 20:29

He's not talking about whether it's justifiable. I think the point is more that many of us would do things which are completely unjustifiable (objectively) to saved our loved ones.

Really?
I think the whole point of his hypothetical question about violence and killing is to try and prove that women are just as bad as men. And he must be delighted by the posters on his thread who are falling over themselves to say they would murder multiple people without any moral qualms at all.

VioletsTale · 05/10/2026 20:36

SmallDFartyCarNRG · 05/10/2026 20:09

Who would want to live with that lie hanging over them! It is so easy to see why men get blackmailed...

Saw what now?

VioletsTale · 05/10/2026 20:38

SmallDFartyCarNRG · 05/10/2026 20:09

Who would want to live with that lie hanging over them! It is so easy to see why men get blackmailed...

Say what now?!?

Shrigley · 05/10/2026 20:39

Blankitout · 05/10/2026 20:35

Really?
I think the whole point of his hypothetical question about violence and killing is to try and prove that women are just as bad as men. And he must be delighted by the posters on his thread who are falling over themselves to say they would murder multiple people without any moral qualms at all.

Really? I didn't get that from it at all. How would he even know whether people replying are male or female?

RumJerrySailorRum · 05/10/2026 20:39

I have no children.
I would have absolutely no hesitation in murdering the entire fucking world if someone hurt my beloved nephew.
I know it. He knows it. Everyone i know knows it.
Is it wrong?
Yes, absolutely.
Do I make apologies?
No
Would it actually happen?
No.
Does he need to know I'd follow through?
Yes.
Yes he does.

MrsPernicious · 05/10/2026 20:39

These 10,000 people...

Are they small boat immigrants?
Are they randomly chosen?
Are they left handed?
Are they Jewish?
Are they red heads?
Are they gay?
Are they disabled?
Are they Roma?

Who is choosing? Why are you going along with it?

History shows this does not go well.

BunkBedsArePeopleShelves · 05/10/2026 20:39

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Yes, of course they do. Men and women share a great many values, as you would expect.

What an idiotic comment.

TemperanceWest · 05/10/2026 20:42

No.

fmlnotagain · 05/10/2026 20:42

Yes I would, and I wouldn’t lose any sleep doing it

Imdunfer · 05/10/2026 20:43

No of course not.

And when it came down to actually pressing the button I don't think most the the people on this thread who say they would could press that button either.

Blankitout · 05/10/2026 20:43

BunkBedsArePeopleShelves · 05/10/2026 20:39

Yes, of course they do. Men and women share a great many values, as you would expect.

What an idiotic comment.

Nothing idiotic about it. I dont see anything to be proud of in taking on an acceptance of violence and killing being normal.

Shloopie · 05/10/2026 20:43

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CurdinHenry · 05/10/2026 20:59

LancashireButterPie · 05/10/2026 19:58

OP, Have you seen the play or read Arthur Miller, All my sons? You might find it interesting.

No and I feel a bit unworldly for it! Will check it out

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Blankitout · 05/10/2026 21:01

Shrigley · 05/10/2026 20:39

Really? I didn't get that from it at all. How would he even know whether people replying are male or female?

That's the point isn't it?
Certainly as a general rule I assume pp on MN are women unless they explicitly state otherwise - as OP has done on at least one thread I've seen him on.

So when pp come on to a thread expressing views that are generally from a male orientated view point - justifying male behaviour - the effect is to give the appearance that women are also on board with that behaviour. And because of the anonymity of the site it is often difficult to tell whether these are indeed women or men trying to create the illusion they are women.
We have no.way of knowing if the pp on this thread who would happily commit murder are men or women.

WhiteFramesandPlanes · 05/10/2026 21:02

Lonelycrab · 05/10/2026 19:37

What a lovely idea for a thread OP

🤣

alcovecupboards · 05/10/2026 21:06

To save my children? Without question. Even if I had to see it happen, it's not even a choice. I'd probably do it for the dogs too if I'm quite honest.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 05/10/2026 21:09

Those of you who are saying that you would kill 10,000 to save your children... would you be comfortable with your dc knowing what you had done?

I would be horrified if I thought one of my parents had killed so many innocent people to save me, and I think I would lose all respect for them.

I wonder if the answer depends somewhat on the age of your children and whether you can imagine them judging you for the decision!

VioletsTale · 05/10/2026 21:10

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 05/10/2026 21:09

Those of you who are saying that you would kill 10,000 to save your children... would you be comfortable with your dc knowing what you had done?

I would be horrified if I thought one of my parents had killed so many innocent people to save me, and I think I would lose all respect for them.

I wonder if the answer depends somewhat on the age of your children and whether you can imagine them judging you for the decision!

I just wouldn’t tell her?

ChocolateColours86 · 05/10/2026 21:13

I would do it to save my children without hesitation. It may be the wrong thing to do but I care more about my children than doing the right thing. I will always do whatever I can to protect them.

nearlylovemyusername · 05/10/2026 21:13

SmallDFartyCarNRG · 05/10/2026 20:10

Just a tiny point...they are also on this planet. You'd effectively nuke everyone to kill your own kids.
I am guessing you love a flag cape.

you're very practical

my DC have great sense of humor 😁

ETA: I guess it's important for kids to know that there is someone who will do anything for them.

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