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Would you kill 10000 people to save the person you love most?

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CurdinHenry · 05/10/2026 19:12

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You would just have to press a button and you wouldn't have to see it happen

You would be guaranteed not to know any of them beforehand

No one would know it was you unless you confessed

Yanbu yes
Yabu no

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Scunnygal · 05/10/2026 20:14

I'd do it for my child. I don't think I'd feel too guilty about it nor suffer mentally afterwards. Certainly no where near as much as I would with the grief of losing my child.

Awkwardisfunny · 05/10/2026 20:15

CurdinHenry · 05/10/2026 19:12

Context -

You would just have to press a button and you wouldn't have to see it happen

You would be guaranteed not to know any of them beforehand

No one would know it was you unless you confessed

Yanbu yes
Yabu no

For sure. We take action every day that hurts others and we don't care because we don't know them.

Also: flip it around. Would I kill someone I love for strangers I know nothing about? No. That would be terrible and cause actual guilt.

Shloopie · 05/10/2026 20:15

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GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 05/10/2026 20:17

No and I can’t understand how anyone could.

Awkwardisfunny · 05/10/2026 20:17

boredsmored · 05/10/2026 20:10

I don’t think i could live with myself so it would be a miserable existence

But you'd be torn by the guilt of having chosen to kill the person you love the most. It's an either / or situation.

Butchyrestingface · 05/10/2026 20:19

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Wouldn't be much of a world for his kids to live in after he'd nuked every other human being on it.

They'd probably last about 5 minutes. Sad

MandemChickenShop · 05/10/2026 20:20

I draw the line at 9,999.

LadyWiddiothethird · 05/10/2026 20:21

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Comtesse · 05/10/2026 20:22

caringcarer · 05/10/2026 19:51

I love my DC more than anything but no I wouldn't murder 10,000 people for them.

Me neither.

Comtesse · 05/10/2026 20:24

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Yes fair point. Surely there is a better place on the internet for this?? Tsk!

Yesitsweird · 05/10/2026 20:25

Yes but only for my kids

PolkaDotPorridge · 05/10/2026 20:26

ExpectMore · 05/10/2026 20:09

Eh? Give your head a wobble. I’m delighted she got to watch Ms Pike suffer and will hopefully get to watch it all over again. Pike deserves everything she gets, her crime was heinous

Absolutely agree!

BunkBedsArePeopleShelves · 05/10/2026 20:26

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I'm a woman and I agree with him.

Stade197 · 05/10/2026 20:27

Yes, id do anything for my son

nomas · 05/10/2026 20:28

Yesitsweird · 05/10/2026 20:25

Yes but only for my kids

No one’s kids are worth 10,000 people.

HappyLizard23 · 05/10/2026 20:28

BunkBedsArePeopleShelves · 05/10/2026 20:26

I'm a woman and I agree with him.

Same. I would to save those I love.

Yesitsweird · 05/10/2026 20:28

BunkBedsArePeopleShelves · 05/10/2026 20:26

I'm a woman and I agree with him.

Same, I'm shocked people wouldn't. I have never loved anything like i love my children and I would do anything for them

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 05/10/2026 20:28

I love my dd more than anyone in the world, but I wouldn't kill an innocent person just to save her - let alone 10,000.

Apart from anything else, I know my dd well enough to know that she would be horrified by the idea of an innocent person dying just to keep her alive.

I would rather kill myself than make that decision and live with it in either direction. I would kill to defend my dd from someone who was threatening her though.

Hedjwitch · 05/10/2026 20:28

No. I dont have the right to kill multiple innocent people and neither does anyone else.

nomas · 05/10/2026 20:29

BunkBedsArePeopleShelves · 05/10/2026 20:26

I'm a woman and I agree with him.

Your child is not worth killing the whole world for. No one’s is.

Yesitsweird · 05/10/2026 20:29

nomas · 05/10/2026 20:28

No one’s kids are worth 10,000 people.

Objectiveley not. But if I could save them by killing 10000 people I wouldn't think twice.

maxandru · 05/10/2026 20:29

What a weird weird thread.

Blankitout · 05/10/2026 20:29

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He's not talking about whether it's justifiable. I think the point is more that many of us would do things which are completely unjustifiable (objectively) to saved our loved ones.

nomas · 05/10/2026 20:30

Yesitsweird · 05/10/2026 20:28

Same, I'm shocked people wouldn't. I have never loved anything like i love my children and I would do anything for them

You would kill the whole world for your children?

Isn’t it cruel to subject your child to being the only person left on this Earth?

How long would they survive alone?

Very cruel.

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