Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Would you kill 10000 people to save the person you love most?

438 replies

CurdinHenry · 05/10/2026 19:12

Context -

You would just have to press a button and you wouldn't have to see it happen

You would be guaranteed not to know any of them beforehand

No one would know it was you unless you confessed

Yanbu yes
Yabu no

OP posts:
Thread gallery
5
Chocolattecoffeecuppaa · 06/10/2026 21:05

McSilkson · 06/10/2026 20:58

Cool story, bro.

You'd better hope you're not on the other side of that one day

restingbitchface30 · 06/10/2026 21:05

My kids yes. I would kill anyone for my children. Partner, no. I love him but it’s not that unconditional kind of live

PrettyLittleRose · 06/10/2026 21:05

McSilkson · 06/10/2026 21:02

No, some of them would allegedly kill every single person on the Earth (including their other relatives)! And with their bare hands, no less! And they'd lose no sleep about it! And they really, really want us to know just how much they don't give a shit about the rest of humanity.

They're falling over themselves to outdo each other in the psychopathy stakes. Preposterous or deeply alarming stuff, depending on how you look at it.

100% this. ^

ThatLemonBee · 06/10/2026 21:06

Chocolattecoffeecuppaa · 06/10/2026 21:05

You'd better hope you're not on the other side of that one day

If I am I will defend them to death . I don’t think loving your loved ones unconditionally is abnormal in any way .

PrettyLittleRose · 06/10/2026 21:08

ThatLemonBee · 06/10/2026 21:06

If I am I will defend them to death . I don’t think loving your loved ones unconditionally is abnormal in any way .

I don’t think loving your loved ones unconditionally is abnormal in any way .

Your post where you said you'd kill nine billion people with your bare hands is though.

hint: only 8.3 billion on the planet, so good look with that hun!

Shloopie · 06/10/2026 21:08

Chocolattecoffeecuppaa · 06/10/2026 21:05

You'd better hope you're not on the other side of that one day

I'm getting such strong Jay from the Inbetweeners vibes from so many on this thread

Would you kill 10000 people to save the person you love most?
ThatLemonBee · 06/10/2026 21:09

RatsCatsandPuppies · 06/10/2026 20:25

I’d kill 10,000 people to save my cat.

Maybe not the cat but I would for the dog 😉

PrettyLittleRose · 06/10/2026 21:09

Shloopie · 06/10/2026 21:08

I'm getting such strong Jay from the Inbetweeners vibes from so many on this thread

😆

EmeraldShamrock000 · 06/10/2026 21:11

Woukd people really kill thousands of innocent people to save a loved one? I can understand murdering someone who was an active threat to my family. Choosing to wipe out innocent lives even for my beautiful child I’d think twice.

nomas · 06/10/2026 21:12

PrettyLittleRose · 06/10/2026 20:59

Ghastly isn't it? As you say, the glee in the posts is sickening.

And I would push 'the button' twice, three times, four times....

Big wow, aren't you quite the 'ardcase? 🙄

They're not even making sense. You would only need to push 'the button' ONCE!

Just illustrating the level of intelligence really.

Exactly. It’s the same as when a child killer or paedophile is jailed, the MN massive queue to make well ‘ard comments like ‘give me 10 minutes alone with him’ or ‘I would kick the shit out of him’.

And I’m thinking - get back in your box, you aren’t doing shit! Let the prisons do their job.

TotaleclipseinFrance · 06/10/2026 21:12

restingbitchface30 · 06/10/2026 21:05

My kids yes. I would kill anyone for my children. Partner, no. I love him but it’s not that unconditional kind of live

I think this is very reasonable and with another adult they may be the sort of person who'd want you to save 10,000 others.
My dh probably would want others saved. So this would make it a more nuanced decision.
I would miss him but wouldn't feel so bad as it really would be what he wanted.

With own children though I'm pretty sure most would save their own children when it came down to it.

PrettyLittleRose · 06/10/2026 21:13

@EmeraldShamrock000

Would people really kill thousands of innocent people to save a loved one?

Ooooh yeah, some people would kill them WITH THEIR BARE HANDS no less. One poster said they would kill NINE billion people to save a few 'loved ones.' Even though there is only 8.3 billion people on the planet! 😆

ThatLemonBee · 06/10/2026 21:15

PrettyLittleRose · 06/10/2026 21:08

I don’t think loving your loved ones unconditionally is abnormal in any way .

Your post where you said you'd kill nine billion people with your bare hands is though.

hint: only 8.3 billion on the planet, so good look with that hun!

Don’t be ridiculous please just because you don’t agree don’t show how petty and silly you can be ! We dont all love the same way , we don’t all react the same way , we don’t all have the same courage or cold blood . I would do anything to protect my children . I have been in a position where they where in direct danger ( 2 of them not all 4 ) I know fully well how I react and how fast and without hesitation , o know it’s not the norm to everyone and that is fine maybe life took me there . Would I feel bad about killing innocent people ? 100% , would I even question it if the option was to see my children die ? No . And yes it is fine you don’t agree with it . We don’t all have to agree .

nomas · 06/10/2026 21:15

Chocolattecoffeecuppaa · 06/10/2026 21:05

You'd better hope you're not on the other side of that one day

Well, since the chances of @ThatLemonBee having access to a nuclear weapon that would kill 9 billion people is practically zero,I don’t think we need to ‘hope’ for anything except not to cross paths with people who think like this.

nomas · 06/10/2026 21:16

ThatLemonBee · 06/10/2026 21:15

Don’t be ridiculous please just because you don’t agree don’t show how petty and silly you can be ! We dont all love the same way , we don’t all react the same way , we don’t all have the same courage or cold blood . I would do anything to protect my children . I have been in a position where they where in direct danger ( 2 of them not all 4 ) I know fully well how I react and how fast and without hesitation , o know it’s not the norm to everyone and that is fine maybe life took me there . Would I feel bad about killing innocent people ? 100% , would I even question it if the option was to see my children die ? No . And yes it is fine you don’t agree with it . We don’t all have to agree .

Go on then, how did you defend your children? 🤣

iggy azalea GIF by Vevo
BloomingXmas · 06/10/2026 21:18

I would strangle someone with my bare hands for my children

nomas · 06/10/2026 21:19

BloomingXmas · 06/10/2026 21:18

I would strangle someone with my bare hands for my children

But would you strangle a chicken with bare hands for a dinner party? That’s the mark of a real,woman.

Shloopie · 06/10/2026 21:19

BloomingXmas · 06/10/2026 21:18

I would strangle someone with my bare hands for my children

You'd remove your Marigolds recognising the solemnity of the occasion.

ThatLemonBee · 06/10/2026 21:21

nomas · 06/10/2026 21:16

Go on then, how did you defend your children? 🤣

Edited

Not the post for it and it’s identifiable by the event . It’s not funny by the way people died , it’s not something I wish on anyone . I’m not replying to you anymore , for someone claiming a higher moral ground you should maybe not laugh about children in danger .

nomas · 06/10/2026 21:21

ThatLemonBee · 06/10/2026 21:21

Not the post for it and it’s identifiable by the event . It’s not funny by the way people died , it’s not something I wish on anyone . I’m not replying to you anymore , for someone claiming a higher moral ground you should maybe not laugh about children in danger .

So you killed people for your children?

SemiRetiredLoveGoddeess · 06/10/2026 21:22

CurdinHenry · 05/10/2026 19:41

Well what actually inspired it was reflecting on the limitations (or lack thereof) of the national welfare state (any nation that has one). You can help 10,000 people from another country and refuse at least some lifesaving but expensive treatments or services domestically or you can do the opposite. Someone is going to die in either situation and you have the power to choose who. You're actually choosing whether you press the button or not.

I was just curious about who would rather the strangers or the loved one. It might have been a better example if I'd said one stranger to save a loved one, on reflection.

This is a very poor and contentious example. Is this thread just a click bait?

namechangetheworld · 06/10/2026 21:22

PrettyLittleRose · 06/10/2026 21:04

I know, it's weird as fuck isn't it? People actually happily constructing posts saying how they would kill people who they don't even know WITH THEIR BARE HANDS, and literally kill NINE BILLION PEOPLE to save their loved ones!!!

Bit hard to kill nine billion people luv.. There's only 8.3 billion people on the planet! I rest my case about what I said in my last post!

.

Edited

Sorry you don't have any loved ones in your life. You're clearly rather bitter about it.

Hugs.

ThatLemonBee · 06/10/2026 21:24

nomas · 06/10/2026 21:21

So you killed people for your children?

No I did not but I defended them . But again people died so it’s not something I’m bringing here. .

Shloopie · 06/10/2026 21:24

The netmums takeover is complete 😂

elm26 · 06/10/2026 21:25

For my children, without hesitation.

Swipe left for the next trending thread