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To be glad triple lock going and hope they means test it too

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Randomamsi · 29/09/2026 19:50

I have a multi millionaire senior relative who receives £1,400 from the state pension each month, in addition to 6k private pension.

He's not means tested and he's received that for 30 years. Yes, he paid into the system but he does not need it!!! He also had free uni, dirt cheap first house back in the 60s and retired aged 59.

Meanwhile the younger generation:

  • thousands in student loan debt
  • asset poor as can't get on the housing ladder
  • means tested for child benefit, tax free childcare etc
  • working until late 60s/ 70s

Why do pensioners have it easy while younger ones pay the price?

For vulnerable pensioners at risk of poverty, there should obviously be provision to help them, I'm not suggesting we let people starve. But multimillionaire pensioners or very asset rich pensioners do NOT need the state pension. It's about time things changed.

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OneFastPinkTraybake · 30/09/2026 12:57

Shadymeadow · 30/09/2026 12:50

You get training for that.

A female I know trained as a Prison Officer which requires no formal qualifications but needed -
Online Tests: Scenario-based judgments and basic number and reading skill tests.
Assessment Centre: An interview, a written test, and role-play exercises to check your personal values.
Health and Fitness: Medical screening, eyesight and hearing checks, and a physical fitness test.
Training Provided
Foundation Training: Once hired, you complete comprehensive training (such as the Prison Officer Entry Level Training) covering safety, de-escalation, and restraint.
Qualifications Gained on the Job: You earn professional credentials during your employment, including a Level 3 diploma.

You get training to have experience to work in customer facing roles. No you don't. If you apply for a similar role in Scotland you need customer facing experience

Differentforgirls · 30/09/2026 13:02

MrsJeanLuc · 30/09/2026 12:55

Yes, well, there are always boundary cases 😁.
Doesn't invalidate my point though

It does actually.

walrushurricane · 30/09/2026 13:02

Differentforgirls · 30/09/2026 12:16

Which other benefits do you pay into?

Contributions based job seekers allowance, new style employment support allowance, maternity allowance.

Differentforgirls · 30/09/2026 13:04

walrushurricane · 30/09/2026 13:02

Contributions based job seekers allowance, new style employment support allowance, maternity allowance.

So contributory benefits. Which means you're ENTITLED to them.

PigletJohn · 30/09/2026 13:05

cattussuperior · 30/09/2026 12:30

It’s damn stupid to think the state pension will ever be means tested because that would be a perverse incentive for people to stop paying (often hundred of £££ every month) into occupational or private pensions. Enjoy the money in their pockets in the here and now and get the full state pension.
Total opposite of what the govt wants and has encouraged people to do through auto enrolment

The people who want to whip up rage and hatred are flying the kite of means tested basic pension, or discontinued pension system, to encourage the rubes to get their pitchforks out.

ExpectMore · 30/09/2026 13:09

BIossomtoes · 30/09/2026 12:27

I’m not talking about people who are a bit dim. I’m talking about people who can barely function. There are a lot of them.

Presumably if they can barely function they’d qualify as disabled?

AllIwantForChrismasIsAKitchenAidStandMixer · 30/09/2026 13:10

Pepperlee · 30/09/2026 12:56

Sickening isn't it? Maybe their principles will stop them from accepting a huge inheritance. All this moaning because your relatives are extremely well off is incomprehensible to me. My inheritance when both parents died in the same year was a 9 year old sister.

I’m obviously not going to do that and I am obviously luckier than some. My point is that their situation is representative of a generation that is rolling in stacks of cash simply by virtue of being born at the right time - when things were much easier. My uncle who is 71 and literally moans that he has too much money and he doesn’t know what to do with it!!

He and his wife had relatively normal middle management professional roles so not particularly high earners

Laurmolonlabe · 30/09/2026 13:10

Randomamsi · 29/09/2026 19:50

I have a multi millionaire senior relative who receives £1,400 from the state pension each month, in addition to 6k private pension.

He's not means tested and he's received that for 30 years. Yes, he paid into the system but he does not need it!!! He also had free uni, dirt cheap first house back in the 60s and retired aged 59.

Meanwhile the younger generation:

  • thousands in student loan debt
  • asset poor as can't get on the housing ladder
  • means tested for child benefit, tax free childcare etc
  • working until late 60s/ 70s

Why do pensioners have it easy while younger ones pay the price?

For vulnerable pensioners at risk of poverty, there should obviously be provision to help them, I'm not suggesting we let people starve. But multimillionaire pensioners or very asset rich pensioners do NOT need the state pension. It's about time things changed.

Actually, maximum state pension is less than £1000 a month- so I don't know where your relative is living, but it isn't the UK if they are getting £1,400 a month state pension. You are just stirring things up.
Obviously no contributory benefit is means tested- it is a CONTRIBUTORY benefit and is controlled by how much you paid in, and is therefore completely fair.
The fact your relative also had their uni paid for is true of only about 10% of the A level students of the day- it would be paid for but ONLY if you were in the top 10%. 90% of A level students now go to university- paying for that was always impossible , and did not, nor should it, have happened.
The answer to this is very simple tax wealth not work, there is no need to try to make the idea of paying into a pension and then not getting it because you have done well to fly- just tax their overall wealth.

Differentforgirls · 30/09/2026 13:11

ExpectMore · 30/09/2026 13:09

Presumably if they can barely function they’d qualify as disabled?

Well, yes but they are still working.

ExpectMore · 30/09/2026 13:11

OneFastPinkTraybake · 30/09/2026 12:32

Not everyone who is disabled gets disability benefits

Well I don’t want to point out the obvious but perhaps that means they’ve as equal as chance as everyone else in that case then, all things considered? As if they don’t qualify then by definition they aren’t hindered

ExpectMore · 30/09/2026 13:13

SerendipityJane · 30/09/2026 12:43

You ,may quibble about the exact number, but £16 billion in unclaimed benefits should really be a national scandal.

Avoidance is entirely legal? How do you propose we force people to pay taxes they don’t legally have to?

I mean, using yourself as an example: how many taxes do you voluntarily pay that you don’t have to?

I’d hazard a guess the answer is: £0

Differentforgirls · 30/09/2026 13:13

You can qualify for disability benefits but not claim them.

Blondiebeachbabe · 30/09/2026 13:14

snowmichael · 30/09/2026 10:31

> who receives £1,400 from the state pension each month

You're a liar

People who get SERPS in addition to the Basic Pension
People who get SERPS in addition to the Basic Pension
People who get SERPS in addition to the Basic Pension
People who get SERPS in addition to the Basic Pension
People who get SERPS in addition to the Basic Pension
People who get SERPS in addition to the Basic Pension

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As Judge Judy would say "Put your listening ears on".

OneFastPinkTraybake · 30/09/2026 13:14

AllIwantForChrismasIsAKitchenAidStandMixer · 30/09/2026 13:10

I’m obviously not going to do that and I am obviously luckier than some. My point is that their situation is representative of a generation that is rolling in stacks of cash simply by virtue of being born at the right time - when things were much easier. My uncle who is 71 and literally moans that he has too much money and he doesn’t know what to do with it!!

He and his wife had relatively normal middle management professional roles so not particularly high earners

Edited

But that's your experience. My mum is 77 and she's not dirt poor but she's not rich either and she's certainly not entitled. She does not have stacks of cash and she did not have stacks of cash when I was growing up either. She was a single parent who often struggled.

Differentforgirls · 30/09/2026 13:15

AllIwantForChrismasIsAKitchenAidStandMixer · 30/09/2026 13:10

I’m obviously not going to do that and I am obviously luckier than some. My point is that their situation is representative of a generation that is rolling in stacks of cash simply by virtue of being born at the right time - when things were much easier. My uncle who is 71 and literally moans that he has too much money and he doesn’t know what to do with it!!

He and his wife had relatively normal middle management professional roles so not particularly high earners

Edited

Wait until you're 71 and people dismiss the life you've led.

strawberrybubblegum · 30/09/2026 13:15

OneFastPinkTraybake · 30/09/2026 12:35

Some people don't inherit anything. Its not something that people should assume is going to happen to them

Of course.

That hasn't changed between the generations. In fact Millennials are far more likely to inherit (and so have to pay the lower percentage of their earnings) than Boomers, whose own parents had lower home ownership.

Nonetheless, for someone who does inherit, the percentage of net income required doesn't change much between generations: 18% in 1995 versus 22% now.

And likewise, for someone who doesn't inherit, the percentage of net income required also doesn't change much between generations: 36% in 1995 versus 44% now.

The point is that it's not very different between generations. It just looks that way because you are comparing a 25 year old with a 60 year old.

The 25 year old is just starting out, and hadn't built up any assets - but is about to enter their productive years.

The 60 year old has been saving for decades and has assets - but is about to start spending that down over the next 30 years when they can't work.

It's a nonsense to say that it's unfair that the 60 year old has more than the 25 year old.

ExpectMore · 30/09/2026 13:16

Differentforgirls · 30/09/2026 13:13

You can qualify for disability benefits but not claim them.

I think you’re beyond the bottom of the rabbit hole

OneFastPinkTraybake · 30/09/2026 13:17

ExpectMore · 30/09/2026 13:11

Well I don’t want to point out the obvious but perhaps that means they’ve as equal as chance as everyone else in that case then, all things considered? As if they don’t qualify then by definition they aren’t hindered

I don't know what you are trying to say to be honest. You think because someone doesn't get disability benefits that they aren't actually disabled and have an equal a chance as everyone else. You're using the word hindered to apply to people who get disability benefits?

Differentforgirls · 30/09/2026 13:17

ExpectMore · 30/09/2026 13:16

I think you’re beyond the bottom of the rabbit hole

Am I? My youngest qualifies. Doesn't claim.

ExpectMore · 30/09/2026 13:18

OneFastPinkTraybake · 30/09/2026 13:17

I don't know what you are trying to say to be honest. You think because someone doesn't get disability benefits that they aren't actually disabled and have an equal a chance as everyone else. You're using the word hindered to apply to people who get disability benefits?

The point is that if someone isn’t on disability benefits (because they don’t qualify) then presumably they have as equal chance as anyone as making good life and financial choices. Refer back to the quote chain for context if you need.

OneFastPinkTraybake · 30/09/2026 13:20

ExpectMore · 30/09/2026 13:18

The point is that if someone isn’t on disability benefits (because they don’t qualify) then presumably they have as equal chance as anyone as making good life and financial choices. Refer back to the quote chain for context if you need.

I'm not sure how to say this. I'm disabled. It took me years to get disability benefits. That didn't suddenly make me not disabled. Some people who should get disability benefits get turned down for them

strawberrybubblegum · 30/09/2026 13:20

AllIwantForChrismasIsAKitchenAidStandMixer · 30/09/2026 13:10

I’m obviously not going to do that and I am obviously luckier than some. My point is that their situation is representative of a generation that is rolling in stacks of cash simply by virtue of being born at the right time - when things were much easier. My uncle who is 71 and literally moans that he has too much money and he doesn’t know what to do with it!!

He and his wife had relatively normal middle management professional roles so not particularly high earners

Edited

And once again, Millennials and Gen X are forecast to be the richest generations ever.

You just haven't got there yet.

DoraSpenlow · 30/09/2026 13:21

PigletJohn · 30/09/2026 11:55

I retired after April 2016, and I don't get "around £241"

It is not as simple as you think.

Me neither. I currently get £217.20 a week and I started getting my state pension in 2019. I worked from 17 until 60, so 43 years (was made redundant and was not minded to start looking for another job, who wants a 60 year old PA?). I was told I still would not get the full state pension to account for the years I was 'contracted out' due to paying into the company pension scheme. So they get you all ways.

Shrigley · 30/09/2026 13:25

Differentforgirls · 30/09/2026 13:04

So contributory benefits. Which means you're ENTITLED to them.

Parliament could change the law tomorrow and then you wouldn't be entitled to them. The contributory nature of the benefits is a limit on who can claim them, not a guarantee that they will always be available to anyone who has contributed.

Astrabees · 30/09/2026 13:25

AllIwantForChrismasIsAKitchenAidStandMixer · 30/09/2026 08:43

I generally see older people being far more selfish than younger people and I don’t mind being called ageist. I find the boomer generation rude, entitled and selfish on the whole.

I find this very strange. Which generation is providing a lot of free child care, and sometimes caring for older parents too. Which generation is doing voluntary work for charities, providing a large number of magistrates, IMB members and Lay Observers? Which generation provides the whole family of grown up children, arranges great Christmases and helps younger members of the family?
Who volunteers at the food banks? I think you will find most older people are generous spirited and community minded. Would you even think of making derogatory comments about "young people today" trans people, women or LGBTQ+ community? Age is a protected characteristic too. There is too much Ageism on Mumsnet.

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