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To be glad triple lock going and hope they means test it too

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Randomamsi · 29/09/2026 19:50

I have a multi millionaire senior relative who receives £1,400 from the state pension each month, in addition to 6k private pension.

He's not means tested and he's received that for 30 years. Yes, he paid into the system but he does not need it!!! He also had free uni, dirt cheap first house back in the 60s and retired aged 59.

Meanwhile the younger generation:

  • thousands in student loan debt
  • asset poor as can't get on the housing ladder
  • means tested for child benefit, tax free childcare etc
  • working until late 60s/ 70s

Why do pensioners have it easy while younger ones pay the price?

For vulnerable pensioners at risk of poverty, there should obviously be provision to help them, I'm not suggesting we let people starve. But multimillionaire pensioners or very asset rich pensioners do NOT need the state pension. It's about time things changed.

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Pennyfan · 30/09/2026 11:33

Blondiebeachbabe · 30/09/2026 07:34

YABVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVU

I have paid my stamps for 40 years, and I am STILL paying, and will do for another 10 years at least.

Anyone telling me I won't get a Pension at the end of it can FUCK OFF

It doesn't matter whether I have assets (I do). I was sold that dream at 16, and I have paid in, in good faith, for all these years.

If I don't need the money, it's my choice what I do with it - maybe I'd choose to support a grandchild to get on the housing ladder, maybe I'd splurge it on a cruise, who knows, but that's my choice to make.

I did what the Government asked of me - they told me that if I pay NI, that I will get a State Pension. They don't get to just decide when I'm 67, that despite me paying what they have asked me to, for 51 YEARS, that they aren't holding up their end of the bargain. They already moved the goal post by 7 years, which is bad enough.

And btw, you are moaning about the things you get now as a younger person, but let me tell you, you get lots of perks that we never had, like free childcare.

And also, the State Pension is a lousy £1000 a month - could YOU live on that?

OMG, I have the absolute RAGE now.

No one is telling you that. Why are you getting g so upset over something that isn’t going to happen.

OneFastPinkTraybake · 30/09/2026 11:33

Blinkett · 30/09/2026 11:30

yes but those with a mortgage have to heat and maintain their properties AND pay a mortgage, hence housing costs are lower, as I said. And heating a property isn’t generally considered a ‘housing cost’.

My mum bought her council house. Her neighbours didn't. They are pensioners and they pay the same in rent as anyone else who rents a house in the same area

Differentforgirls · 30/09/2026 11:34

KaleidoscopeSmile · 30/09/2026 11:29

Some of them are too fucking stupid to realise that the youngest of the hated "boomers" have six more years till they reach retirement age.

Most of them on here!

Yogafiend · 30/09/2026 11:36

Differentforgirls · 30/09/2026 07:40

It is.

Yes I know - my comment was regarding the OP and the hope they would means test jt

Alondra · 30/09/2026 11:37

I'm 64 and financially very comfortable. I always get cranky when I read posts saying my generation had it easy. We didn't. I had a mortage, 2 small children 5 days a week in child care and was tough to stretch money. For many years I didn't buy deodorant because I couldn't afford it.

The issues facing the younger generation today are different though. Few people can access the housing market without help from parents even on good incomes. Chidcare expenses, if you don't have parental support will drain your salary. And if (as still happens with women) you take part time to minimise the expense, the money impact on the family will be substantial, let alone your retirement fund.

Governments in any country can't afford to keep giving billions to older people with the means to have a good comfortable life. It's not sustainable anymore. It may have been decades ago but right now resources and tax payers money should go where are most neeeded - health, housing and childcare for families.

ExpectMore · 30/09/2026 11:39

lllllllllll · 30/09/2026 11:09

Not necessarily. Many people are poor through no fault of their own.

Can you give me examples please?

Blondiebeachbabe · 30/09/2026 11:40

GarlicEverything · 30/09/2026 04:54

If you must start goady, ageist threads, you could at least spend 90 seconds to get your facts right 😡

The full new UK State Pension is approximately £1,045.63 per month

The full Basic (old) State Pension is approximately £801.23 per month

"But I've seen the bank statements!" Bullshit in a bucket of batshit, Goady.

Fancy coming onto a thread with such a shitty attitude....and being wrong!

You clearly don't understand SERPS. Prior to 2016, high earners were able to build up a separate element to the basic pension, based upon what they actually paid every month in NI.

Then, when they drew their pensions, they had 2 "pots" - the basic state pension AND the additional state pension (SERPS) pot they had built. This additional pot is capped at £230.54 a week - this is on top of the basic state pension. This means some people get £415 per week/£1800 a month.

My Dad (born in 1942) worked from 1960 to 2007, and he received £1400 a month.

This all stopped in 2016.

BIossomtoes · 30/09/2026 11:41

ExpectMore · 30/09/2026 11:39

Can you give me examples please?

People of low intelligence who will only ever be able to do low paid jobs. They don’t choose that - who would?

OneFastPinkTraybake · 30/09/2026 11:48

ExpectMore · 30/09/2026 11:39

Can you give me examples please?

Some people with disabilities. People with caring responsibilities.

Livelovebehappy · 30/09/2026 11:49

CherryKerry · 30/09/2026 00:21

You can retire whenever you like, its up to you to commit to a decent private pension from your first salary payment if you want to achieve that.

Not really relevent though for tjose approaching retirement or even.with 20 years to go. Paying into private pensions wasnt really pushed a few decades ago. Younger generation just need to be adults and start a privste pension instead of being jeslous of others getting state pension. Because lets be honest the state pension wont exist in a few more decades when todays young/tomorrows elderly will be crying that the pension they want to deny others today isnt available to them. I dont agree with child benefit cap being removed. Same sentiment as displayed against pensioners on here - why should in i pay to support people who cant afford kids?!

1dayatatime · 30/09/2026 11:53

George Orwell who was very much a socialist once said " The left hate the right more than they love the poor ".

Think this through, if you means tested the state pension then you would completely disincentivise people from paying into a private pension. I mean what's the point of contributing money today into a private pension, especially given the current cost of living crisis, when all it means is that you will be disqualified from a state pension. This will then mean more people will be dependent on the state pension in future.

Socialism is a great idea in theory but in reality it doesn't work with human nature.

thatwasclose · 30/09/2026 11:54

Blinkett · 29/09/2026 20:15

You paid tax. You get a benefit.

State pension is NOT a benefit.

PigletJohn · 30/09/2026 11:55

Seymour5 · 30/09/2026 09:35

The New State Pension is around £241, but that’s only for those who retired post April 2016. I’m amazed so many people are unaware that older pensioners get a lot less basic SP than that, around £190. Many made extra contributions, such as something called SERPS which boosted their SP to the figures quoted by PP.

DH just gets the old basic SP. My SP is around £110. Lots of women like me, gave up work when DC came along, no NI credits, then paid reduced rate on low earnings, which didn’t contribute to the SP. I made up for it by joining a company scheme, but that just lifts us slightly over PC levels.

I retired after April 2016, and I don't get "around £241"

It is not as simple as you think.

SerendipityJane · 30/09/2026 11:56

thatwasclose · 30/09/2026 11:54

State pension is NOT a benefit.

Since it can pay out far more than was ever paid in, it's a benefit.

BIossomtoes · 30/09/2026 11:56

PigletJohn · 30/09/2026 11:55

I retired after April 2016, and I don't get "around £241"

It is not as simple as you think.

It’s age based, isn’t it?

1dayatatime · 30/09/2026 11:57

thatwasclose · 30/09/2026 11:54

State pension is NOT a benefit.

Err actually it is. The NI contributions you made whilst working went to pay for the pensions of those retired at the time and your state pension today is paid for by those currently in work.

There really isn't a special Government ring fenced pot of money labelled "thatwasclose" pension fund.

Lauren1983 · 30/09/2026 11:59

blackpooolrock · 30/09/2026 09:14

Tell me you're entitled without telling me.

Young people disadvantaged? tell me about it - most have an easy life but want everything for nothing and if they see someone better off than them they want it taken away - jealousy i think it's called.

Old people weren't driving about in new cars every 3 years, they didn't have subscription services but they did have rationing. There was no technology at all - no colour TV's, no phones - no nothing.

This argument never makes sense to me. Of course pensioners didn't have mobile phones when they were younger as they didn't exist! I would bet a large amount that the vast majority of pensioners have had a colour television for the last 35/40 years so not sure that counts for much either. I am only surprised there was no mention of outside toilets.

OneFastPinkTraybake · 30/09/2026 12:01

Livelovebehappy · 30/09/2026 11:49

Not really relevent though for tjose approaching retirement or even.with 20 years to go. Paying into private pensions wasnt really pushed a few decades ago. Younger generation just need to be adults and start a privste pension instead of being jeslous of others getting state pension. Because lets be honest the state pension wont exist in a few more decades when todays young/tomorrows elderly will be crying that the pension they want to deny others today isnt available to them. I dont agree with child benefit cap being removed. Same sentiment as displayed against pensioners on here - why should in i pay to support people who cant afford kids?!

I was paying into work pensions at the age of 26.

Blondiebeachbabe · 30/09/2026 12:05

lllllllllll · 30/09/2026 08:27

dh and I have paid our mortgage and the plan is to save for our retirement. Why should we be punished just because we have moderate savings and have worked all our adult life and paid into the system?

Because others need it more.

On that basis, you could say that a poor man has every right to break into a rich man's home, and help themselves to money from their wallet.

"They need it more"

Ah, that's okay then. 🙄

Manhattanman · 30/09/2026 12:06

thatwasclose · 30/09/2026 11:54

State pension is NOT a benefit.

It certainly is. The DWP class it as such. A lot of pensioners don't like to hear it called a benefit because they don't like to think of themselves as benefit dependent, but it's a benefit nontheless.

BIossomtoes · 30/09/2026 12:10

Manhattanman · 30/09/2026 12:06

It certainly is. The DWP class it as such. A lot of pensioners don't like to hear it called a benefit because they don't like to think of themselves as benefit dependent, but it's a benefit nontheless.

I think that’s debatable regardless of how DWP categorise it. Benefits aren’t generally taxable, the state pension is, it basically removes the personal allowance.

Blondiebeachbabe · 30/09/2026 12:12

AllIwantForChrismasIsAKitchenAidStandMixer · 30/09/2026 08:42

I agree conceptually it should be means tested however means tested always means that middle income people end up missing out and being poorer because they set the thresholds way too low. I would support a means testing if net worth was over £1m or something but not otherwise. This would need to be adjusted for inflation as in 30 years time I can imagine £1m being the cost of your average 4 bed detached home.

Pensioners do annoy me though (for lots of reasons not just this). They had everything handed to them and their lives are easy. I love my parents but they made £600k “downsizing” their house (just moved to a cheaper area) and have final salary work place pensions, my mum was able to be a sahm until my youngest brother was 6 and my dad has a masters with zero student debt. It’s not the sort of lifestyle that is remotely attainable now!

They had everything handed to them and their lives are easy

Oh do behave!

Your parents have obviously worked very hard for what they have, and when they die, you will be "handed" everything they have. FFS

PigletJohn · 30/09/2026 12:13

BIossomtoes · 30/09/2026 11:56

It’s age based, isn’t it?

It's not as simple as you think, either.

SerendipityJane · 30/09/2026 12:15

Manhattanman · 30/09/2026 12:06

It certainly is. The DWP class it as such. A lot of pensioners don't like to hear it called a benefit because they don't like to think of themselves as benefit dependent, but it's a benefit nontheless.

A lot of pensioners will receive more than they paid in.

Scroungers.

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